| why does this avoidance happen?
Posted: 12/18/2005 12:41:20 AM | | could anyone tell me if girls who claim to want honest and sincere men really want the same? I mean, I get feedback from girls telling that I am a great guy and would like to meet me and so on. The next thing I know is that they avoid my emails and messages. Honesty starts from exchanging messages and if a girl tells me that she is seeing another guy, it becomes easy for me. But they never tell once they start dating someone. I seriously am seeking good and sincere girls, but I think I am wrong in hoping to find one. | |
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| why does this avoidance happen?
Posted: 12/18/2005 12:48:21 AM | No one is the same...... everyone is different... and repsonds differently.....
I do my best to respond to all E-mails... and at one point I met someone and wanted to see where it would go.... so I let people know....
Ofcourse... it didn't go anywhere.....dang it! LOL
There are a lot of sincere people... seeking what you seek! You'll find one... just be patient! :-) | |
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| why does this avoidance happen?
Posted: 5/17/2008 2:14:53 PM | I don't know. I have encountered the same problem. It is just easier to pretend that you do not exist than to confront you. I suppose they risk being hurt by your words if they were to confront you. Fear that you might get angry or upset. That the man might say something harsh or try to intentionally damage their self image.
It just comes down to it being easier to Shit on you than talk to you I guess. These women have a lot of growing up to do. This is not high school and a mature man would much rather hear a womans honest words, and part ways feeling good about themselves than hear silence and wonder what it is that is wrong with them.
That is just this mans take on it. | |
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| why does this avoidance happen?
Posted: 5/17/2008 2:23:33 PM | It's easy to say you would prefer to be told they actually want to meet you.... but in a lot of cases there would then be the inquiry and the questions and the reasons and finally closure... maybe...
It is just so easy for anyone - female or male - via anonymous mailing to decide to ignore any communication from anyone. Somebody could probably list a thousand reasons why this happens - somebody probably has - but you, or me, or anyone, have just got to accept it and move on.... This life can be so unreal sometimes. Real life too.... ha ha. | |
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