| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 1/1/2006 1:10:41 PM | Wanting someone so bad at a particular time and not being able to have them there is so frustrating! Especially after it's been awhile since you've seen them. You just can't get them out of your mind. I guess all there is to do is wait it out and try to find something to take your mind off of them but it's not easy. What to do?  | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 1/1/2006 1:19:27 PM | | Not sure what to do. I think we have all been there at some point. As you said you just have to wait it out. | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 1/1/2006 1:51:41 PM | | The worst is sleeping in the bed with someone twice in a two weeks and still not getting any from them...hooo hummmm | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 1/1/2006 2:08:19 PM | | I've been there, no fun. There comes a point when you just have to determine that you are worth more than scraps. Better to be single and unattached than attached to someone that doesn't seem to want you as much and won't spend the time with you. I'd say, say goodbye and keep looking. Who needs that kind of relationship anyway? | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 1/1/2006 2:53:08 PM | eh we aren't attached..just been dating some here and there...just find it odd that I slept with him twice and all we did was sleep. We had been intimate before.
I'm not wasting my time. Was already married to bad sex before. | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 1/1/2006 3:21:05 PM | maybe he just feared your dog stealing his underwear miss teacher! | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 1/1/2006 3:26:27 PM | | I thought when you want someone so bad you are attached. At least you feel attached. | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 1/1/2006 3:33:27 PM | attached? how many women want Tom Cruise? How many teen agers go for boy bands?
How many men want Pamela Anderson (okay bad example!  )
Wanting is wanting regardless! | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 1/1/2006 3:35:53 PM | | I've never felt that way about anyone..seems that just might be a good thing..sounds painful | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 1/1/2006 4:57:20 PM | | I can understand. My hubby's in Iraq. I want him here so bad it hurts. I miss him and can't wait until April rolls around. | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 1/1/2006 5:31:57 PM | | I've just been through all that, and I think I'm glad I lost..'tis surely and old, old adage: "If you get what you deserve, you may deserve what you get." However, I'd still want love to fall in love again, Regards Francois | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 1/1/2006 5:44:54 PM |
Wanting someone so bad at a particular time and not being able to have them there is so frustrating! Especially after it's been awhile since you've seen them. You just can't get them out of your mind. I guess all there is to do is wait it out and try to find something to take your mind off of them but it's not easy. What to do?
yep, did the long distance thing and it REALLY sucked to miss someone like that. I'm not ever trying that, again. | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 1/1/2006 5:45:48 PM | Im just getting over what you're going through now!
I dated a woman about 4yrs ago, she was going thru a divorce, never the less I should of known better. After 8months of dating we went our seperate ways.
I havent seen or heard from this woman, then 2 months ago she called out of the blue.
We went out a few times to see if anything was there, low n behold the same feelings were comming back.
Its been over a month ago and I havent heard from her.
You gotta get out n do things to get yr mind off of them.
If anything chat it up on the puter.....that always helps...lol | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 1/1/2006 7:04:25 PM | Went through it this summer. Biggest mistake that I made was closing myself up to other people hoping that something will come through because I convinced myself that the person felt the same about me as I did about her and that she'll realize it, something will work out and all will be awesome!
Open yourself to new experiences, don't always go to the same places with friends knowing that you can fake the conversation about something else while inside you're still thinking about the person. Put yourself in more unfamiliar situations so that your brain has to react and you won't even have the option of thinking about the person. Eventually you will become more open and realize that there are other people out there that can make you feel great!
Yesterday I had the option of celebrating in familiar surroundings where friends know me and my stories and are compassionate. Well, eventually compassion and sympathy don't do anthying but make you sulk. Instead I went to celebrate New Year with people I barely know, so that I had to get to know them better, the conversations didn't revert to topics that are familiar to everyone that you can fake a conversation through... And I had a much better time!
Whenever you feel like you're in a rut, that something its stagnant, do something completely unfamiliar! | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 6/9/2006 11:14:26 PM | I have been there. The thing for me that made me move on was he was trying to make me chase him. He would do crazy mess like look at your number on his caller ID and not answer just to see how many times you would call. Then he'd listen to your message and if you'd ask him to call back he would call when he got ready. That changed that feeling for me in a hurry!!! | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 6/10/2006 12:28:04 AM | | Yep.... IT totally sux!!!! I soooo know what you mean!!!!! | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 6/10/2006 8:51:59 AM | Been there, done that, got the t-shirt. I met a lady on-line (thru a message board). She lived 2 hours away. We got together about once a month for a weekend. Then her divorce was final and the house was sold. Now she had too many things to do and could not get away for any more weekends. We ended up going our seperate ways cuz we both wanted someone we could see more often & more easily.
At least you women have it a bit easier if you want him for the sex. You have Vibrators & dildos to help you with your overbearing sexual feelings. Us guys only have our hands. | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 6/10/2006 9:58:40 AM | | we all been there. its all about figuring out if its really love or just an infatuation with the person. but there is no denying how strong the urge can be sometimes | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 6/10/2006 11:52:25 AM | do what i do..forget them and move on.
like how the saying goes "dont waste your time on someone who wouldnt waste theire time on you"....
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if your willing to wait and you have the patience for it, go for it. but always see the other options and other outcomes. you might just be wasting your time | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 6/10/2006 12:41:34 PM | | "You have vibrators and dildos to help you with your overbearing sexual feelings"...Its still a very poor substitute for the real thing!...Emotionally, it still feels pretty empty | |
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| wanting someone so bad
Posted: 6/10/2006 10:16:16 PM | but the vibrators and dildo will help you satisfy a part fo you... | |
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