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Posted: 1/8/2006 7:11:51 PM | | i have this problem i like this guy but really dont know how to tell him i acted differntly when hes around n im happy around him how do i tell him i like him | |
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Posted: 1/8/2006 7:17:47 PM | If he appears as happy around you as you are with him, then that should be a good sign for you to tell him.
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Posted: 1/8/2006 7:18:34 PM | Well, I don't know about you but I would just come right out and say "hey, nice boots, wanna ----?" Ok, be a little more coy, maybe "I really enjoy myself around you, interested in doing dinner/dancing/date whatever?" Good luck!  | |
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Posted: 1/8/2006 7:21:40 PM | | just come out and tell him i know its easier said then done but. in the end you have dealt with the feling right away and are not going to build yourself up for a huge fall if it bottoms out. | |
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Posted: 1/8/2006 7:21:50 PM | yeah i agree if the guy appears to like you, just tell him how you feel. that way there is no confusion about your feelings. remember when we were kids and we liked someone. we told a friend and they went and told them that you liked them. things have changed a lot since then.  | |
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Posted: 1/8/2006 7:23:33 PM | | 'nip in in the bud' say your goodbyes now, and save yourself some time and trouble. If you have to ask why/what/who/when/how then u needn't be 'doing it' or it would have been done already. ie you would not be here asking a buncha well, ok, people like me, what to 'do' OR you could take and English class, so we could really know WHAT you are trying to express here....if he liked you, wouldn't have to worry about telling him that you iked him (ie avoid the guys that can't read your mind) | |
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Posted: 1/8/2006 7:24:58 PM | Ask him to do something casual with you. If he avoids the idea like the plague, chances are he is not into you. If he says yes, pursue it from there and see where it leads.  | |
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Posted: 1/8/2006 7:26:29 PM | | WOW and I thought I was a doom sayer for relationships... And besides you asked me where just a few seconds ago Salamander lol... :) | |
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Posted: 1/8/2006 7:29:34 PM | | and most of all, beware, if they act like they 'know you' right away | |
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Posted: 1/8/2006 7:29:44 PM | | There is no casual in West By God Virginia! Just kidding, I think legster69 is right on. Looking at your profile, are we really talking a bout a man here? | |
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Posted: 1/8/2006 7:33:17 PM | | thanks double cabin, glad we're all on one page here, ha | |
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Posted: 1/8/2006 7:50:33 PM | You could always quote Barney.
On a serious note, have you tried the old-fashioned way? You know, just sort of lay it out on the table with a quick "I like you" or "You really strike my fancy"...? | |
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Posted: 1/8/2006 10:00:22 PM | | okay how is it a problem when you like someone seriously ... you tell them and either they feel the same way or they dont... when they dont then you have a problem.... because now you feel weird around him... but thats another post. | |
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Posted: 1/8/2006 11:35:39 PM | Smile at him
flirt with him
You can tell him with your eyes and body language without saying a word! | |
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Posted: 1/9/2006 9:33:24 AM | That's crazy. In fact, it's so crazy that it just might work! | |
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Posted: 1/9/2006 9:42:46 AM | | tell him your horny and you think he'll do just fine........................ | |
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Posted: 1/9/2006 9:51:59 AM | Personally, if a woman was interested in me I would prefer something on the coy side... maybe say something to him like "how long do you plan to wait before you ask me out already?"
This is about as not subtle as you can get LOL even the thickest guy would get it | |
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Posted: 1/9/2006 11:00:11 AM | thanks to everyone yeh for u (okieroper)we have had made love n yeh it was great i just have more feelings then a friendship n i dont know how he would feel about that u know yeh so most of u read my profile yeh i like girls to but never been with one big differents n the i have in mind is taking | |
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Posted: 1/9/2006 11:04:32 AM | | Wait. You've managed to have sex with this man, but you cannot manage to tell him that you like him? Wow. The mind boggles. | |
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Posted: 1/9/2006 11:05:33 AM | | Times have changed since we were in elementary school. We just don't pass a little note back n forth now. If you are too shy to tell him, ask him how he feels about you? What do you really have to lose? Yo already slept with him. | |
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Posted: 1/9/2006 11:06:25 AM | | Just take the plunge the worst he's going to do is say no, and while it might hurt I gaurantee you'll live through it but if he says yes, think about the possibilities.... | |
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Posted: 1/9/2006 11:10:49 AM | tel him you like him
if he says something that is not what you expected such is life
move on Plenty of BEtter fish in the sea!!! | |
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Posted: 1/9/2006 11:14:15 AM | | Well, darling you have to get ride of your insacurities ( i butchered that word) Be confident! Mabe he intimdates you when you are around him. I don't really know your story but I know when Im different around a person, depending on how that person makes me feel about myself is how I act! I hope I made some sence? | |
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Posted: 1/9/2006 11:46:19 AM | | Just tell him he was good in bed and you thought it would be nice to make it an everynight occation... if that dont work you can always resort to just sleeping with him when the urge is there. | |
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