| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/3/2006 6:57:16 PM | Ok this is just after I responded to a forum on giving head. And I"m here for more than just sex, but I can't help but respond to some of these forums its fun.
I am a VERY sexual person and would want the guy that I am going to be with to know that, so I dont' hold back. I say what I"m thinking, and I'm not going to quit doing that.
I just don't want to give everyone the wrong idea... do you guys think I am?? | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/3/2006 7:09:04 PM | Well.. for a guys perspective.
a) Men that frequent the forums are GUARANTEED to be more successful in meeting and keeping women. The unbiased.. honest truth that the women provide is something most men who haven't discovered this forum would pay anything for. Men are constantly asking 'what do women want'... the answers lie in the honest posts made by the women of this forum.
b) A women who is open to talk frankly and honestly about her sexual being, is also one of the most highly sought after. You see... at some point in time you realize that being with a woman who is sexually liberated and secure is the ULTIMATE. One a guy eventually meets one of these fabulous women... he will know what I mean... and his standards will be raised for life! | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/3/2006 7:12:36 PM | I find it great that we as human beings can communicate about many things and a partner who is open and who offers an opinion is highly desireable im my view.
I dont want to talk to myself if i did i would stay single.
Being able to communicate on many different subjects is great but sex is a given its needs to be explored together. And what better way thank to openly talk about it not sure if its my european blood coming out but we are more open to sex in europe but here in canada where i reside i have noticed its also a subject that gets talked about.
Must be the cold weather...
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/3/2006 7:14:58 PM | ^^^^ WOW  thank you .... anotheraviator see thats what I was hoping, but I was also thinking that maybe all of the good guys out there were going to be scared away by all the women on here that are talking about sex all the time.
You are so right, knowing what you want and asking for it are great, everyone needs to learn how to do that... including more men.
I do want a guy that isn't going to be scared away from the fact that I am extremely open with talking about sex. I know that by going on here I am talking to EVERYONE about sex, and that may not be ok with some, but hey, I'm learning new things all the time on here. and I don't see any harm in that.  | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/3/2006 7:16:20 PM | I think it's more HOW you talk about sex in the forums, than that you talk about it at all.
Some women I see come into a thread and make posts obviously for the shock value. What do I think about those women? All hat and no cattle. And even if they've got the cattle to back up the hat...well, I'd probably want to make sure they were well vaccinated.
Then I see women posting in the forums who are honest about their feelings about everything...including sex. What do I think about those women? That somewhere there's a lucky man. Just hope he's smart enough to recognize it when he finds her! | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/3/2006 7:20:13 PM | Well personally if I can't talk about anything and everything sexual with a partner... it won't go any further. Guaranteed. I've experienced the relationships where I fear bringing anything up because i'll be called a pervert or a freak (and no they didn't involve garden hoses and barn yard animals!)
The same goes for women. I want her to be able to say what she wants. What she does. What turns her on. etc.
If my partner ever said "hey. I want to be gangbanged by 3 guys"... I still wouldn't think anything badly of her. (I don't think that would be in my cards) ..but I would not be affraid to explore it with her..maybe even figure out some way to mutually enjoy the fantasy.
Thats the problem in too many marriges/relationships these days. Everyone's affraid to say what they really think for fear or being labeled or worse.
I am an open book from day one. If she doesn't like that. I'm not for her, nor she for me. | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/3/2006 7:24:33 PM | | What should a guy think? well there should be no discrimnaition look we are all human and we all have thoughts about sex just becouse our ansestors before us tought there little girls that sex was dirty dosent mean that it is !!! women should feel as free to talk about sex just as much as men and not just talk about it thay should have sex as much as thay want and with whom ever thay want so if you are female and think that people will think that you are a slut just becouse you like to talk about or have sex alot WHO CARES what people think !!!!! | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/3/2006 7:32:30 PM |
Well.. for a guys perspective.
a) Men that frequent the forums are GUARANTEED to be more successful in meeting and keeping women. The unbiased.. honest truth that the women provide is something most men who haven't discovered this forum would pay anything for. Men are constantly asking 'what do women want'... the answers lie in the honest posts made by the women of this forum.
b) A women who is open to talk frankly and honestly about her sexual being, is also one of the most highly sought after. You see... at some point in time you realize that being with a woman who is sexually liberated and secure is the ULTIMATE. One a guy eventually meets one of these fabulous women... he will know what I mean... and his standards will be raised for life!
great post!! | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/3/2006 7:33:08 PM | That's the truth.
I don't think there are many people here that can't recal at least one relationship where they both sat on the couch all night with nothing but sex on their minds, but nobody was willing to bring it up.
I still believe that lack of good sex is the #1 reason for divorce.
