| Why do women.... (locked)
Posted: 12/21/2005 7:01:58 PM | ..... hurt and abuse men so much. I mean, ok... I can understand that in the past, men have done some rather... ill things to women. And the men in the past have made it hard on men of today. Now, I could understand if women were only mean or rude to guys that were jackasses or something. But now, if the guy is hot, they tend to let him get away with alot.
But they take their anger and fury out on nice guys that would simply like the chance to get to know them. But those women will turn their noses up at those men as if those men look like they just got hit with a bag of "what the f**k". They guys that don't have ill intentions towards them they blow off like they are straight out the pencil sharpener!
I don't think women understand how much they hurt those men. Everyone tells those men to just "be a man" and "suck it up".... but how long can they expect those men to suppress their feelings before they lose their minds? The politically correct media lie would have people believe that women are these kind, nurturing, compassionate beings that have only been victims of male oppressors. But nothing could be further from the truth! The media does not reveal the stories of men that are constantly bashed and abused mentally, emotionally and sometimes even physically by women that have no care about how those guys feel whatsoever.
So my question is, why exactly do women treat guys like this and what is it that women expect to be accomplished from this? An even better question is, what do women expect the nicer men to do in order for them to stop with treating them with constant hositility? | |
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| Why do women....
Posted: 12/21/2005 7:10:54 PM | | They have been hurt, you are the nearest victim. Pay back time, so to speak. Simple solution: stay away from crazy women, that way you never get hurt. | |
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| Why do women....
Posted: 12/21/2005 7:18:07 PM | Sparda,
You have got to realize that women (in general) have been trained, educated, life-learned in 'bucking up'. Perhaps this is a reactional thing to those you have met.
I am not saying this is right, but all too many times, the woman is there to correct the problems for the family...etc. and no feeling, compassion, gratefulness comes her way...hence, creating bitterness.
Unfortunately, bitterness is relayed on to other relationships because that protective wall is built. Rather than drawing attention to it, or taking it as defeat. Ask non-directive questions to get her to open up. Perhaps she will relax when she feel you are not there to hurt or take advantage.
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Joined: 11/20/2005
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| Why do women....
Posted: 12/21/2005 7:57:35 PM | | dear sparda, i thought you were going to give this nonsense a rest. | |
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| Why do women....
Posted: 12/21/2005 8:21:52 PM | Dear dear Sparda...( shaking my head and looking sadly at you...wondering what it will take to somehow heal that heart of yours )
People...Sparda....not women only...not men only...hurt people, use people, do f*&ked up things to people. More then half...dont even have a clue they are doing it either. They think that they are the "victim" or that their crap don't stink. Sadder still, is that most people....even the nicest people....have hurt, used or manipulated etc another person at some point in their life.
Sparda....people hurt people...it's not right...its not fair....and it is very frustrating to those growing smaller in numbers people, that have to deal with the hurt, the frustration etc. This my young friend is called Life. This my young friend is called human nature....the nature of the beast.
So anyone that feels frustrated with how the matters of the heart seem to work...need to deal with it. We humans can choose to accept what goes on in life, accept that not all people will do the "right" thing. Or we can choose to try and change how society has become. Today's society is becoming more and more self -absorbed..."what's in it for me? We that are not of this self-absorbed nature, can try to "change" this sad fact...or we can learn to accept it in the sense of...we cant change human nature in a day. | |
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Posted: 12/21/2005 9:06:11 PM | hi. First of all not all women are ruthless. You just need to learn how to pick the ones that have not lost there everlasting minds. Some women do not know how to handle their hurt or pain so they tkae it out on the person that is closest to them or they feel like every man is spitting game on them. So my advice to you is to learn what women are not crazy. Learn how to base you approach on more that whatever you are basing it on. Whether it may be the way she looks or the way she treats you. Just remember the signs are always there even before you try to holla at her. The crazy ones are those that have there noses in the air, don't pay you any attention or ignores you. Just be mindful on what you are approaching and think long and hard about how you approach and when you do and start up a conversation, LISTEN, cause you can learn a lot in a short conversation. Find yourself some happiness, put that out in the world . Leave the negative thoughts about "all women" behind. Remeber you get back what you put out......
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| Why do women....
Posted: 12/21/2005 9:11:43 PM | | Everything that's been stated is true. I'd like to say why these women do it. It's a test. If you fail like you did, then they'll continue to shit in your face. If you make fun of them, and make them laugh about their dumb problems, they'll be your best "friend." [humpingSmileyIcon] | |
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| Why do women....
Posted: 12/21/2005 9:37:40 PM | More than just the women are getting tired of seeing these threads.
These are becoming as redundant as "nice guy", "unread/deleted" and "do girls like anal" threads. This thread is locked. | |
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