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 tallykatt

Joined: 7/7/2005
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/13/2005 5:56:16 PM
Hey hey all. Being am a nosy kinda gal, i figured i would ask those of you daring enough to answer...............................

Whats an instant turn on for you, This is something you hope your new love will do /say/etc......

and if they did it would make them almost perfect.....


Now the opposit, Instant turn off, ya know its all over when .............................

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 offkilter72

Joined: 5/9/2005
Msg: 2
SECRETS.....Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Posted: 12/13/2005 6:16:49 PM
Not so secretly, I want her to grab my ears and tell me what to do, and where. To end that session would be to discover she has a funk to her. This is all only relevant if I have a young lady in mind of course!
 MellyBabez

Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 3
SECRETS.....Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Posted: 12/13/2005 6:19:34 PM

i figured i would ask those of you daring enough to answer...............................


I'm daring. I'll answer. lol When he says "little girl" . Includes it in a sentence, ect..i get instantly wet, turned on. Perhaps it's because i have a fetish with older men? The whole older man/babysitter role really gets me going. I'll even go as far as to mention the daddie/little gurl fetish...


*shrugs* You asked, and Ive had a few Martini's tonite, so im open and talkative. :)
 Lord Temujin

Joined: 12/13/2005
Msg: 4
SECRETS.....Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Posted: 12/13/2005 6:19:46 PM
No big surprise I am sure..I like a girl to tell me to do anything and everything I can to make her scream...with pain or pleasure..dont much care, both ends with her getting off..*shrugs some*

Instant turn off...probably talking about..."The future" or children..hard to get in the mood when your mind leaves the room to debate the next step in your life.
 wingsandheart

Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 5
SECRETS.....Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Posted: 12/13/2005 6:23:31 PM
I want him to come up behind me while I'm busy doing dishes or something, move my hair to the side, and start kissing my neck very gently.......I'd melt if he did! Just to feel his breath across my neck.......WOW!
Also, if he whispered sexual enuendos in my ear......Yummmmmm!!!!!


Turn off? When he's checking himself out in the mirror.........
 mustangsally1273

Joined: 8/30/2005
Msg: 6
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SECRETS.....Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Posted: 12/13/2005 6:25:41 PM
Holding my face in his hands while going in for the kiss...just sets me off, and dirty talk of course!

Turn off: the same as Lord Temujin, "the future" stuff and/or marriage talk..but it would be me that leaves the room and out the door!!!
 A Funny Guy

Joined: 12/12/2005
Msg: 7
SECRETS.....Shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
Posted: 12/13/2005 6:30:35 PM
a stroke of my brow or whisperrrrrrrrring anything near my ear, hola,,, chup!
 tattooangel

Joined: 6/4/2005
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/13/2005 10:50:59 PM
a guy that smells like fresh cut wood

the smell of aspen cologne

most of all, a man that looks you right in the eyes while talking to you.

turn off.....guys who stand there like they are king Crap of Turd Island with VCR (visual coke residue) and spend half the night trying to figure out where to get more drugs....grrrr
 Captain Sargasmo

Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 12/13/2005 11:02:11 PM
turn on?

a woman who dresses feminine. skirt, dress, whatever. jeans just look too manly. i understand it's winter now, and up here in Canada there's 7 feet of snow and the polar bears are wandering the streets, so i can forgive a little bundling up...

but i love nothing more than when a woman is feminine. i don't mean submissive or demure or anything like that (tho, there's a time and place for that too! )...i mean she does her makeup, wears something nice, smells good...

oh...and let's not forget that smoky look all women are able to pull off...i don't know about other guys, but when i do it, i just look sleepy. when a woman does that sultry, half-lidded gaze...wow! she has my full attention, and nothing short of a nuclear war is going to distract me.

turn offs? B.O. has to top the list. i've been lucky enough to have never dated a woman with body odor, but i've met a few who just smelled ripe. not good. also the gum-twirling twinkies. you know the type, she has the latest Louis Vuitton bag, Prada shoes...blah blah blah...her life revolves around keeping up with the latest fashion, her world would crumble if Cosmo suddenly declared her outfit "last week", and the only thing she uses her brain for is to keep her ears from smacking together. if you get close to one of these girls, you can actually hear the sound of the ocean if you put your ear up to her.
 Broadway Joe

Joined: 4/15/2005
Msg: 10
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/13/2005 11:13:57 PM
An instant turn-off is easier to come up with than an instant turn-on. And because I need absolute definitions...are we talking just sexually or in general?

