| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/10/2006 10:44:46 PM | So i noticed how many females talk about how they went on a date and things went well and felt the connection so u got laid and gave the guy some ''love''. Well if your intent is not to get laid by a guy do not give in if u really like the guy. So many girls say well after we got sexual he called me the next but then after that i havnt heard from him in 5 days now, mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm???? Im not judging because i ve done it, and alot of us females seem to get an emotional connection alot easier than the guys do. So i would like to hear some of others stories.  | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/10/2006 10:55:46 PM | | i guess what it all boils down to is sterotypical ppl. so he hasnt called you in 5 days omg if you did make this connection im pretty sure your feelings would have got to you and you wold have used this new fangeled device called a phone. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/10/2006 11:02:05 PM |
a lot of us females seem to get an emotional connection alot easier than the guys do
I have to take exception to this. I can't say that I'm one to bed a woman and move on, so I don't really have all that much to add to the main conversation here, other than to say:
Stop dating jerks. Once you do, they can't be jerks to you.
Back to my initial point. I, personally, tend to form an attachment rather quickly with women. I can't speak for any other guy here, but from my perspective a guy that connects with a girl soon or easily tends to serve as a kind of industrial strength repellant to said girl. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/10/2006 11:02:46 PM | Just to let you know your advice wasnt needed here, and nobody cares about what u just said, sorry try somewhere else...
HAVE A NICE DAY | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/10/2006 11:06:44 PM | | well what do you expect you post a thread ppl will respond. espacily when there views are skewed. you think just because you have sex with a guy it is automaticly the guys job to stay in touch. god grow up and return to reality. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/10/2006 11:15:19 PM | | I dont expect to have sex with a guy and expect him to call me back and be like oh i love and lets get married, a REAL MAN could call the women and say i had a good time the other night and im just not looking for more right now, i wasnt just trying to get laid unless of course that was the mans, im sorry boys intent. Honesty people, honesty!!!! Its really not that hard. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/10/2006 11:16:59 PM | | thats such a sexist way of looking at it. if you yourself had a good time also then wouldnt you think that what you just said also applys to you and not just the men. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/10/2006 11:21:32 PM | Call me super old fashioned.
I got burnt in my first serious relationship. I held off on the sex for 6 months. I figured I should really get to know her first. Well, once we got started the sex was 2 - 3 times a day for 5 years. It was intoxicating. I really thought this women loved me because she accepted me physically and really enjoyed herself. Then we got married. That was 26 years ago. It took me 25 years to realized that she didn't love me.
I guess what I am saying is that sex can blind a man. Sex is not love. I wish I knew that 26 years ago. Loving someone and having sex with them is two different things.
I truly feel that sex follows naturally after two people are intimate in all other aspects of their lives.
Well that's my 2 cents worth.
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/10/2006 11:26:15 PM | | Don't give in to the sex? whats the point in going out w/a hot guy, if you can't have a little no strings fun? lol | |
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Posted: 1/10/2006 11:39:56 PM | | I recall stating that if your intent is not to have sex with the guy at all, then dont, but hell ya if u are with a hot as* guy and your up for fun no strings attached then go for it if u want. Hope their is no stds of course. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/10/2006 11:42:16 PM | | steve a what were you doing for 26 years? didn't you sleep in the same bed, go thru the same ups and downs in life? true sex can blind you but not for 25 years. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 12:06:22 AM |
Don't give in to the sex? whats the point in going out w/a hot guy, if you can't have a little no strings fun? lol
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And no offence Angelbabe, but you don't get better at anything by running from it. It sounds like you've fallen a bit too fast and gotten your wings burned....hell, it happens to the best of us. But you just need to get better at assessing the situation....
Any man that approaches you and initiates conversation is going to want to have sex with you. Period. No if's and's or but's.
The real question is, is that ALL he wants?
For some men, the answer is yes. Their definition of love is a hot chick that they can screw all the time, or at least until they get tired of her.
For others, myself included, they want to have a hot chick they can screw all the time AND a partner in every sense of the word. Someone to talk to, laugh with, work on goals together, play with.
I've said it before, and I'll say it again, my ideal relationship is to have a woman be my best friend....and we make each other horny as well. | |
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Posted: 1/11/2006 12:45:53 AM | I cant speak for others and I kinda know what she trying to say if your intentions on a date is not to sleep with the guy and some women and men do because emotions get in the way,but fo rme no guy really put a gun to my head and have sex with me on my first dates, which i have done twice, because maybe I was horny and I just simply felt for his touch or the size of his pole, who knows. hey there always a chance either one will not call you back and why should they there is no contract saying they have to after sex, if you know you are an emotional person and cant control yourself on a date you may get dissapointed after him or her not calling maybe you should just have coffee and go home, it all has to do with the person and trusting your choices on how far a date should go. | |
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Posted: 1/11/2006 12:57:59 AM | | i understand that but for me never on a first date i dont care who it is. im not going to lowr my standards due to my urges sure we all get them but we know how ot control them. its not like you see a person and go OMG im getting laid lol. | |
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Posted: 1/11/2006 1:03:00 AM | | If you both want some no strings fun and if you can handle it emotionally, go for it. Personally I have found though that if you are after something longer term, it's better to wait. The types who just want sex tend to quit and go after easier meat once they realise there is some time and effort involved! | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 1:10:44 AM | Don't give in to the sex? whats the point in going out w/a hot guy, if you can't have a little no strings fun? lol
And people wonder why I wish I was a hot lookign guy. Maybe if I was I would get a little action? Not with the looks I got now I tell ya..damn!!! Can we rewind back 16 years so I can start my 20's once again..but give me a better identity ok cuz this one has not got me any action...not even in vegas this past weekend...now that is sad LOL? | |
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Posted: 1/11/2006 1:21:40 AM | Not all women are alike.... There doesn't have to be an emotional connenction, not at all~~ As the old bumper sticker says, "Shi# Happens">>>> and so does life~~ | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 1:52:38 AM |
i havnt heard from him in 5 days now
I would have to agree with the other guy. Phone lines work both ways.
How hard is it to dial 7 numbers anyways?
First, it's the guy has to be the one asking out. Then it's he has to call.
Nah. Thankfully, there are girls that are more promiscuous, and I don't mean hookers. | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 1:53:19 AM |
For others, myself included, they want to have a hot chick they can screw all the time AND a partner in every sense of the word. Someone to talk to, laugh with, work on goals together, play with.
I've said it before, and I'll say it again, my ideal relationship is to have a woman be my best friend....and we make each other horny as well.
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 4:28:41 AM |
my ideal relationship is to have a woman be my best friend....and we make each other horny as well.
good point
my definition too ! | |
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| Dont give in to the sex girls
Posted: 1/11/2006 8:20:18 AM |
Not all women are alike.... There doesn't have to be an emotional connenction, not at all~~ As the old bumper sticker says, "Shi# Happens">>>> and so does life~~
I agree and is something i do not believe. Sex is overrated anyhow, causes too many problems and seems almost every guy is looking for it. No wonder women are so picky, choosey and question every guy's motive. Now it makes me thankful to not let it bother me. I know anyhow that thewoman is not going to jump in the sack with me. Now maybe when i was in my 20's it would be something i was hoping for. Not now. | |
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