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 lonelyone19762

Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 1
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 12/26/2005 6:23:08 PM
ok this is one for everyone so tell. Can a guy tell the difference between the fake orgasms and the real. Girls can you gie us any pointers on how to tell the difference? Cause I think a few guys need to know.
 up 4 fun

Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 2
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 12/26/2005 6:29:19 PM
I don't care one way or the other. As long as I get off, I'm happy. Ignore all her orgasms and concentrate on your own!
 lonelyone19762

Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 3
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 12/26/2005 6:31:53 PM
ok but don't you care that she enjoys herself as well up?
 Talkativeartist

Joined: 11/27/2005
Msg: 4
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 12/26/2005 6:51:24 PM
It depends. Some girls are good actresses. I am loud in bed. I will scream, my muscles will tighten, and I shake. But some girls do that when their faking it. if a girl had babies and her muscles aren't as tight you might not feel them tighten. Some women are quiet and it's harder to tell.
 nosoup4u

Joined: 9/4/2005
Msg: 5
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 12/26/2005 7:00:36 PM
When you feel her tighten up inside and her head go back its a good sign. Also she is rather sensitive around the clitoris right after the orgasm as well. I like to be aware of what my partner likes and if your partner is faking it and you dont know the difference, then you arent very aware. Making love is more than sex, it is a wonderful exchange between two people who love each other. The first time I actually learned to make love to a woman instead of just having sex with her I never looked back.
 up 4 fun

Joined: 12/25/2005
Msg: 6
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 12/26/2005 7:41:16 PM
Faking orgasms is dishonesty. That is the same dishonesty that will get you infected with some nasty STD. If you don't know a woman well enough to know whether she would fake an orgasm, then don't have sex with her. Better safe than sorry.
 cazar

Joined: 4/28/2005
Msg: 7
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 12/26/2005 7:46:50 PM
dr david reuben ( everything you wanted to know about sex but were afraid to ask ) said that two -four sure fire ways...

1) toes curl
2) nipples are erect
3) rash breaks out on her
4) you can tell ...from experience

a lot of women act differently... and some just act..laugh..

of course, that is him talking...just quoting him

respects

btw ..some things he wrote in the early 70's ..just as true today ..
masters n johnson ...good research
kinzey report...good research...
 MellyBabez

Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 8
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 12/26/2005 7:54:30 PM
Women are good fakers :)

Ive done it a few times in my life...if the guy sucks in bed and i just want to get it over with.

Really thoe, I don't "orgasm" from intercourse....so...no need to fake. It feels damn good and im a screamer, but...when he's going down on me, it would be hard to fake. Why? Because he's brought me to orgasm so many times that he knows when I cum. And a real man doesn't stop until he know's you have orgasmed.
 dnl_tdwll

Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 9
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 12/26/2005 7:58:52 PM
lonelyone ...........I can tell for sure because i watch it come out and she gets very emtional and always want me more and more and i can't get rid of her,she keeps calling and calling and no matter how i put her off she just keeps calling me!
 Kate1976

Joined: 10/28/2004
Msg: 10
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 12/26/2005 8:48:18 PM
Personally, I think sometimes you're just better off not knowing if it's real or not.

Think of it like when someone gives you a nice gift that they put a lot of effort and thought into selecting, but you're not fond of the gift. Are you really going to tell them you aren't fond of the gift? Or do you pretend you like it mainly to express your gratitude at the lovely thought behind it, then try to return it secretly? Would it really be a good thing for the gift giver to know that the recipient didn't really like the gift? Sometimes everyone is better off when the whole truth is not known by all parties.
 dnl_tdwll

Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 11
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 12/26/2005 10:16:29 PM
Women have fakes because they haven't been with me,the difference is real not emanjohned
 dukewaye

Joined: 12/21/2005
Msg: 12
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women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 12:09:54 PM
When women are religious and have orgasms, they say, "Oh God!"
When women are repressed and have orgasms they say, "No! No! No!"
When women feel good about sex and they have orgasms they say, "Yes! Yes!"
When they fake it they say, "dnl_tdwll!"
 dukewaye

Joined: 12/21/2005
Msg: 13
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women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 12:10:33 PM
When women are religious and have orgasms, they say, "Oh God!"
When women are repressed and have orgasms they say, "No! No! No!"
When women feel good about sex and they have orgasms they say, "Yes! Yes!"
When they fake it they say, "dnl_tdwll!"
 PrincessNaughty