Instant Turn-off(s): Anger Management problem, drug habit, bigotry/racism/etc

Instant Turn-on(s): Personality-wise - being able to make me laugh so hard it hurts
Sexually...thats tougher...but the right attitude goes a long way...
 NikkiSophia

Joined: 12/12/2005
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/13/2005 11:26:27 PM
Instant Turn on ... A man in glasses whispering in a delicate but firm kind of way "COME HERE NIKKI"

Instant Turn Off ... ummmm ummmmmmm im not sure.
 oneafternoon

Joined: 3/15/2005
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/13/2005 11:41:36 PM
Turn on: Naked , naked , naked ... thos three words get me everytime

turn off : I'll tell you later
 layman_shaman

Joined: 11/10/2005
Msg: 13
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/13/2005 11:54:58 PM
Her hands on me. Show me the Song of Solomon!

Intolerance.


Cookie, I think you're tame!!!
 nonick

Joined: 12/11/2005
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/14/2005 12:05:32 AM
turn on ...nails
a woman gives me a hug an runs her nails down my back... i want to put her against the wall and take her right there

turn offs
talk about kids and marriage..those decisions should not be made by horemones
 oneafternoon

Joined: 3/15/2005
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/14/2005 12:07:40 AM
turn offs: Train activities ... yep ... nope , no way
 Bigger Guy

Joined: 10/3/2005
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/14/2005 12:15:33 AM
Turn on...great looking female ... who is interested in me
Turn off ..... great looking female who isn't interested in me
 Garofalo7

Joined: 9/14/2005
Msg: 17
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/14/2005 12:42:41 AM
Voice

That's how I first met the love of my life

I was sitting at a table and I heard her talk....

Sent shivers up my spine....still does too
 moonofdarkness

Joined: 8/20/2005
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/14/2005 1:20:30 AM
turn on: from a guy or a girl, when he or she comes up from behind me and bites my neck. mmm

turn off: guys who are always talking about working out...ugh. and girls who are so concerned with how they look...I mean...once you're in bed with someone, I don't think they care that one breast is slightly smaller, or that your hips are too big in your own mind
 justbourlier

Joined: 6/13/2005
Msg: 19
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/14/2005 2:10:09 AM
turn ON: Her talking dirty, and rubbing my stomach, drives me NNUUUUTTTSSS

turn OFF: Whining, and constant knock downs about herself when she KNOWS she's got the stuff.
 marykay

Joined: 4/30/2004
Msg: 20
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/14/2005 5:27:23 AM
Wellll if I'm already dating someone (as you term it "new love") then DEFINITELY their brain!!! I'm dating a guy (so it's a given that he's attractive and sweet) and when he talks about the things he's studying in school (politics) I could seriously scream "Take off your pants" haha. I find it soooo hot that this guy is charming, gorgeous, and has a fully functional brain! It sounds funny, but when he starts talking about smart things, I get weak in the knees. He's very articulate and he speaks very well, and all those things say something about his character.

Turn off...My old boyfriend started talking about an ex when we were in bed once. That was the end of that.
 okieroper

Joined: 8/23/2004
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Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/14/2005 5:29:56 AM
welp op tallykat pic number one does a real fine job ..............................
 countryforever

Joined: 2/8/2005
Msg: 22
Whats an instant turn on for you
Posted: 12/14/2005 5:55:48 AM
When a man comes up to me grabs my hair and pulls me to him for a awesome kiss.
 paulinuk

Joined: 12/6/2005
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??????
Posted: 12/14/2005 6:09:11 AM
I HAD A GIRLFRIEND ONCE ,AND IF I TOUNGED HER EAR HOLE SHE JUST HAD TO MAKE LOVE,I MISS HER NOW
 sexyshooter

Joined: 11/25/2005
Msg: 24
??????
Posted: 12/14/2005 6:21:05 AM
seeing a gal in a denim skirt...with some sexy open toed shoes on..........I LOVE legs and feet!!!
 blonde chickie

Joined: 11/3/2005
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??????
Posted: 12/14/2005 8:10:00 AM
When he would whisper naughty things in my ear and touch my body
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