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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 1/10/2005 11:58:44 AM | | nope, never dated a married man...i dated a guy once who lied to me about having a g/f....i called him one day on his cell and his g/f called me back.....i ended that right away.....same as if i ever found out he was married, that would be the end of it...i'm not a home wrecker | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 1/10/2005 1:18:20 PM | lol ltl
i can say i've never dated a married man...thats one self help group i will not be attending. Thank you.  | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 1/10/2005 1:41:47 PM | | Yes, I have. I knew what I was getting into from the start. I did not want to get into another serious relationship right away and I felt safe being with someone who is married. I would never, ever break up a marriage. I made it perfectly clear that he must never let her know about me. I know that I will probably get slammed for posting this, but I am just being honest, and I think if everyone knew the complete set of circumstances surrounding this situation they would understand. Btw, I do not make a habit out of dating married men; this just sorta happened. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 1/10/2005 1:47:05 PM | No but my husband's girlfriend has and I don't think she would say it was fun but most defintely different. Be careful when (not if) the wife finds out it will get ugly. Being a mistress is not glamorous but raunchy. Plus if he doesit to her he'll do it to you.
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 1/10/2005 2:38:53 PM | | There seems to be this constant taboo when it comes to "married people". All I can say is get over it! I'm married, and I go out with other women on occasion. My wife does the same thing. We're not so bent on what's right or wrong according to the religious right of this country. Morales, something everone claims they have, yet inside are as perverted as the next person - closet cases if you will. We all have fantasies! Do it or don't, who the hell cares as long as no one gets hurt! The difference is that I know, as well as my wife who we're coming home to. Food for thought; Isn't it amazing that gays & lesbians are coming out of the closet, but heterosexuals don't talk openly about their sexuality, sensuality, or fantasies for that matter? Get over it people, and maybe, just maybe you'll expand your circle of friends. A final note; I married my best friend for a life long partner, not someone to claim as my property, or to be to be jealous of. We don't own each other - nobody owns anyone. I realize that what works for some don't work for others, but jealousy is what kills relationships. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 1/10/2005 3:36:15 PM | | I am one person who will definitely NOT slam you for being honest b/c I've been in the exact same situation. Might as well have company if you're going to be judged! | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 1/10/2005 5:02:10 PM | | Ayara - as long as you and your wife both are cool w/the situation, that's your business and I don't have a problem w/that. What I do have a problem w/is someone sneaking around behind your back w/someone else. I never have and I never will date a married man. To me, the whole point of being married is to commit yourself to someone else and it's something I take seriously. I would never want to be the other woman. I've been on the other side of that fence and trust me, it is not a place you would want to be. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 1/10/2005 6:28:52 PM | yeh, i hope the one who was w/my EX-husband is freaking miserable  Honestly, Johnferg... I think if someone will cheat w/you, what makes you thinks they won't cheat on you? Who wants to be w/someone like that ? Who wants to BE someone like that for that matter ? Have some respect for someone elses relationship, not to mention yourself. | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 1/10/2005 6:30:43 PM | ^^^^ Laughin my **s off John,,
yup, but I didn't know it, till one night his wife called at 3 am. Screaming at me to "leave her husband alone!!". Since I was dating a few people at the time, I was chagrined to have to ask, "whos your husband?",,he,he,he,,,When she told me, I was flabbergasted!! This guy brought me to his house, met his kids, took em to the park. Seems she found my number on his cell phone. wonder if it was the first time she had found a strange number?!?!
Never heard from him again, till one day, was at the beach and a baby seal was resting on the rocks. Dangerous, cause there was a lot of stupid people on the beach. wanted to help the baby seal. They beach themselve to rest, Mom's usually close by in the My gf and I were right beside it when it beached, and we kept them away and sent soemone to call a park ranger. Guess who showed up!!! Wicked Funny. Asked him how his wife and kids were. Thought he was gonna dive in and find Mom,, | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 1/10/2005 6:45:01 PM | | Nope, never had never will. Some one is bound to get hurt no matter how 'safe' you want to play it and most likely it will be you. And why would I want to be 'the other woman'. As someone said it here, 'what goes around comes around' and what a mess it can be! Not to mention the potential emotional minefield.... | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 1/10/2005 6:45:19 PM | Strange, not many men ask, "Have you dated a married woman?"
I am married and have got accused of most everything in responses short of 9/11.
Most simply do not reply, or give a short response, "sorry I don't", both of which are just fine.
I am not down on women (odd way to say it...because I like to be) who don't want to date married people, that's their choice. Same goes for men.
I just have little tolerance for people who categorize others simply by their circumstances without knowing the WHOLE story. Now, if you feel strongly there is no excuse for married dating singles, or other marrieds, etc. that's fine. THEN JUST DON'T RESPOND!
But no reason to start accussing someone who took the time out to reply to your ad of all kinds of crimes.
Better yet, say in your own ad, "I will only date unmarried people"...and other criminals like me will not reply to your ad. Well, I will not..I realize others don't understand 'NO'. It's really quite simple...... | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 1/10/2005 6:46:54 PM | | dated a married man by accident once but had he not lied to me i would have made him kick rocks! i don't dig married men because as a woman... i'd hate to hurt another woman. especially over a guy. and besides... why should he have his cake and eat it too? ;) girl power!!! | |
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| HAVE YOU DATED A MARRIED MAN??????
Posted: 1/10/2005 7:42:59 PM | Thanks for making my point. "... i'd hate to hurt another woman"..
How do you know it's not the man who is hurting? You don't. You look at it from just one viewpoint, how it would affect you as a woman.
I am not saying there are not men who are true pigs, and treat their women like crap. But it goes the other way too.
The whole point is who are we to judge? You have to have your own morality, whatever works for you. But don't every assume your situation is always the same for someone else.
Do you really believe there are no women who are having their cake and eating it too? You can't be that naive. | |
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