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 Anlachok

Joined: 4/24/2005
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What is attraction.????
Posted: 1/4/2006 5:03:46 PM
Attraction...what is it for you.?
To some it's guided by the pictures they see on profiles ...sad but true even for me...rare are the times that your profile's story is read...Sometimes you get the odd bite on the line that is curious if you haven't posted a picture...but when you show your face welll...you know what happens next..lol..won't bore you all with the trst of the story...Bur letus examine that...what makes us connect to a person that posts a picture...what guides us to contact him or her simply because the way the look or..present themselves ie: various states of undress or posing with their proudest body parts for all to see...lol...In my mind there's nothing wrong in being proud of what the gods have given you...given the fact that you must deal with the consequences of the weird e-mails...every action is met with an equal if not more unsavoury action...
We're only human really..trying to not look at an attractive woman or man makes us abnormal..lol..
Can we look past the looks and see the true person behind the picture..I say yes...in a perfect world. Well we don't live in a perfect world now do we...so the question still remains. Can we take the TIME and LOOK at the person that is in front of us and LOOK deeper. Or do we succumb to the baser instinct..lust, desire and physicality OR do we engage interaction, conversation, compassion, passion...getting to know a person rather then figure out how you will look together out in public.

Sadly, we'll remain human to the end and judge by looks and looks alone..rare are those that look beyond the mortal shell we're forced to bare...a human soul has no color, no make-up, no height or weight requirement...it simply IS.
Einstein wrote once "Inteligence is limited, imagination is unlimited"....Imagine if you could see beyond the facade.?..
 leafslady

Joined: 6/8/2005
Msg: 2
What is attraction.????
Posted: 1/4/2006 5:30:40 PM
If I had the ability to see beyond the facade,I wouldn't be here...

Shame ,really.My own lack of judgement.
 brawnydog

Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 3
What is attraction.????
Posted: 1/4/2006 5:35:44 PM
I didn't read your long post,,,,,,,,,but, I would say a hot pic.

moo
 Frrosty

Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 4
What is attraction.????
Posted: 1/4/2006 5:54:38 PM
Something that draws you too someone.

North...and South...attract one another.

*shrugs*

Looks is only a small part of the equation.
 SunflowerSally

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 5
What is attraction.????
Posted: 1/4/2006 6:51:19 PM
Attraction can be a feeling I get because of how someone treats me. Yes, looks come into play, but looks are not the only contributing factor to attraction for some of us.

Half-naked photos may at first be attractive, but I wouldn't want to contact someone who has to advertise in such a way. He will not be attractive to me in the long run. Nor am I interested in guys who want to be rated, or guys who, in turn, rate other women. I find modesty very hot.

A quiet disposition is attractive to me. Depth of thought is attractive to me. The way he looks at me is attractive to me, and in fact turns me on the most.
 livewirehere

Joined: 8/10/2004
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Posted: 1/5/2006 12:58:35 AM
It's when you want to throw someone in the trunk of your car, take them home, and then lock them up in the basement~~~ Just for you~~
 leafslady

Joined: 6/8/2005
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Posted: 1/5/2006 3:34:57 AM
Livewire..just make sure they're still breathing when you do that ,okay?
 livewirehere

Joined: 8/10/2004
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Posted: 1/5/2006 12:31:08 PM
Oh, I'll make sure they stay alive.... I don't like the dead one's~~~~
 Quigong

Joined: 12/26/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 1/5/2006 3:10:39 PM
Attraction is an inate sense..unfortunately most humans rely soley on their base instincts and so rarely go deeper than the 5 senses. Lame~
 livewirehere

Joined: 8/10/2004
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Posted: 1/5/2006 3:47:12 PM
Which is why I was married for almost 26 years~~
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