| Plz help.What do I do??
Posted: 12/7/2005 8:35:01 AM | Hey,
I really need advice.I was dating this guy named Vince.We brook up because he moved like 15 min away.I was in love with him.I still do love him.We were talking after we brook up.We even went on a date together.I know he has a hard life.Hes been in jail and he has troubles with drugs.He dont have a phone to call me.Hes dad is always working him so hard.Early morning till late night.Its been a week now.I havent talked to him.We left off with him saying he missed me more than life itsself and him saying he loves me.Well the problem is.I wanna go see him.I know where he lives and everything.But should I go see him?Even If he hasnt made the attemp to call me or anything?But I know its hard for him to.So i think it would be easier for me to go see himt see if he is ok.He has even told me before its much easier for u to come see me cuz he dont have a car and stufff like that.So what should I do??Go see him or just let it be and forget about him????
thx so your help
Danielle | |
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Posted: 12/7/2005 8:41:52 AM | if you care about jim, why not? I am a male though and would have to say If I wanted to contact you I would find a way. So that is hard for me to believe, even in jail they get a call you know. Be careful Good luck
Patrick | |
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Posted: 12/7/2005 8:42:10 AM | awww...
first off your young and very beautifull so ya got that goin for ya
You described a loser imo ...... but i understand you like him an awfull lot
just for your info...there alot of guys out there many of which are very successful and would love to find that speacial someone ..... dont limit yourself at such an early age ....
Maybe go out and have fun while ya can , and more than likely you'll find someone to fill your every need .... this would help keep your mind off of him as well | |
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Posted: 12/7/2005 8:45:56 AM | | If Jim wanted to see you he would... we always make time for what we want... get over him... ex drug user??? ex criminal?? do you not know that you can do better??? | |
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Posted: 12/7/2005 9:08:30 AM | Why women are constantly attracted to the "bad boy " losers and continually repeat making the same mistakes over and over in their chioce of men is way beyond me. I suppose some just don't want to learn ,or perhaps it's a bad habit they can't break. There are lots of good men out there who do have a bad boy side ;) . If you keep desiring losers , accept them for what they are and get on with your life. If he isn't calling you, then he's gotten what he wanted and isn't interested in you. That doesn't mean you have to keep acting like a lost puppy without him. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2005 9:08:53 AM | You sound like you need professional help!!!
You are co-dependant......He's a convict and he has a drug problem????????
Do you really want a man like that? If you do then get some help!!!!!
You are very beautiful and young.........move on girl!!! You will learn in time that you deserve better!!!
Love yourself! | |
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| Plz help.What do I do??
Posted: 12/7/2005 9:14:23 AM | | Im already going through enough HELL without you stupid idiots making your lil smart comments.For you information I am getting professional help.Thanks to all the ones that are real helpful | |
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Posted: 12/7/2005 9:14:43 AM | | exactly what ^^^ said... sounds to me like you might have some co-dependent issues that you know nothing about... might want to get the book "facing co-dependence" after i read it i realized how many things i needed to find out about myself before getting into a HEAALTHY relationship.. i know it sounds crazy, but it might give you some serious help and insight as to why you attracted this man... he sounds like a mooch and complete loser to me.... | |
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lowbud
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Joined: 11/18/2005
Msg: 9 | |
| Plz help.What do I do??
Posted: 12/7/2005 9:15:28 AM | | drugs, jail, no car, and he's not calling. - let it go. you deserve better. | |
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| Plz help.What do I do??
Posted: 12/7/2005 9:26:01 AM | Well I thought that you deserved better but after reading your defensive response.........
Call him.......you make a great fuked up pair!
We were just trying to help you girl but it sounds like you are beyond repair!
Sad for such a young thing!
Enjoy your unhealthy destructive LIFE! | |
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lowbud
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Joined: 11/18/2005
Msg: 11 | |
| Plz help.What do I do??
Posted: 12/7/2005 9:31:52 AM |
Im already going through enough HELL without you stupid idiots making your lil smart comments.For you information I am getting professional help.Thanks to all the ones that are real helpful
ya know.. don't let it get to you. you sound pretty darn normal for 18. I have daughters your age and it's amazing how familiar your situation is. these days it seems like everyone needs professional help... NOT. | |
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Posted: 12/7/2005 9:35:31 AM | She thinks she is going through hell now????????
Good God........ | |
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lowbud
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Joined: 11/18/2005
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| Plz help.What do I do??
Posted: 12/7/2005 9:38:19 AM | | yep.. all in prep for what the future brings... life sure sucks sometimes.. LOL | |
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~iiCe~
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Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 14 | |
| Plz help.What do I do??
Posted: 12/7/2005 9:38:41 AM | why do people ask for advice/opinions then get mad when they don't get the answers they want??
you are right honey.... he loves you.. wait for him... forever if it takes that long... he is a dream man....
jeez................ | |
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| Plz help.What do I do??
Posted: 12/7/2005 10:18:51 AM |
So what should I do??Go see him or just let it be and forget about him????
Just let it be and try to forget about him. Long distance relationships usually don't last anyway, so what's the point of going to see him? Move on with your life and you'll get used to not having him around. Yes, I suppose that's easier said than done but it can be done nonetheless. Surround yourself with your friends and family as much as possible if you keep thinking about him. Good luck. | |
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~iiCe~
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Joined: 7/26/2005
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| Plz help.What do I do??
Posted: 12/7/2005 10:20:30 AM | | idont know the situation sounds alil iffy to me go see him if you must but tell friends people whereyou are goingphone numbers safety stuffor betteryet takea friend | |
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Posted: 12/7/2005 10:29:33 AM | I really wish people would read the post before responding.......just a thought  | |
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| Plz help.What do I do??
Posted: 12/7/2005 11:08:23 AM | | Beauty and youth dont' mean much if you have shit for brains. Are you a drug user too? That is the only reason I can think of why you would be hooked onto this douche bag. | |
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| Plz help.What do I do??
Posted: 12/7/2005 11:21:24 AM | OK ya all...this is Dani's Mom and I've read the nice, helpful replies and I've read the crap...especially from the '****' man.Thanks to all that helped. I really appreciate it, you guys. Now, to the 'nasties' out there~is that all you have to do, sit on your fat asses and put down a sweet girl that is just seeking some advice? SHAME ON ALL OF YOU! She has been thru a lot and she doesn't need your smart, dumb ass remarks. No, she is NOT a drug user and that was a stupid remark. You all are a bunch of brainless, spineless ***holes! And don't you EVER say my daughter has shit for brains...you don't even know her...how can you be so cruel?? Rot in hell! | |
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~iiCe~
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Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 23 | |
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