CAlex
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/28/2005 8:55:02 PM | I agree.... just try to bring them around. Try new things... ask questions... play games...
The best thing is to just try asking things, like what fantasy have they ever had that they might want to act out one night... Ask them if they don't mind to "STAY AWAKE" while you're having sex with them, that's always important. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/28/2005 8:55:31 PM | Obligatory joke: Isn't that good?
And, i'm of the opinion that how good your partner is is a direct reflection of how good you are.
Since you were fairly vague in your questions, there's my fairly vague answers.
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/28/2005 8:59:24 PM | | ^^^^ while i agree with that in general, i did date a girl that physically couldn't do what i wanted to do in bed. sometimes physical chemistry just isn't there. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/28/2005 9:01:23 PM | I'll have to agree with that also, because if the love and/or chemistry is there... just being with that person is wonderful and the sex is wonderful only because you are as ONE while it's happening... wow is that mushy for me or what... | |
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CAlex
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/28/2005 9:05:49 PM | | what a prick.. how about you just be happy that you're getting any at all? there are lonely husbands who would kill to have sex, even if it was bad sex. | |
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CAlex
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/28/2005 9:08:43 PM | If he was a woman complaining that her lover was lousy in bed, would you say the same thing? Or would you tell him, girlfriend, you need to get yourself a man who satisfies!
*snaps fingers in the air*
To answer the original question, I would try and approach the subject as discretely as possible, and try and get her to try new things. If, however, that doesn't work, then there is a very real possibility that you aren't compatible physically. Only you can decide if that's a deal breaker.
It would be for me. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/28/2005 9:08:46 PM | | what do you think makes men cheat at all? i'd take no sex than stay with someone that i don't click with. would you prefer me to get it elsewhere and lie to her? | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/28/2005 9:09:53 PM |
what a prick.. how about you just be happy that you're getting any at all? there are lonely husbands who would kill to have sex, even if it was bad sex.
LMFAO !! I was going to post a smart alec comment, but after reading that, I'm humbled. There's no comment that I can post that will beat that.  | |
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CAlex
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/28/2005 9:19:40 PM | It sounds like you are trying to find a way for you to have enjoyable sex BUT.... are you kinkier than she is and she's maybe not into it? I can't understand HOW a woman can just be bad in bed unless she's not into you.... I mean... I'm not wasting myself on bad sex... I enjoy it, which means my partner is sure going to enjoy it. I like to be pleased and I like to please. There is something wrong with this thread I'm just not sure what it is. You are kinda vague about what makes her "not good" in bed.. does she just lay there like a dead fish? Does she not talk? NO orgasms??? you need to tell more... are you wanting to spank that butt and she won't let you therefore you are not happy with it. Come on...
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/28/2005 9:21:16 PM | "Its not you ... its me. I'm sorry I can't see you anymore." Isn't that the line that women use on men when they aren't "feeling it"? LOL
I think it will work for men to. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/28/2005 9:21:31 PM | communication is important when it comes to sex. I always communicate with her what I like and ask her what she likes best.. so the sex is often as good as you make it!  | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/28/2005 9:22:16 PM | Ummm maybe you should make sure the other person isn't thinking the same thing about you.... secondly... only you are in control of your own satisfaction...
That being said.. if they are absolutely just horrible... then well... either go back to the one arm bandit.. or be happy somebody is giving you something.... | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/28/2005 9:23:12 PM | To the OP..."Do you just ride it out"...was that pun intentional? I personally would never say something like that to anyone unless you want to make them feel really bad..Thats just mean and theyll probably | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/28/2005 9:24:41 PM | how can a woman be bad in bed? easy. i've had bad, and perhaps i can share.
she has no rhythm. you build up a good rhythm, and she tries to match it...and misses. this can result in a few things...all bad...ranging from the "painful attempted perineum penetration thrust", to the downright suprising "wrong hole incident" depending on positioning. i will say, the look on her face can be kind of amusing...(i'm SO getting called a prick for that one)
she doesn't give oral. 0.000001% of guys don't like oral...the rest of us love it. make with the head...c'mon!
she's only into one or two positions. i don't know about you girls, but i've taken the time to learn other positions, and i think it's fun to see how many we can attempt. missionary and cowgirl get boring after the 100th time.
oh...and don't forget to make with the head. | |
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| How do you tell your Lover they suck in bed?
Posted: 12/28/2005 9:24:56 PM | I have to admit that this all reminds me of why I'd never, ever marry someone before living with them. If you can't work it out, then what>? I was just watching Dr. Phil, and the guy is freaked out because his wife stays home all day with 3 kids, but doesn't "keep" house like he wants it done, he actually grades her meals, and he wants her to be dressed "sexy" all the time.... ((admittedly, she is not a very organized person and there are "messes everywhere)).
That's a lot of "problems" I do believe..... You have to make sure you're compatible in "most" areas, including the bedroom, don't y'all think>?  | |
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