| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 7:40:11 PM | im so hurt by my last relatoinship he took everything of mine .i want him to hurt as mch as i'm hurting. i know revenge wont be the anwer but if you were frauded out for everything you had and them some and left with nothing before xmas what would you do?i'm just really angry and hurt  | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 7:46:48 PM | Find a friend, rant, rave and cry until the *** is out of your system and then live your life the best you can.
Living well is the best revenge, and it is a sweet one too.
Really sorry this had to happen to you, especially at Christmas 
Edit: If he's really done something illegal - get his *ss arrested. That would be pretty vengeful and might spare someone else the same grief that you are going through now. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 7:47:50 PM | how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Lead a happy life.
Ultimate revenge.
However, if you were defrauded, call the cops ....or in the least, go to Small Claims Court. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 7:49:22 PM | | Lovely Lori, I know what your talking about. I was ripped off of over $128,000.00 by a woman that turned out to be a convicted felon. She was an RN when I met her, but the law was on the verge of catching up with her when I met her. She lived in my rent house and didn't pay rent, didn't pay the electric bill, got credit cards using my name for her use. When I finally evicted her, it made her so mad that she put sugar in two of my vehicles, scrapped my Jetta that I also had at the time. Stole from the house that I was living in that was right next door to the house that I was renting her. Almost everytime I left my house she would break in and steal something that she could go pawn. Finally, she moved away (to Salasaw)! The best thing to do is find someone better and don't look back, because hurting them back will only hurt you in the long run. I spent many sleepless nights dreaming of how I could pay her back and they were just wasted nights. Hate will only eat away at you. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 7:54:21 PM | Hmmmm sorry to see such! Anger and Hurt goes away. I could tell you ways of getting revenge and perhaps you'll feel great at that moment, Hell you might even jump for joy, but I also know that vengence with happiness only lasts so long. The best thing to do is try and get alot of support and love around you to help you make it through this tough time, and if you see the D.....I.....c.........w.....a......d....... (smile) for the smile in itself could become vengence enough. there is a somewhat saying "kill with kindness" then of course it's him who would be wondering what? I never hurt her what the hey...and that will kill him more that you show to him it never bothered you, even though it did....I'm trying realy hard to explain what I mean in type...but it's kinda hard ....I hope you get somewhat the Jest of it.
May your smiles of before this day.....brighten and bring you laughter and peace on another day. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 7:55:21 PM | Set some limits and standards and live by them. Example -- don't "loan" money, don't be a doormat, don't be a chump etc. Some people will test you -- those who test will eventually find their limit -- so set your limits. You deserve a good guy and don't forget it | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 7:56:12 PM | | revenge is best served cold but the above post is right. Best revenge is not being bothered by it. As for the $$$$ that's a tough one.... consider it a lesson learned and don't do it again. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 8:01:14 PM | Your beautiful
Meet someone good to you
Fall in love
live prosperously
maintain your health and physical appearance
And when you run into him years down the road be beautiful and he will always suffer more from that than anything you can do to him now
revenge is bad for the soul
it makes bad karma
but let justice be served | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 8:03:07 PM | | In the end, getting revenge will only make you feel worse than you do at this moment, and you don't need that...it won't change anything..what happened to you is awful, and I'm sorry.. People like that will get what they have coming some way or another, mark my words.. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 8:09:21 PM | If you truly loved this person if you do get your revenge chances are you will regret it later in life......
In the heat of the moment I have been very angry towards the one I loved, if I had ever acted out of anger to seek revenge I would be very upset with myself now that I have resolved the situation within myself...
Also, seeking revenge puts your livelihood in jeopardy as well, what if you get busted or if he decides to screw you over again for your act of revenge… negative actions breed more negativity, it is up to you to stop the chain of events and move on… his time will come!! | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 8:11:39 PM | revenge is not the answer... Live well, look fantastic, love wisely, some day when he least expects it he will see you looking your surpreme best and what he lost and he will live in regret...That is my 2 cents...  | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 8:18:01 PM | By seeking revenge you are only prolonging your pain and not moving forward. Don't worry if he's hurting as much as you. People like that will do damage to themselves over and over and over again. You don't need to hurt him, he will do it to himself.
Revenge is a dangerous game to play. He may retaliate even worse. The biggest revenge you can get is to take positive lessons from this and be happy. Years down the road when he's screwed himself over and over again and is feeling miserable you will be happy and content and he will be nothing but a distant hazy memory.
My suggestion, surround yourself with friends and family right now. Make sure you don't isolate yourself. If you isolate yourself you can obsess about this stuff. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 8:20:52 PM | Get yourself a high powered crossbow and shoot out all of his tires, at night...
Sorry...
This whole thread got a little happy shiny for my tastes... | |
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jimb77
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Joined: 8/30/2005
Msg: 20 | |
| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 8:26:19 PM | | Bang his brother, bang his father, bang his best friend.....okay, seriously, ignore him and live a good life but learn from your mistake. Don't let history repeat. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 8:28:39 PM |
im so hurt by my last relatoinship he took everything of mine .i want him to hurt as mch as i'm hurting. i know revenge wont be the anwer but if you were frauded out for everything you had and them some and left with nothing before xmas what would you do?i'm just really angry and hurt
Inspector Dragon can not help you unless You tell Me whats going on How were You frauded I'm curious??????..details please?? | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 8:36:11 PM | The bad thing about revenge is that it "never" feels good, and only feeds into more bad feelings.
And most often, if you go ahead and "do some sort of revenge," you'll wish you could take it back, as maybe you weren't quite finished with the relationship yet, but you just cemented it, or maybe you just made a fool of yourself.
Revenge is for weak characters and the strong can put their chins up and walk on.
Allow yourself to go through the five stages of grief that come with any loss:
denial
anger
bargaining
depression
acceptance
I feel a little "ignored" lately, and I'm either in denial or approaching acceptance......(hint) inside thing. | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 8:38:32 PM | The bad thing about revenge is that it "never" feels good, and only feeds into more bad feelings.
....maybe for some but not Me...........like the klingon proverb say revenge is best serverd cold......
Revenge is for weak characters and the strong can put their chins up and walk on.
...I disagree prt 2....many times I have been nice and walked away.......my walking away days are over....
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MattMo
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Joined: 12/6/2005
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 8:44:13 PM | I disagree here.
Revenge is the best feeling in the world.
If he really did you over that bad.....sleep with his father.....hire someone to steal the stuff back......
Don't physically harm him.....but play with his mind....tell him you tested positive for HIV....
This is all negated......however......if you did something to illicit the wrongdoing on his part.
You know.....cheating on him.... | |
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| how do you get revenge on someone you loved
Posted: 12/8/2005 8:47:55 PM | No way, go on, get all the poison out
and later, when really happy, life might dish it to you that he gets to see you shine, see what it is like when you love someone else
the funny part, the real revenge will be that you don't give a flying flip. | |
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