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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 12/28/2004 3:02:44 PM | never ever thought of myself as trash....hmm (but I have heard the saying b4)
same thing (well similar) to "sloppy seconds"...referring to dating someone's ex...whatever
hell, very few ppl hit gold the 1st time, just because some actually married and made an attempt...thats no different to dating a woman that's ever had a man in her life before, without the whole marriage thing.
as a divorced woman,I am not regretful of the marriage at all, and personally...this headline is offensive..I say again "whatever"----cuz who cares?
hope you never get anyone-divorced or otherwise---you suk,die alone | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 12/28/2004 3:45:13 PM | | Calling a divorce women trash really dos'nt have a poetic ring to it. But i'm sure you did'nt mean it in that sense. However in answer to your question. People divorce for alot of reasons. Some because they can't communicate any longer. Others for financial reasons or they simply just don't get along anymore. Another reason is they discovered they had nothing in common. Just because someone did'nt matchup well in there last marriage does not mean they can't be a perfect match for you. And i hope you come back with explanation for your headline because i'm sure you'll piss off more then the few people above. I"m keeping a open mind and i'm all ears. | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 12/28/2004 3:59:05 PM | WOW! THAT IS HARSH!!
Where there is a divorced woman would that not go to say that there is a dumb jerk like you sitting somewhere looking for another pray to marry and make her trash...
She is a person first, her marital status has not changed who she is. Circumstances have made her that way. Do you actually think that her life fantansy was to marry and go through and ugly, bitter divorce to be lonely and judged by insenitive people like yourself.
People are all treasures no matter race, creed, religion, circumstances, male or female. Yes, even you are a treasure inspite of you insensitive characteristics.
We are not suppose to judge our brothers and sisters... you never know baby maybe you will walk a mile in their shoes or someone close to you and you will see things from their point of view.
Looking for a reaction!! Guess you got it!! | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 12/28/2004 4:01:14 PM | I can only assume you posted this to start something, and succeeded. Marriages dissolve for many reasons, and guys are at fault at least as much as women. I am divorced and don't feel that I am 'trash', and despite some anger at my ex, she's not 'trash' either.
If one can find true love in this world, grab it with both hands and don't let go, and if he/she is divorced be grateful because if not you wouldn't have found them.
They say 2 out of 3 americans have some form of mental illness. Look at your two best friends, if they are ok it must be you!
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Roaul
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Joined: 4/14/2004
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 12/28/2004 5:07:08 PM | | You know what? I am a soon to be divorced woman, and it is not because I am trash! He is the one who was wrong in this marriage, and I continued to try to make it work! But if your opinion of a divorced woman is so harsh and judgemental, then I can understand why you are alone! My divorce is giving me the chance to find someone who will honor the vows of marriage, and appreciate what he will be getting! I never married with the intent of divorcing,, but just because I am does not mean anything other than the fact that I had the good sense to get out while my kids are young enough that they won't think that is how marriage is supposed to be. I feel sorry for you! Judge not lest ye be judged! | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 12/28/2004 5:16:40 PM | | Well, let's start out by defining terms. "Trash" is defined as worthless waste matter; something one throws away/discards. Now... what is it, exactly, that makes you think that a woman is divorced because SHE was thrown away? Perhaps, my dear, SHE is the one who threw out the rubbish. That would make her, simply, smart. | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 12/28/2004 5:21:54 PM | | Sorry, I was not done yet..lol. I honestly don't see how you came to be the age you are and can say you are looking for a woman long term, yet still ask if someone would date or marry a divorced woman, like a divorced woman is some type of inferior species! Divorce is kind of a state of being now, as common as single, married, or widowed! Because someone is unfortunate enough to have a marriage that does not make it for some reason does not make them less of a person than anyone else out there. It is not a flaw, or something to hide. And something else to point out, for every divorced woman out there, there is a divorced man....lol. So, you wanna ask if we would date a divorced man, some other womans leavings? Grow up and take a good hard look at the world around you! | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 12/28/2004 5:23:20 PM | | Nice attitude there scoob! Pretty much know where you stand .. so you're telling me all the women you date have never dated another guy? Cuz really if this is your attitude ..... Frankly, I think my ex is the one who needed dragging to the curb in my marriage! And from the other pov, I would aboslutely date a divorced guy .... and if he was the right one, yep, I'd marry him. | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 12/28/2004 5:32:14 PM | | hmmm, maybe I better clarify my post before I end up in hot water also!...I see nothing wrong with dating or marrying a divorced guy...it is the person, not their past history or status I am interested in. There is someone out there for everyone, and I don't care if my guy is single, widowed, or divorced!...lmao! | |
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 12/28/2004 5:43:20 PM | I see nothing wrong with marrying a divorced person, its the same as being in a long term relationship without the papers. I have been in a few long term relationships with people that have been in long term relationships previous to me, we all learn from them. What one person likes the other doesn't.
Who are we to judge people by the relationships they had, you live for the one you are having with them. Sometimes people aren't satisfied with what they have and desire something more and thats usually the reason why people break up. So as long as 2 people are committed and open with themselves and to each other any relatoinship can work whether previously married or not.
And as far as trash, no one should be considered as trash because we chose to be happy or at least chose to try and be happy. One day we all find our soul mates just takes some of us long then others. And who wants to settle with comfort when what they really want is love. | |
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xchuck
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Joined: 6/11/2004
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| would you date or marry a divorced woman?is another mans trash another mans treasure?
Posted: 12/28/2004 5:54:26 PM | | A divorced woman is a person in her own right. Anybody could be a 'trash' in our life especially one who is not able to leave their emotional baggage behind and still wants to get involved with you. All they would do is to hurt you in the process while they are almost mindless of the hurt and pain that they are spreading and inflicting on others. | |
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xchuck
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Joined: 6/11/2004
Msg: 23 | |
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