| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 8:21:11 AM | It just give me a tremendous case of blue-balls. Am I the only one whjo can't? Has anyone been able to actually deal with this problem, and is it really a problem? What do you ladies think? | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 8:25:46 AM | the guy ive been seeing for two years couldnt. Until a few nights ago But then again, he said that he;s never been able to do it, and well, hes 44, so.... :) Pleasant surprise. | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 8:27:14 AM | | I have never run across a guy that cannot cum orally. But I find if it is me on the recieving end of oral then I have trouble letting go. almost like i am too nervous to just let loose. Guys are probably different. another thing is you might be wanting it so much that you over think it in your mind and cant let go. | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 8:30:12 AM | Max darlin, it aint no problem. It's not your fault (nor hers, btw) that you can't get your rocks off orally. If it's giving you blue balls, then you obviously enjoy it to an extent, so have it part of foreplay and then move on to something that works for you. Although most guys can (in my experience, that is), it's no big deal if you can't, it just plain and simply does not work for you. Problem? I see no problem....
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 8:33:23 AM | Every man I have given oral pleasure to has had his orgasm. I don't feel satisfied until he has achieved it. I also don't think it's fair that he doesn't. I want to climax with oral, why shouldn't he?
I'm a patient lover...most are surprised that they can cum as fast as they do. It's partly psychological but it's mostly technique. If you know what makes his toes curl and if he sees how much you enjoy it, it makes things easier for him.
Just randomly going up and down on the thing with a wet mouth isn't enough for some men. Actually if I were a guy, I don't think I could get off on what I see in most porn movies...LOL everytime I watch women giving men head on these films, I keep thinking, God, she really sucks at giving head!
If I had his body parts, I know what I'd want him to do with them...it pretty much applies the same way when I give it...I pretend it's MY c*ck I'm working...and it seems to work. The fact that I'm completely excited and aroused when doing it is a bonus that is evident for him. | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 8:40:43 AM | Closest I ever came to cumming that way was bringing myself as close as I could while she watched and then having her suck me as I did. Still doesn't count in my opinion. I'm afraid that as far as orgasm goes, I"m pretty much a "Tab A" in "Slot B" kind of guy | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 8:55:55 AM | Never been a problem for me. Some of the time I'm trying not too so I can do other stuff.
There was another guy here awhile ago with the same problem (not really a problem if you ask me). | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 8:56:16 AM | I know that I was conditioned to not cum in my ex's mouth did just one time when she was carrying my first son and she told me if I ever did that again there would be no more oral sex for me. I was with her for 19 years.And you know old habits are hell to break.who.And some have tried to break that habit and have failed. ())IIIIID | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 8:58:24 AM | | I'm very good at giving head and there are men out there that you can give one too until your jaw locks (I'm talking an hour or more) and they won't come that way. I love giving bj's as foreplay. I would give my husband bj's while watching football, playing his Xbox, in the shower, and while he was driving. I love being spontaneous about it. | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 9:38:00 AM | | I can honestly say that I have never achieved an orgasm from oral sex. It's not from lack of my partner trying or anything like that. I mean it feels awesome, but it's kinda like an appetizer before the main course. I mean no one fulls themselves on appetizers...we all want the main course right? | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 9:47:22 AM | I just think its a tatic to get the girl to give you head. Of course a girl loves a challange. You tell her "I've never gotten off from it", then she wants to be the one to prove you wrong.
Sneaky Sneaky **stards. lol. | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 9:59:09 AM | "I just think its a tatic to get the girl to give you head. Of course a girl loves a challange. You tell her "I've never gotten off from it", then she wants to be the one to prove you wrong."
Nah, if I was gonna challange a girl, I'd challange her to take my****in her ass...... | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 10:22:48 AM | Never had a man who had a problem with me giving him an orgasm orally....I have had a few guys tell me that they hadn't been able to before they met me.
You probably don't have a "problem"...you just haven't met someone who knows how to hit your spot(s). | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 10:26:46 AM | | only once but she was terrible at it,, had the attitude that a man should go down and if she did it back it was all good to use mostly hands.. Nope nadda, won't do it in my book.. dive in there and don't stop until the lava flows | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 10:40:45 AM | | you need to relax, dude... If the woman's good, it's the best as far as I'm concerned. I've never had orgasms in a woman's vagina quite as good as good oral sex. | |
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| How Many Men Out There Can Actually Cum Orally? Posted: 12/20/2005 10:44:45 AM | Depends on how good she is at it. Some women are better than others. I noticed some are right into sucking dik and some do it just to please. I'll cum every time with the ones who love to do it. | |
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