| | question for older menPage 1 of 1 | | what do yall want out of a woman? i need opinons and answes...please thank you sweeties | |
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| Re: question for older men Posted: 6/27/2004 8:47:26 PM | Opinions? Boy, do I have those.
A women must be intelligent. She can't spout off a bunch of crap and blow bubbles with her spit and expect me to like her. If she's cute enough, I might overlook the saliva stuff and still ...well, y'know...make the bargain, if you know what I mean. If they want to keep the goat, they have to be able to stimulate his intellect.
That's the short answer. There's a longer one, but I realized I'm typing this naked and the window is open. Damn kids. I wish they wouldn't laugh *and* point like that. | |
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| Re: question for older men Posted: 6/28/2004 12:47:53 AM | Fun ,x citing ,Ez going , passionate ,Happy Eyes ,not a bitch,dosnt nag I don t ,willing to try new things , supportive,cute and sexy are a bonud ! gotta be cuddly affectionate a kind soul !a bit of sports shares the tv clicker that a must !
hmmmmmmm so much I could say !
I t s so good to be able to communicate without being critical ! wink wink Jerry a good thread !!! | |
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| Re: question for older men Posted: 6/29/2004 2:57:17 AM | Of course I can only reply to the question on a personal basis but.....I will gladly give you my own opinion.
After having dated much more than what most people consider NORMAL.....if there is such a beast, I will have to agree that someon with similar interests, although NOT exactly the same is very important.
Conversation, sharing, deciding things together build a stronger bond as time goes on and it become automatic with both of you having similar interests. You DO need however, that private time, or thing to call your own.....perferably something that isnt offensive nor insulting to your partner>>>>>LOL.
Ye Ol' "Lady in the livingroom, Cook in the Kitchen, Slut in the Bedroom" weve all heard would be great, but without OTHER interests to share, you can see where the lady would rapidly figure out its all one sided.
IF I would have to generalize about women, and remember this is based ONLY on my own experience, I would have to say the biggest flaw I have found is FOR ME>........few women have indicated that they were willing to return the attention given them........in and out of the bedroom. Give and take, its hard to not keep score but......in my life, Ive honestly given much more than I received.
It is very EASY in a long time relationship to start taking the other for granted. Beware that this doenst happen.
ON the most part.......do that something a little extra and a regular basis, and it will normally come back to you.......IF ......double IF......the person really loves you.
So a short answer to your question (blush!) would be someone compatible, on your wave lenght, interested in the same things, and unselfish. Just to name some of the more important ones.
Thanks for asking. JustThinking.............. | |
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| Re: question for older men Posted: 6/29/2004 11:38:59 AM | | I want someone that is fun, first off. Not necessarily wild, but fun. A partner in life. Someone intelligent, honest and will have your back if you need it. And they know that you would have their back too. So much of the rest is really not important. Be a friend, a good friend. Being great in bed is a nice extra. | |
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| Re: question for older men Posted: 7/1/2004 12:02:52 AM | | At the risk of sounding lame and long winded, I think a woman should know what she wants in life as well as her passion in life. She should be strong as well as soft but the most important attribute I believe is she should know how to make her man feel like a man as well as he should know how to make her feel like a woman. That seems to be such a small part of releationships today. It's more a compatition it seems than a passionate love affair. | |
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| Re: question for older men Posted: 7/10/2004 5:40:22 AM | Honesty, faithfulness, compassion and to feel loved back as fully as I have given. Not much just the golden rule thingy. The rest comes along with communication
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