| Relationships with a person they really don't want
Posted: 12/4/2005 5:21:35 PM | Why do people in general create relationships with a person they really don't want to be with? Are they affraid to be independant themselves or just looking for some type of security blanket!!!!!!
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| JUST A QUESTION......
Posted: 12/4/2005 5:24:27 PM | | some people are afraid to be alone and lonely because they got used to having someone there all the time. | |
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| JUST A QUESTION......
Posted: 12/4/2005 5:24:41 PM | They do that because they think they MIGHT want to have more...they are just testing the waters.
That's what I think anyway....then,,,after they have tested them,,,,they can't let you down easy,,,so just say they want to stay friends.
I do it all the time. I am sure you have a sloo of friends that are girls that you initiated conversation with too....
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| JUST A QUESTION......
Posted: 12/4/2005 5:24:42 PM | I think it's because they are so in love with the idea of being in love that they delude themselves into believing they are.
Have you listened to some of the people here who have met someone? After a week they are like "oh my gosh I am so in love with him/her"...I never could have imagined how wonderful...blah blah blah...
There is no way they can be in love that fast when they don't even know who they are dealing with yet. Takes a bit longer than a few weeks to truly know someone. | |
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| Relationships with a person they really don't want
Posted: 12/4/2005 5:30:27 PM | | Me amd my husband didn't fall in love in the beganing, we grew on each other. We wanted to be with someone, and to be honest after 15 and half years we treat eachother better than the ones that tell each other in the beganing they love eachother. So people get toghter for different reasons, its the ones that lie, and cheat and abuse that I don't respect. | |
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| Relationships with a person they really don't want
Posted: 12/4/2005 5:40:32 PM | | I think it may have to do with settling just so they aren't alone. Some like the comfort of having somebody... anybody... there. I've been guilty of that in the past, I must admit. I get tired. | |
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| JUST A QUESTION......
Posted: 12/4/2005 7:44:45 PM | | True enough..But is creating heartship on someone else really nesessary!!!!I guess we all do it at one time or another.lol. | |
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| JUST A QUESTION......
Posted: 12/4/2005 7:52:31 PM | thi idea of being alone is worse then being with someone sh!tty.lol.sadly for some. | |
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