| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 12/21/2005 3:56:58 PM | | OKAY HERE IS THE DEAL CAN ANY MAN OUT THERE TELL ME EXACTLY WHAT A MAN REALLY WANTS. WHAT ARE MEN REALLY LOOKING FOR FROM A TO Z. | |
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| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 12/21/2005 6:26:07 PM | I can't realy speak for the rest of my species from the men's planet.
However i can enlighten you regarding what i want.
I want balance in my life, and peace in my heart. And... I want to become a better man.
Those three goals will be fulfilled by finding the right woman, who will bring balance in my life, simply because being single just ain't right for anyone, including me. She will bring peace to my heart because she will be my harbor, and my heart will finally rest, feel warm again, and worry no more.
Finally she will complete me, as together we will discover slowly and through the course of our lifetime, what love is all about. We will both become better people, because love is the ultimate virtue of all, and possesing it means to let myself go, to become "we" instead of "me". And this procedure can only make me better, make me reach my full potential as a human being. And that is not a selfish act or an individual pursuit, but rather a common struggle to meet the same goal.
But thats just what I want. The rest from my planet, might tell you something different. ;) | |
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| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 12/21/2005 11:37:40 PM | | Well since all men are not the same.....All I can say is...some are out strictly for strings free sex, booty calls, some want relationships, commitment, long term....Sometimes you gotta feel them out, take your time and after a while you will catch on....In my case, I want to love and be loved, long term permanent commitment....Someone that trusts me and can be trusted, that will complete me for the rest of my life...A woman who is understanding, caring , sharing. have the utmost faith in God and will be my true friend.... A woman who is attractive and appealing both inside and out, with a beautiful heart and will be there for me through thick and thin as I will do all those same things for her... | |
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| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 1/19/2006 11:23:31 AM | i guess it would depend on what the woman has to bring to the table. you can't get blood from a stone.
i have been the sole provider. not looking for the role anymore.
i think all men want to be good providers for their women, trips, jewery, bills, but that does not mean you can relax. i have found that it is the little things that a woman does to show me that she wants to be on my team is what excites me about her.
i cook, but it is nice not to have to because she want prepare a meal for me. i come home, or over to her house and the house is clean because she wants to set the mood for whatever evening she has planned. that is quality time. there is no way i would be in stuffy bar when this is waiting for me at home.
men, or no one is going to do what you think they should all the time. i try nice things, if you don't care for it, that does not mean i should not do it. my mom is a great lady, but i left home because i did not like being told what and when to do it, now i grown and have to my lady. i not into telling grown people what they should be doing. if you are doing something that i don't agree with, it is up to me whether or not i will deal with you.
i think marriage is a fantasy of a time long gone. i see alot of women looking for husbands and soul mates, but i don't meet many talking about the wife skills that they posess. a marriage can still work today, if not is forced into it. there is more to being married than not cheating. all the stuff about clocks ticking should be ignored.
i have been in some GREAT relationships that ended strictly because she was ready to be married and i was not. i have to feel that marrying a woman has to be a asset instead of a liability from the door.
just one man's opinion | |
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Posted: 2/25/2006 9:58:21 AM | jazzn1 has some real good points! I have some different views on the marriage issue but that’s what makes us unique! Keep in mind that there are many women who are so "age specific", "income specific" and so on, that one must wonder what that person is actually wanting. Then you have to wonder why so many women are looking for guys 10 to 15 years their junior, I mean come on, this is kind of out their don’t you think?
I believe guys are looking for the basics, just like women. It is much easier not to “dance around” the real goal, which is companionship with trust. From some of the “profiles” I have seen, the one thing that really puts me on “tilt” are the ones who talk of monogamy cheating etc. and dress as though they are sponsoring some sort of “breast implant drug company or how high they can wear their dress and still have it posted. Guys, for the most part, are looking for someone simple, trusting and not someone who makes every effort to flirt with every guy they think is “hot”. By the way, Najee “love songs” is something you might want to listen to. Might give you some ideas as to what guys are looking for.
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| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 3/11/2006 5:37:06 PM | At the moment? A foot long roast beef sub on honey wheat w/ honey mustard and lettuce.
Well, you asked. ;)
But if you'd like to know what I REALLY want, I really want to find that one special person. I know that sounds like a cheesy line, but it's the truth. Short of that, I'd wish for dating to be a bit easier. Meeting women can be tough, to say the least. | |
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| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 3/13/2006 12:14:13 PM | Men's wants are just as diverse as are those of women. Some men are just looking for sex (okay, we all want sex, but some want more than that), some are looking for relationships. Some men want to date, some just want to chat in the forums.
There is no one thing that every guy or even most men want. Just as not all women are alike, so too do men have differences. | |
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Posted: 8/24/2006 2:26:11 PM | What do men really want? That's a million dollar question but i guess u have to be the man yourself to really understand what men want. Its the same as women some think that they know what they want out of life but aren't willing to work and go out and get things themselves without relying on mates to do everything for them .Don't get it twisted every woman on this earth loves to be pampered and catered to but that two goes both ways a man wants to feel as if they are bringing something to the table and appreciated for doing so. I think people now a days men and women are just out for whatever they can get out of each other without emotional baggage that goes with it.I think that it is nice to have a man who doesn't mind cooking and cleaning but just don't expect them to do it all of the time.take turns.Alot of people get scared whenever the subject comes up about getting married or being in a committed relationship thats only because they see as well as hear how badly other relationships have been since they have gotten married. U hear all the time if i was u i wouldn't get married everybodies situation is different i think that eveything in life is about taking chances if its meant to be then it will if not then its like a game u tried but didn't suceed. Try try again.I do agree with alot of what u saying though. I feel u jazzn1 | |
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| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 8/30/2006 11:22:40 PM | I am only one guy in the 1000's taht attend this site.
