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 Rheanna

Joined: 3/23/2004
Msg: 1
I swear men are a puzzle...
Posted: 12/25/2004 8:07:11 PM
OK the so called b/f buddy what ever the heck you want to call it...

Yuh he's lucky I don't have my car right now or I would be doing something really mean just to get his attention. Like filling his whole car up with popcorn.

He calls me today, and I asked him if he wanted to watch some movies and hang out for a few. Oh no he would rather sit home and drink gin and go to bed. WTH! Then why bother calling me. He didn't even say Merry X-Mas. lol!

Us women need some attention men!! At least 5 minutes. lol

 blackmanx

Joined: 10/28/2004
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Posted: 12/25/2004 8:21:31 PM
MEN are a PUZZLE ? This is the strangest thing I've ever heard.
Men are easy to understand. Most of the time. Some MEN really are
different from other men. Women are next to impossible to understand.
Well, I've begun to figure a few things out about them. They are all
crazy. They can be worse than men when they want to be. They are far more dangerous than men. They dont like themselves. They dont trust other women.
They play tricky games instead of battling it out in the open most of the time.
Almost all of their fighting is sneaky and involves some manipulation and
deception. Men have reason-based intelligence. Women have emotional intelligence which can range from thoughtless rage and savagery to cold and well-planned deceit. I think women are fascinating. Wonderful at times. I aI think that the average female can be Worse than the worst of all men at times.

I would put limits on dangerous men in what they can do in their madness. I wouldn't put ANYTHING past an angry woman. I think they get away with murder far more often than men. I feel suspicious of most of them at all times. It's not misogyny. I just KNOW they should be watched closely because they are unpredictable and therefore dangerous. I respect them and sometimes love them but I've never, ever liked them. There's a difference there and I think all men, straight, bi or gay would agree with me if they were honest with themselves.


Call me crazy but my instinct still tells me that I would still prefer MEN
to rule this world. I think a lot of women and MOST men would agree
with me on this. Men are predictable. Women are not. I can rest easier knowing a predictable person is in charge. It makes for reliability. Which is what a society needs to survive.


Just my two cents.
 Rheanna

Joined: 3/23/2004
Msg: 3
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Posted: 12/25/2004 8:24:25 PM
If a women was president and ruled the world - all it would be is gossip! lol hehehe Now we have a man running the country trying to turn us into religious freaks.
 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 4
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Posted: 12/25/2004 8:36:54 PM
blackmanx... lightly veiled dislike...lol
yes our president is "very " pre"dick"ible
 firefoxspkn

Joined: 9/13/2004
Msg: 5
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Posted: 12/25/2004 9:02:02 PM
nope id say women are a puzzle
 GreyJay

Joined: 4/23/2004
Msg: 6
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Posted: 12/25/2004 10:00:08 PM
To a certain degree I agree with 'Manx. Women are very unpredictable, they can be angels and they can be absolutely the worst kind of she-devils. Any wonder why someone said "Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned". In the popular literature, there are as many quotes that praise women as those that warn us about them. Am I sexist? No. I just tell it like I see it.

Having said that though, I do not agree that men would be in a better position to rule than women. Realistically, we've had a patriarchial (sp?) society for centuries now, and every few years the amount of bloodshed I have seen caused leads me to believe that maybe, just maybe a matriarchial(sp?) society just might have answers we are looking for at this point. For I believe that a life giver would place a higher value on life than those who seek women just for a total of 5 seconds of pleasure by any possible lie that might be necessary to "get laid".

As for the puzzle that are men...well, very easy to figure this puzzle out...do NOT look for meanings hidden in expressions and words...just take everything at face value. Dwelling too deep on things said usually end up only confusing a woman more and more until the truth and thought up fantasies mingle together to create a picture that is far far away from any truth. Don't think or try to find a meaning...just WYSIWYG! (What You See Is What You Get)
 Rheanna

Joined: 3/23/2004
Msg: 7
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Posted: 12/25/2004 10:03:20 PM
I'm not dwelling or I would be drunk... yuh I just fill his car up with popcorn for being a lame guy...Open your eyes buddy... hahaha

Yuh we are over it's me and Reb now--His Pom Pom to my Chihuahua man after my own heart...
 guitarman100

Joined: 8/25/2004
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Posted: 12/25/2004 11:43:31 PM
men are easy to figure out
I guess I say that cause I am one
women juggle men like sponge balls
I have experienced it first hand
and men get a little gun shy when they sense it
 bio

Joined: 10/7/2004
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Posted: 12/25/2004 11:52:07 PM
I'm just guessing, but it sounds to me like he was the one who needed attention. A lot of people get depressed over the holidays for whatever reason, and he probably called you because of it. Of course, why didn't he want to hang out with you? Well, sometimes things don't make much sense.

- bio
 DragonRider

Joined: 7/15/2004
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Posted: 12/26/2004 12:10:53 AM
Sometimes? All I can say is, what a fool... If I had a girlfriend at the moment, there is NO WAY I would be sitting and drinking gin(well, personally hate gin anyway, but that is beside the point)... Hell, if it was just a friend that was all alone, I would be there, sharing, snuggled up and watching a movie or something... silly...

