| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/20/2005 10:51:50 PM |  im so sick of getting my heart broken. Is there anyone who is real in this god for saken world that knows how to be honest? Cuz Im starting to think there isnt! | |
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/20/2005 11:48:42 PM | Trust me, you are not the only one...
This world is not what it once was...
It's sad...really sad...
People dont care anymore....it's all about games/money/status...
Be a normal guy is not good enough anymore...
Its all changing...
Be a normal woman is also not good anymore though...
We are the same...
Its the end of romance, end of true love, end of soulmates...
I really believe it is....
A new era started....time for playing, fun, one night stands, money, music...drinks...
And I think I will join that party lol (not)
Just my thoughts... | |
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/21/2005 1:43:32 AM | | Yes i hear you there, seems i get the run around with guys. You think things are going well then its just a game of lies or secrets. i don't get it, have fun love life.. sure everyone has their own thing going on, but if you are not interested then say so.. no big deal just don't give me false info or a bunch of BS. Blahhhhhhhhhh | |
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/21/2005 7:15:56 AM | | Humans are a complicated vortex of actions and emmotions. The posibility of even comeing close to knowing why people , lie, cheat and play games, is slim to none. Its a viscious cycle. The " dateing game " has become a sad joke. Best advice....step back and study the game. At this moment.....and this is what I see.....this whole dateing thing has become a twisted survival game. Every time the oppsite sex gets f#cked over....thats just one more brick between men and wemen, forceing eachother to not trust oneanother. Its makes me sad to see it becomeing so hard to fall in love....or even connect to eachother. There was a time when people didnt care what car you drive, who you live with, how much you make ect. | |
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/21/2005 12:39:29 PM | Most of these so called singles are attached liars,
looking to lead others on for money, for kicks
or to get someone's goat.
The best filter is not to pay and not to believe
anything without proof.
I don't break women's hearts, yet no one wants to meet... | |
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/21/2005 8:59:56 PM | | Even if you are honest ppl write you off no matter what you do. I got writtin off just for talking to their roommate.. BUT I TOLD THEM I DID! So my heart's broken all b/c I chose to speak to someone. | |
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/21/2005 9:05:41 PM |
im so sick of getting my heart broken.
Then start thinking with your head instead of your heart. Don't be a sap. | |
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/21/2005 9:40:24 PM |
Then start thinking with your head instead of your heart. Don't be a sap.
Easier said than done. Matters of the hear are exactly what they are..of the heart. U cant always rationalize feelings and emotions.
Feeling hurt is not being a sap. Its normal and its human. | |
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/22/2005 7:43:38 AM | Welcome to the club wanna. Sad as it may be....the world has become a magnitude of materialistic, untrustworthy and hardhearted people.
I find this with not only in the dating world, but also society in general...it's hard to find an honest friend...one that you can converse with...share your most inner thoughts with, and at the same time, trust that what you shared....will go no further than the one you entrusted.
The end result is that people like you.... or the many in POF, have to search far and wide, for an extensive period of time....in order to find that special someone. I think that's why POF is soooo popular....it's much easier to "weed out the bad ones" so to speak.
It may take you longer, to find the one that you want to spend the rest of you life with, but take comfort in knowing...it will happen...eventually. Don't get discouraged....good luck to you!!
BTW: Merry Christmas POF'ers... ~ and all the best to ya in 2006!! | |
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/22/2005 9:53:26 AM | VETTE ~ I believe we all want the same thing generally. I know I do. What I have learned from my experiences is simply this... "no expectations...no disappointments" A good friend kept drilling that into my head for years and well I finally got it a few months ago. Now being a dreamer and a romantic at heart I find this SO HARD to actually do! When I love I love with all I am and all I've got....sadly I hurt in the exact same respect. So when it comes to love it truly is hard to "keep to the rules" sort of speak, you know what I mean?
My advice to you is this:
Don't EVER change who you are! If that means you are a hopeless romantic sap well so be it. I would rather be known as a loving FOOL than a lying ***hole! Get my meaning. You are doing nothing wrong darlin. All you gotta do (for your own sanity and heart's sake) is curb your expectations a little. Always hold a piece of yourself back... (create a little mystery)
There are many many great women out there...as well as great men. Perhaps you are looking to hard. Love naturally finds you. So try concentrating on the great person you are, love with all your heart toward your family, friends and those in need, and you will exude that energy and love onto others naturally.
