| | Ever notice that being too nice turns you into a doormat?Page 1 of 4 (1, 2, 3, 4) | | Yep. Thats how the real world is, especially if you're a guy. Its cool to be nice, but if your too nice, they start to treat ya like crap. I was really, really nice at one time, and found that it seemed to almost push women away. When I copped an additude several years back, they all started waiting in line. Women rock. | |
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HB2
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sddude
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| Ever notice that being too nice turns you into a doormat?
Posted: 12/14/2005 10:05:05 AM | that's not necessarily true. i think if you find a good person, someone who has a good heart and is sincere - and as long as you're nice but not over in an over the top needy (whatever that means to you) - than being nice does pay off.
it could just be the type of people that you're attracted to - and not - the fact that you're "nice". what would be the point of "copping an attitude" to attract a women - because if that's what you have to do to get that woman's attention - is that someone you would want to consider for a long-term relationship.
just be real, be yourself - and when/if the right person comes along for you, that person will appreciate all of the nice things that do for them. | |
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| Ever notice that being too nice turns you into a doormat?
Posted: 12/14/2005 10:08:40 AM | A nice guy thread! Oh how I've missed them!
It wasn't long ago that every 5th thread was a nice guy thread. Then the dark days came. Days of generalization threads. POF was plunged into darkness and despair. When we thought all was lost, and we were doomed to redundant generalization threads...off in the distance something appeared. Oh it was far to early to get our hopes up. Will a nice guy come save us? Will he bring us his wisdom and light? Will he tell us how he's right in front of our noses and we should pick him? Hope springs eternal and deep inside us we nurtured this hope. Come to us "Nice guy thread" we cried. Like a great stream of sunlight breaking through the haze of darkness, the nice guy thread was upon us. But lo the evil ones fell upon the thread to discourage the army of niceness. Who shall take up this mans thread when the heathens have over run it? Who among you has the light of nice inside you? For one doormat can't defeat the horde army from Badguyland.
Take heart all of you. Read and cherish this nice guy thread. For the next one won't arrive for oh say.... 30 minutes? | |
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sddude
| | Joined: 11/4/2004
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AI03™
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| Ever notice that being too nice turns you into a doormat?
Posted: 12/14/2005 10:45:01 AM |
that's not necessarily true. i think if you find a good person, someone who has a good heart and is sincere - and as long as you're nice but not over in an over the top needy (whatever that means to you) - than being nice does pay off.
My God! We have a WINNER! FINALLY someone gets it!   | |
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Tinkle
| | Joined: 12/14/2005
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HB2
| | Joined: 5/11/2005
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| Ever notice that being too nice turns you into a doormat?
Posted: 12/14/2005 11:47:30 AM | Man broads don't know what the hell they want. Everybody with a keen sense of observation can tell you that. They say they want a nice guy, but if they get one, they'll walk over his ass and eventually dump him. They say they want a good guy, but more often than not, they won't go for those guys. They don't have that initial smooth "gift of gab" that the playas have.
They say they want a nice guy with an edge, but get all pissed off whenever they KNOW they are acting sh*tty and a skrong man like me tells them about themselves. All of a sudden I'm such an a**hole and that is obviously the reason I am single.... they love to shift the blame on to others and resort to personal attacks when someone doesn't sit back and take their sh*t. Men need to wake up and stop worrying about these broads and let most of them wallow in their own filthy misery.  | |
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*Spunk
| | Joined: 12/7/2004
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