But for me "WHAT I REALLY WANT IS:
A lady that makes me feel WHOLE
A lady that can not wait for me to get home
A lady that I can not wait to see from the time I awake in the morning to the time we retire for the evening
A lady that has such sweet lips that when I kiss her the sweet peach like texture of her lips makes me want to devoure her and the only reason I do not devoure her is I want more tomorrow adn everyday after that
NOW WHAT IS IT THAT A REAL WOMAN LIKE YOU WANTS ???????????????????????
Charlie | |
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| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 8/31/2006 9:22:55 AM | | well you sure do make up the male population then... either you wanna see boobies, or you want a woman who will be your Mommy | |
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| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 9/2/2006 8:31:13 AM | | Chippy-you really must get out more often. No I take that back--PLEASE stay in your hole. | |
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Posted: 9/4/2006 5:48:26 PM | | I think men want the same as us woman. Some one who will be honest and up front. Annette | |
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| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 9/10/2006 11:58:34 PM | | OK I THINK MEN WANT THE SAME THAT WE THE WOMEN DO BUT IT IS SOME WHAT A BIT DIFFERENT FROM US BECAUSE WE WERE NOT RAISED THE SAME. WE ARE DIFFERENT. MEN WANT TO BE LOVED AND ALL THAT THEY JUST ALL DON'T WANT THE WOMEN ON THEM ALL THE TIME BUT THEN YOU HAVE SOME THAT LOVE YOUR EVERY MOVE AND WILL BE RIGHT THERE WITH YOU ALWAYS. NEVER SETTLE FOR LEAST THEN WHAT YOU REALLY WANT AND ALL WILL WORK OUT GREAT IN TIME, I THINK. | |
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Posted: 9/17/2006 11:13:42 PM | | charlie baby u want balance I hear that single is a lonley # Im still waitin for our chat u ow it to ur self to take a look u never kno whats bhind a door unless u open it ttaaalllkkk tooo mmme bbaaabbbyyy lol seriously charlie I would like a chance to chat w u a bit | |
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| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 9/26/2006 7:56:23 PM | I want a man to make me blush and give me butterflies.
I want every head to turn when we walk in room simply because we emulate the passion between us into the room.
I want someone that I can laugh with (and at) in a grocery store.
I can't wait to see him and I want to know (feel) that he feels the same.
I want to wear his shirt on a rainy Sunday laying in his arms watching his favorite football game.
I want to cook dinner together.
I I want to pat him on a the butt discretely in public and hope that he wants the same.
I want to see laughter in his eyes and feel it in his heart.
I want TOTAL COMPLETE trust among us. I want to not care where he goes or what he does.
I want him to be proud of me.
I want to mutually compromise when needed and be happy to oblige, knowing the favor will be returned.
I want long, hot sex.
I want to be first in his life and know it.
I want security.
I want passion, laughter, fun and love.
I want to entertain.
I want him to miss me.
I want us to wait on each other and like it.
I want him to be there for me when something is wrong and know exactly what to do (or not do) to fix it.
I want him to pack a bag, pick me up from work and not tell me where we're going.
I want my family to be a part of his life and him, theirs.
I simply want a man that will fight the wars and let me take care of the pork chops.
I've had it before and I want it again. | |
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| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 11/13/2006 9:32:37 PM | hmmm higher paying job and faster car than that lil punk at the red light with his..ahem.."tuner" or was that a tuna car ??? big gas guzzling engine in an old ford shelby mustang that puts ur head in the back seat when u stomp on the gas and makes that lil tuna car..wimper...and say no..no..im skeered...but mostly..we want to be loved..dangit!!!       | |
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| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 11/14/2006 9:52:58 AM | Question?.. What if you give the man everything he ever asked for and still cheated,lied,ran off,loved him with all your heart could,gave feet/back massages after work,had dinner made,house cleaned,.worked 2 jobs to his 1,...and all i got was more pain and work to do.So yes I too would like to understand men and want to know what y'all really want,because I dont think I can go through that again. (I'm divorced now btw) bye 4 now | |
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| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 11/14/2006 4:27:31 PM |
troll marker - unless you all your accounts deleted - I suggest you delete this one as well - Moderator | |
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| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 11/14/2006 8:17:58 PM | | cut em loose and run like hell if u ever ever find another man like that because if i find a gal like that..thats what im gonna do!! | |
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| WHAT DO MEN REALLY WANT?
Posted: 11/25/2006 6:24:03 AM | | okay.. WORDCODE gets my vote for the best reply. That was good. I'm 50 yrs old , I've been married THREE times. I think men want someone to love them. Men need that. If the spark isn't there right away I think men try to make the sparks happen. Then that's the downfall of the relationship. The more they try the more the sparks aren't flying. And then its all over with. Men need to be loved but they won't say it in those words. That's my 50 yr old opinion. | |
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