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| I haer you all good answers
Posted: 1/8/2006 10:23:37 PM | Commitment is exciting, powerful, challenging and has a very definite shelf life.
There are so many levels of commitment. Defining the boundries of commitment with a partner is probably the hardest, as everyone is different. No two people are going to match perfectly of course; and it's that ambiguity of the unknown that usually freaks people out, the famous:
What if...what if...
Lots of behavior backed up with postive messages can cause the problem to turn into a celebration. | |
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| I haer you all good answers
Posted: 1/8/2006 10:29:39 PM | one fish...i agree 
there r different levels of commitment..i have a commitment with my friends...family and with myself...amd not afraid of commiting in a relationship. | |
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| Why are some woman afraid of comitmentment?
Posted: 1/8/2006 10:40:57 PM | Because that closes the door to looking for the next model up. (though they are never sure what level they are happiest with until they get to one they're not so happy with) I find that today; many people FIND their happiness within a relationship and the position that they are in. Then....when they get bored for a week...or see someone that entices them a wee bit sexually....or have to work to keep that happy bpat at even keel....they areso easily willing to gamble that sure happiness away for whatever it is that is behind door number x. (the pretty package in their eyes)
sucks hu?
P.S. That blonde girls answer is good too.
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| Why are some woman afraid of comitmentment?
Posted: 1/8/2006 11:12:14 PM | Commitment? what's that?
Today's version: Economic arrangement where both share the bills. Familiar with each other's habits, can live with them. Some excitement, small group of friends, workaholics, sex not bad, but not great either.
Always wondering what's on other side of fence. Big fight. Relationship over. Hey, let's be friends. Miserable, hope to find new specimen soon before other person does.
Timeframe: 6-9 months.
Repeat. Wash. Cycle. Rinse. Hung out to dry. Now extremely picky. End of story.
Don't tell it to kids. | |
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| Why are some woman afraid of comitmentment?
Posted: 1/8/2006 11:16:57 PM | I think commitment is a beautiful and wonderful thing. But, some women (and men) are just not cut out for it. Some of them don't even know they're not. And that's fine. But, I like to think with time, these people will learn about themselves a little more, and be a little more honest.
I also think that what may be perceived as "fear of commitment" is sometimes just plain ol' 'I'm not sure if this is the person for me', which can drag things out and confuse the other person.
I personally am not afraid of commitment. I'm more afraid of someone trying to own me, and tell me how I can, and can't live my life. Some people's views of "commitment" are SCARY. | |
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