Any one that consciously CHOOSES to be alone and miserable, when there is a much more pleasant alternative at hand... silly and sad...

~~Dragon Rider~~
Dragon Tears, sad and magical at the same time
Merry Christmas...
 dnalion

Joined: 8/28/2004
Msg: 11
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Posted: 12/26/2004 1:57:39 AM
Merry Christmas (delayed, though) Rheanna and a VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR (a bit early).

Hope that in the New Year, men won't be puzzles and that your b/f will not leave you even for a minute.
 Rheanna

Joined: 3/23/2004
Msg: 12
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Posted: 12/26/2004 2:00:31 AM
^ Merry X-mas to you too....Oh we are done...LOL!
 SeaButterfly

Joined: 9/25/2004
Msg: 13
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Posted: 12/26/2004 2:27:07 AM
If a woman was president, we'd nuke a country every 28 days! (DJ Amy Sheckenhausen on K-Chat radio in GTA: Vice City)
 1oceanlvr

Joined: 11/13/2004
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Posted: 12/26/2004 3:22:08 AM
rheanna,

You're a bright women you already know that if this man isn't making you happy nor making you feel wanted you need to move on. In my opinion any man who wouldn't want to spend time with you has a serious problem and it sound's like his is called Gin.

Happy Holidays
 strangerstill

Joined: 12/20/2004
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Posted: 12/26/2004 5:46:26 AM
Ya know rheanna You ladies aren't exactly crystal clear.
 ~~Angel~~

Joined: 10/7/2004
Msg: 16
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Posted: 12/26/2004 6:01:03 AM
rheanna... I agree they are a puzzle...I have to believe they don't just wake up and think how can I screw her head up today??........But I do have to wonder sometimes...
rheanna...girl your beautiful.....tell him to **** off...... I did. feels greeeaaat!!
 Miss_Teeq

Joined: 7/12/2004
Msg: 17
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Posted: 12/26/2004 6:11:48 AM
Men are easy to understand, they only want 2 things...when a guy says he's a meat and potatoes kinda guy, it's translated into a "tits & ass" guy, lol. I'm kidding! Don't everyone get mad at me at once, please.
 ~~Angel~~

Joined: 10/7/2004
Msg: 18
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Posted: 12/26/2004 6:13:02 AM
funny^^^ lol
 BLUE316

Joined: 12/26/2004
Msg: 19
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Posted: 12/26/2004 6:14:57 AM
i really don't think he's into you, or maybe, he just likes to see you when he needs his satisfaction.. I dont think he really is 100% into you.
 indigo rose

Joined: 11/25/2004
Msg: 20
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Posted: 12/26/2004 7:56:25 AM
teeq...couldn't have said it better..woohooo !
 Rheanna

Joined: 3/23/2004
Msg: 21
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Posted: 12/26/2004 9:30:06 AM
Blue even when he does see me I get no satisfaction...lol - heck hardly any eye contact *L*oser
 taurus516

Joined: 11/3/2004
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Posted: 12/26/2004 1:03:51 PM
I do not agree that men would be in a better position to rule than women. Realistically, we've had a patriarchial (sp?) society for centuries now, and every few years the amount of bloodshed I have seen caused leads me to believe that maybe, just maybe a matriarchial(sp?) society just might have answers we are looking for at this point


We men might fight wars,but we also built the pyramids,invented higher mathematics and science and walked on the Moon.Matriarchal societies have existed in the ancient world.They didn't last long as there was no cohesion in the group,no progress and very little remains of their attempts at civiliaztion.Now before I get romped on and called a woman basher,this is not to imply that women have not played very important roles in the history of the civilized world.Indeed,they have motivated the progress of civilization as catalysts and their more traditional roles.
Rheanna your b/f sounds like an inconsiderate idiot.What's hard to figure out about that?Yet before you blame it all on him(we don't know all the facts here and what his side of the story is),ask yourself if at any time you have been a little high maintenance.That will kill a man's incentive to be nice to you.It does with me anyway.I steer clear of any woman who comes across as high maintenance.
Filling his car with popcorn or some other such nonsense is typical of a woman's scorn.A guy would just walk away and move on (unless he's one of those needy wusses who would act like a puppy that rolls over after it's been kicked and lick the master's feet),perhaps that's what you should consider.
I know couples who take turns playing ridiculous games like this back and forth with each other.They break up one week,the women sabotages the man's car,the man has her arrested (I actually knewa couple who did this),then a week later,they're back together only to repeat the idiotic cycle a week later.Is this what trips your trigger?Move on and forget it.Not worth a second thought.
 Tayven

Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 23
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Posted: 12/26/2004 1:51:14 PM
Lol, you think us men are a puzzle... Trying to figure out a woman is sometimes like a Rubic's Cube with emotions instead of colors...
 blackmanx

Joined: 10/28/2004
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Posted: 12/26/2004 1:52:25 PM
Maybe He is Gay !!!
 rideordieoreo

Joined: 12/24/2004
Msg: 25
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Posted: 12/26/2004 2:07:33 PM
i am gonna add my two cents and say men and women are both puzzling and when you find the right piece it will all make sense...
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