It's tough out there no doubt! Not finding individuals to date but finding someone of SUBSTANCE to be with..is what I mean. Many will be shady..for sure. It's unfortunate that you have to deal with all the liars, cheaters, egoistic arsh holes, players and premadonnas of this world BUT we all do. That's life! We have to wead out the bad seeds to find the ripe flowers in our midst. LOL like my Mama used to say.... "You gotta be willing to kiss a lot of frogs to find a Prince Carissima" How true that played out to be. *sigh* And I dunno about you but I AM DONE WITH FROGS!!!!!
VETTE... it's Christmas time.... do something for someone just for the hell of it! Make someone smile because you have that power... it will make you feel so good. You're Cinderella is out there somewhere....she may be watching you right now. So always smile and put your best foot forward, so she will instantly recognize a Gentleman Prince when she sees you darlin'
~ Carissima ~ | |
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Posted: 12/22/2005 2:21:22 PM | wow... well thank you very much carissma for that. That makes a hole hell of alot of since. As far as having her watching me right now, I would love that. It just sucks being alone, but Im damn sure not gonna throw myself to the first pretty face I see. Thanks alot for that!!
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/22/2005 2:53:13 PM | Oh cutie, Im soooo sorry, I know what you mean, My heart was broken, until HIS ex wife told me that had been sleeping together the whole time.! thank goodness i did not consumate the relationship, just couldnt do it, maybe my inner most mind, was like NO Way! something just isnt right, besides we prayed together, HAD GOD TOTALLY in our relationship, come to find out HE Was the liar and like jobless, trashy womenl. he even put a forum on here under POF couples, cant believe it.
there wonderful, sweet, honest girls, like me, i would not lie about that like females, and plenty of males do. He was sooo far up in my ass and me thinking that would be totally out of his character slept with her, while she was screwing others, how LOW can you possibly be??
Good luck to you, you will get the happiness that you deserve,,BIG HUG!!!!
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/22/2005 4:27:20 PM | I'd like to think that I'm an honest person. I try to be upfront with people. Yikes! Even my profile tells just about everything about me. Honest!  | |
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/22/2005 9:31:55 PM | | aww i feel bad but you know what hon months or year down the road you gonna look back on this thread and when you do you will have some one great in your life . | |
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/23/2005 1:07:14 AM | Everyone is tired of having their heart broken no one goes out and thinks they want to get crushed that day. just have to keep  and look for a keeper. if you go for the catch and release game you are just going to hurt women and yourself. just relax and wait. you cant make the fish bite. Just work on putting out the best bait (good attitude and nice) and eventually a good one will jump out of the water...thats what im hoping anyway | |
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/23/2005 6:57:05 AM | I am more than sick of it! As you can see from my profile my heart really cant take anymore. I'm a nice girl who like alot of other women on here does alot for her man. Probably too much. But honestly, men say they are looking for a nice girl and yet when they find one they forget that its what they did want. They usually leave for some girl who ends up treating them like shit. Then and only then do they realise that maybe they lost something. But at this point it's too late. For some reason people always think the grass is greener on the other side. Just remember you can't go back to the other side of the fence once you've jumped.
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/23/2005 2:05:02 PM | I hear ya on the broken heart (it made me so cold towards others when i had so many come into my life with false promises and etc, etc)..there are really good people out there and someone that you are compatible with..you just have to be patient.
As i have been told you have to kiss alot of frogs until you meet your match. I personally have had it with the frogs..i know how it is to be ready for a great life with an amazing person. | |
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/23/2005 7:22:22 PM | It's really hard to open up to someone once you have been burned. It seems everyone has baggage, and thusly, we are all suspicious of eachother! Some people are honest, some aren't, some are but you think they aren't, cuz you can't trust cuz of what happened in the past...it's all too compilcated, which is why I have stepped back from any dating whatsoever. When I'm ready to trust someone again, I'll get back into the scene, unitl then, I am picking up lots of hobbies...lol.(xbox,knitting, harry potter books, crocheting....)
I think a lot of people feel incomplete without a mate-it's how I used to feel. Maybe it's why there are so many out there trying anything to find someone.
Merry Christmas | |
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| tired of getting my heart broken
Posted: 12/23/2005 7:29:35 PM | | Wanna: I know exactly how you feel. "Some" women can be so cold and heartless and love to just play games with us men and f**k with our emotions. Anyways, I and plenty of other guys have also had out heart broken so hang in there, your soulmate is out there somewhere. | |
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