I think if you want to have a successful relationship, both parties should be willing to at least LISTEN to the thoughts of their partners and offer dialog WITHOUT JUDGING them or making them feel inappropriate for mentioning whats on their minds. | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/3/2006 7:41:03 PM | First, who cares what they think, as long as you're being true to yourself?
Second, talking about sex doesn't mean you're a whore. It means you like to talk about sex. I'm rather educated when it comes to sexual health, and I've had a lot of varied experiences in body image issues, health, fitness, sexuality, etc. I KNOW stuff. And that knowledge enables me to contribute to conversations on sexual topics. For me, a lot of it is sharing of knowledge.
Does that mean that I'm all brain and no sex? Hells no. But I reiterate: just because you talk about sex doesn't mean you're a whore. | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/3/2006 7:41:28 PM | Leo, you're fine don't worry sweetie.
There are two general ways that women talk about sex here on the forums....
The first is like you. You have honest questions, thoughts and/or suggestions on the topic that reflect both your deep knowledge on the subject while at the same time show you have an honest desire to learn more. And there's nothing wrong with that at all, in fact it's very sexy on an intellectual level.
The second way that women talk about sex on the forums, however, is a total turn off to me and perhaps several other guys. You know the type, their profile is loaded down with several pics of various body parts (ie breasts, buns, etc) and usually include at least one pic of them kissing their best girlfriend at a bar. While I understand why they are doing this, using what they think men want to see, it doesn't cast a positive light on them. But pics aside, we are afterall talking of forum posts, the most annoying habit of this 'type' is that when they do post it is only to say something they think men want to hear such as....
"I love giving head! I could just give head allllllllllll day! It's better than sex!"
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"I'd do ANYTHING to keep my man happy! If he wanted to bring another woman into the bed, hey, I'm down!"
No matter how shallow or superficial a woman may be, there are always going to be real feelings involved when it comes to sex and blanket statements like these don't give you any idea of the REAL person behind these statements.
In fact, it only makes them less likely to attract the attention of a quality male since only men that can't read between the lines and think these statements genuine will reply. | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/3/2006 7:42:07 PM | I still believe that lack of good sex is the #1 reason for divorce.
don't know if this is true because sometimes sex is the only thing left that holds a relationship together...
I'd say that #1 reason for divorce is that women expect a guy to change and he doesn't.. or
Men expect women to stay the way they were before the marriage and they change after getting married | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/3/2006 7:56:38 PM | Leo, you're fine don't worry sweetie.
There are two general ways that women talk about sex here on the forums....
The first is like you. You have honest questions, thoughts and/or suggestions on the topic that reflect both your deep knowledge on the subject while at the same time show you have an honest desire to learn more. And there's nothing wrong with that at all, in fact it's very sexy on an intellectual level.
The second way that women talk about sex on the forums, however, is a total turn off to me and perhaps several other guys. You know the type, their profile is loaded down with several pics of various body parts (ie breasts, buns, etc) and usually include at least one pic of them kissing their best girlfriend at a bar. While I understand why they are doing this, using what they think men want to see, it doesn't cast a positive light on them. But pics aside, we are afterall talking of forum posts, the most annoying habit of this 'type' is that when they do post it is only to say something they think men want to hear such as....
"I love giving head! I could just give head allllllllllll day! It's better than sex!"
or
"I'd do ANYTHING to keep my man happy! If he wanted to bring another woman into the bed, hey, I'm down!"
No matter how shallow or superficial a woman may be, there are always going to be real feelings involved when it comes to sex and blanket statements like these don't give you any idea of the REAL person behind these statements.
In fact, it only makes them less likely to attract the attention of a quality male since only men that can't read between the lines and think these statements genuine will reply
Thanks for that Deagle, I wasn't really sure... I was just being honest, but I got alot of responses from people that were just looking for sex, and I was like "uh I don't think I'm what you are looking for" and they were like "well after reading some of your forums that sure isn't what it sounded like"
So then I started thinking well damn it... I dont' want people to be seeing what I want to say if they are going to judge me for it. There is no choice on here though.
Then after some of the responses on here I've been thinking about it,and everyone is right. I dont' want a weak minded guy that is going to be scared away by the fact that I am open and curious.
I get bored with alot of conversations quickly actually if they aren't about sex, its on the top of my mind most of the time.
I do like to talk about other things at times too, but it all comes around to sex eventually.  | |
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| what do guys think about girls that talk about sex on the forums all the time?
Posted: 1/3/2006 8:06:17 PM | | i think guys can talk about sex atlot easier then gurls and there more comfrtable with there sexuality like there not affraid of telling the gurl that the head she jus gave sux or the sex wasn't good cause u can always train here but a gurl wouldn't beable to tell a guy that the sex is horrible or ur penis is to small cause they get embarrassed and go all red and run outta the room or change the subject when u talk about it | |
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