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 Angel_73
Joined: 7/4/2005
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Just curious in what guys and girls think about this topic...

You talk to someone and you find out they havent had sex in a long time (lets say 9+ months) Do you think there is something wrong with that person .. wonder why they havent had sex for so long, does it make you want to be the one to break the dry spell, is it a turn on or a turn off? Does it make you resepct that person?

Just curious to see what everyone thinks lol
 Blastkist
Joined: 5/28/2005
Msg: 2
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 11:42:47 AM
Doesn't bother me at all. Actually I prefer it when a guy has enough self respect that he doesn't caboink everything he meets. So I wouldn't think there was anything wrong with him...I'd think there was something right with him. Besides, that keeps him fresh for MEEEEEE!
 sxyguy28
Joined: 7/3/2005
Msg: 3
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 11:42:53 AM
I would say it means that you don't just sleep with anyone. A guy would respect that.
hehe Ya it does make a guy wanna break that spell for sure!!
 TheGoon
Joined: 12/6/2005
Msg: 4
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 11:43:18 AM
I personally respect the fact that they haven't had it in a long time. Sh*t, right now we would both have to break each other back in. That would be kinda fun.
 xneo19
Joined: 10/15/2004
Msg: 5
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 11:43:29 AM
hmmm can't wait to read this and what they could all think of me ...

nah, it's not been THAT long ... yet...
 7times
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 6
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 11:45:31 AM
oh great.. been longer than 9 months for me,, I'm in some deep shit now
 Wufflez
Joined: 11/26/2005
Msg: 7
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 11:46:11 AM
Well I haven't had it in a couple of years or so, mainly because of a couple of bouts of illness, and been out of work a bit too.

I'm all for getting jiggy with it, but until I've some cash behind me, a decent income (and move into my own place at last), I can't really be happy entertaining a girl. I wanna be able to buy her nice things, treat her right, you know?

In the new year I'm starting a new business, plus I'll be moving into my own place some time during the year (hopefully, depends on housing association, house prices are way too high to even rent, let alone rent in the UK, bleh), so everything should fit into place nicely.

In all honesty though, I don't think anyone would go round asking people they meet, "How long has it been since you last had a good fook?". I know I don't. If someone asked me though, I'd tell them the truth. They can either just accept it, or be a total cow/git and take the p*ss. If the latter, they can stay single as far as I'm concerned.
 Blastkist
Joined: 5/28/2005
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Posted: 12/16/2005 11:51:47 AM
^^^ that's interesting because EVERY guy I've been with asks that very question. Hmm I don't even know how long it's been for me. Probably something like 6 months. NO wait...maybe 8!!! Egawds...ah well.

I find that when you haven't had it for a while it makes it that much more exciting when you do. If you are mutually deprived, then it's really really good!
 Wufflez
Joined: 11/26/2005
Msg: 9
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 11:53:20 AM
So you free on wednesday? *hunts for passport*

 7times
Joined: 10/27/2005
Msg: 10
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 11:53:24 AM
see now everybody knows why I talk like I do here..... man, I'm depressed now
 A GENTLELICK
Joined: 11/4/2005
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No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 11:54:04 AM
blastkist youre absolutly right and you both can f***k like minks lol
 colin1977
Joined: 8/7/2005
Msg: 12
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 12:00:41 PM
It's been that long for me, my f_ucking pet hamster calls me a virgin............
 Racer71
Joined: 12/8/2005
Msg: 13
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 12:06:58 PM
I've gone for over a year without after I broke up with my last girlfriend.. I had plenty of opportunities to have sex with girls, but wasn't attracted to those that were attracted to me. I don't just f*ck any hole... That also helps me to stay STD free!
 sockmonkey82
Joined: 12/14/2005
Msg: 14
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 12:14:16 PM
yeah, not all about random hook ups. It's been too long for me.
 Little Northern Gal
Joined: 11/25/2005
Msg: 15
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 12:42:45 PM
I have no problem with them not having sex in a while... besides... maybe they've been busy exploring their own selves..hehehe, masturbation and orgasms,,,, that is truly where its at! AND... makes me feel better knowing they're not sleeping with city-like numbers... that's just not my way, nor my thing!
 Little Northern Gal
Joined: 11/25/2005
Msg: 16
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 12:50:05 PM
^^^ I am not aware of too many people who don't. But to answer your question,,, I'm entirely regular. Thanks!
 cloudwatcher
Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 17
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 12:52:59 PM
since Feb for me...
'Mr. Wiggleys' been on bread and water for a bit too long now'

but im ok...really
naw...really!!!
don't look at me like that...
i feel fine...
it's ok...(do i smell or sumptin?)
what did you mean by that raised eyebrow?...
naw..REALLY..IM OK!!
 WorkingGirl
Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 18
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 12:53:56 PM
I think it's wonderful. Nice to know they're not a horndawg screwing everything with a hole and a heartbeat.
 cloudwatcher
Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 19
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 1:00:42 PM
masterbation is defined as:'the act of making yourself feel good, while in the end...producing nothing'.

a lot of people associate it with a physical activity involving their own genitals,
but it also includes strutting around bragging about some stupid f*kkin' accomplishment you had ten years ago...or that of some distant Uncle you've never met...
and of course there is always that 'Girl next door' thing.
WHatever it may be, its where it is thats important...
IN YOUR HEAD.
-=-=-=-=-
i am thinking about going down and having a sperm count done.
(but afraid the results will be..."You only have ONE left...but its T H I S big!!!"

umm...i guess i should offer a free towel to every applicant
 Paleone
Joined: 5/23/2005
Msg: 20
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 1:02:53 PM
No I would not think badly of a person that hasnt had sex in a long time. Just means they are not a sl*t, out getting laid every night. And just because one has not had sex in a long time does not mean there is something wrong with them. Its been 6 months for me, and Im great!
 Summer Teeth
Joined: 6/15/2005
Msg: 21
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Posted: 12/16/2005 1:04:43 PM
Doesn't matter to me how long it's been. I don't think it's a reflection of anyone's character. I've gone three years without sex before. It really isn't a big deal--except those times when I hallucinate and see breasts floating before eyes everywhere I look.
 Sincere man
Joined: 10/11/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 12/16/2005 1:09:20 PM
Talk about a sex dry spell. I'd go crazy
 Ronnie Gray
Joined: 8/27/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 12/16/2005 1:15:04 PM
If there is something wrong with them then we have something in common because I have'nt had sex in 13 months and I wish I could find a woman that could satisfy me.
 Angel_73
Joined: 7/4/2005
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No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 1:25:05 PM
Its been about 13 months for me (since my last bf) its been a good 7 months since i even kissed a guy lol

blastkist...


I find that when you haven't had it for a while it makes it that much more exciting when you do.


I dont know i have a feeling either i'm going to be so nervous the next time, afraid im going to let him down or Im going to go absolutly nuts and he wont know what hit him lmao
 Summer Teeth
Joined: 6/15/2005
Msg: 25
No sex in a long time .. good or bad?
Posted: 12/16/2005 1:26:47 PM
I've had sex once in the last 3 years. Trust me. You don't forget how to do it well.
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