Joined: 11/4/2005
Msg: 14
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 12:18:16 PM
Sorry guys most girls have that down to a fine art. Haven't done that in ages, but trust me if need be I could pull an Academy Award winning orgasm!
Easy to tighten the muscles, flex and release to feel like a 'spasm'
Curl the toes, moan, arch the back. Tighten my grip on him.
Eyes roll back.
Simple to achieve the award!
 Max_Bialystock

Joined: 5/5/2005
Msg: 15
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women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 12:20:56 PM
Two words.....
G-Spot.
True it doesn't always work in all women, but a properly functioning spot leave NOTHING to the imagination, and no, it's NOT pee.
 PrincessNaughty

Joined: 11/4/2005
Msg: 16
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 12:22:16 PM
The g-spot doesnt leave puddles for all women.
 Max_Bialystock

Joined: 5/5/2005
Msg: 17
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women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 12:27:19 PM


The g-spot doesnt leave puddles for all women.


As I said.
However, while it may not leave a puddle, it has always created posotive proof in my experience.

max_bialystock (50 years-old and still learning)
 Gideon797

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 18
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women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 1:14:39 PM
When you go ou does she eye other guys?When you call does she cut things short?Does she seem to want to have sex often?These are clues as to how she either does or does not enjoy sex with you..via wether shes getting off or not.
 andrika21

Joined: 1/28/2005
Msg: 19
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 1:18:42 PM
if a woman is good a fakng an orgasm she'll know to squeeze her kegal muscles at certain intervals...
im guilty of it...sometimes
 silvertree

Joined: 12/8/2005
Msg: 20
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 1:21:40 PM
If she is using the remote control to flip through the channels while she is saying, "Oh Baby! Yes! Yes!", chances are.... It's fake.

Or they are having a big jewelry sale on QVC.

Silver
 cron

Joined: 4/26/2005
Msg: 21
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women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 1:26:57 PM
Isn't it funny when some women describe a real man as a man whom they can benefit from. Does he give me orgasms everytime? Does he pay my bills? Does he pamper me all the time?

I dont think i can tell when a woman is faking, but i dont worry about it, because i try to bring other things to the table besides just orgasms when i am in a relationship and i am completely secure about myself as a man. I think i have tried to tell in the past, but i am past worrying about it. I do try to please my woman as best i can though.
 cheekychica

Joined: 11/12/2005
Msg: 22
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 1:29:41 PM
if she wants you to think shes gotten off.. then you woun't think any dif.
you can't tell.. if she doesn't want you too.
simple as that really.
 loverlaydown

Joined: 1/18/2006
Msg: 23
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 1:30:11 PM
Guys, believe what you want. You will never be able to tell if a woman who is good in bed is faking it. Take it as a compliment. She doesn't want to hurt your ego.
 sexy_momma

Joined: 3/4/2005
Msg: 24
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 1:45:45 PM
i'm guilty of faking it but dont get me wrong, the sex is REALLLLLY GOOD! its just...diff for women.

weird comparison, but let me try. guys, you know how when you jerk off looking at something, you wind up with an orgasm, but usually it doesnt blow your mind. i mean, the real thing is completely diff. right? well, with girls, or me i guess, i can have sex and enjoy it, but sometimes its just not AS good even when its not too bad. if my mind isnt completely blown away i just cant come.

the point is, guys are set up to ejaculate. its the circle of life. you have seed and you want to spread it.

another thing i noticed is that i only come really really well when i say things outside of my normal boundries and really let loose. dirty talk and lots of breast grabbing seems to be my formula but it took me years to find.

all i can say is, find her formula, and be patient. as long as she's happy and she gets the occassoinal knock her socks off, sweating, panting orgasm, she'll be fine. but dont expect her to have one each time. its really just not possible for a lot of us.
 cheekychica

Joined: 11/12/2005
Msg: 25
women orgasms real or fake how can a guy tell
Posted: 1/18/2006 1:48:40 PM
sexy mama ur a smart lady.
woman are built so differently.. and our body isn't always disconnected from our emotions.. even when at times.. we are. ha.
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