| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 1:55:33 AM | it's weird to me that guys seem to experience orgasms pretty much at the same level -- one is as good as another, right?
whereas there are levels of intensity for girls. i mean, there's no such thing as a basd orgasm ... but sometimes it just feels really good, a nice release .... and sometimes it feels so good that i scream, cry, rip the flesh off dude's back, and faint.
i've never been with a guy who got so wrapped up in an orgasm that he fainted from the intensity. i dunno -- do guys just not feel it as intensely as girls (or, at least, as i) do? | |
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 2:19:45 AM | Guys do have different levels of orgasmic responce. It just depends, sometimes starting and stoping when near the end helps the intensity.
I've had the slight twitch to the ones that buckel my knee's and leave me gasping for breathe. It all really depends. | |
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Rake
| Joined: 3/12/2005 Msg: 3 | |
| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 2:37:51 AM | | I obviously cant speak for a woman, but men do experience different levels of intensity...a guy can also train himself to have more intense orgasms...it has to do with kegels and knowing how close you are to having an orgasm at each level... | |
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 4:26:31 AM | yes, thare are different levels for men too. And the best is when the partners are keen into increasing the level for each other... it works, and it is good ! It seems that some men are too "primary" for that, but i can assure you that some women are too primary too. Men have not the monopoly of the lack of refinement | |
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7times
| Joined: 10/27/2005 Msg: 5 | |
| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 4:29:02 AM | okay ladies, here it is.
why do you think we roll over and fall asleep? Its because the orgasm was so intense and we don't want to seem like whimps and pass out. | |
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 6:04:10 AM | | To me, it's all about how long it took for me to get there. I've had ejaculations where I barely felt anything. Then there are those toe-curling, blood-rushing, teeth-grinding, "oh-my-god-I-can't-beleive-you-feel-this-good" explosions that temporarily put the better part of my brain in a different timezone for a few seconds. The longer foreplay lasts, the longer I get teased, the higher up the scale I go (usually). It's painful at times, but well worth it! | |
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 6:59:48 AM | Its really hard to compare isnt it? Unless you have experienced from both sides, how would anyone know what its like for both men and women.
I know mine are pretty good, even more super-fantastic with His included! | |
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 7:14:02 AM | practice, practice, practice....
from a mans perspective though yes deifinately different levels of intensity
I have had partners (women) who go through multiple levels of intensity and I have had women help me through multiple levels of intensity... so yes both can be to the point were you can to crawl out of bed afterwards... doesn't happen all the time but it is fun when you and your partner both have to take a while to recover...mmm... good times | |
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 8:00:23 AM | I have a range from boring little squirt to the MEGA-O!!!! that has the woman asking if I am going to live.
It depends a lot on the woman, how long we play around, and how long we spend joined. The good ones are always with women who let themselves go and have a good time while also attending to my pleasure. The little wimpy ones are with women who cannot get into it, or who think just showing up covers their contribution.
Sex has to be uninhibited and interactive to be good.
Silver
PS: Well, that was odd. I tried my first post and it dissappeared. Is there some delay for newbees? If I end up making two, that is what happened. | |
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 10:03:29 AM | | Guys do experience different levels of orgasm ive already ejaculated without the sensation of the orgasm. best way for an explosive orgasm is to get your lover there than stop keep repeating this for a long period of time the end result pure extacy. | |
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 11:39:26 AM | you said it paleone bravo !
I know mine are pretty good, even more super-fantastic with His included!
the same for me, i just replace his by her - only a small disctinction, afterward maibe not comparable, but same words to express it, for sure !  | |
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 12:06:39 PM | On the contrarhy men DO feel it as intensely as women - it's just that some are either inhibited, or distracted, or whatever... I Know I DO ... ! | |
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 12:16:57 PM | What a great topic... I actually just learned how to give a "G" spot Orgasm. It is so intense and I don't think that a man could achieve anything close to that level of release. It is truly an amazing sight to witness. | |
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 12:30:23 PM | Ph0t0g_D, could you share your science with all of us ? it should enlight most of the male, and maybe of sthe female audience sure that a lot are very demanding in learning such a mystery | |
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 1:13:09 PM | I wonder if there is any money in inventing the Orgasmo-Meter (TM). That way lovers could compare orgasms, strive for bigger ones...stop woman from faking ones...what a cool idea
Women and men could start comparing notes...even put in their profile that they are capable of giving 9.2's and achieving 8.5's
Nope...some things are better left untouched by technology!
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 3:34:46 PM | | I would love to share, but it is more of a learned process. You must have a partner that is willing to experience this kind of orgasm. It's not an easy spot to hit your first few times, but, like anything, with practice, it becomes more regular. The last "Friend" I gave this kind of orgasm too had 6 seperate multiple orgasms in a little over an hour of lovemaking. | |
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joesch
| Joined: 4/21/2003 Msg: 20 | |
| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 4:36:13 PM | | You know I have differen't levels of intensity it really depends on how the girl reacts the more stimulated i get the more i react. | |
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/11/2006 4:39:36 PM | | i have had a few oragism that my body shook and i fell to my kness lol or my ass cuz my knees gave out on my from shaking but never fainted | |
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/13/2006 8:22:37 PM | | has never wanted to faint..........but the intensity level can be compared to that of a volcano.........spurt after spurt of HOT lava..........followed by a " i need a beer" | |
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md99
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/13/2006 9:06:31 PM | Speaking for myself I have had different levels of orgasms, some ok, some good, some not worth mentioning and some knee buckling almost loose conciousness kind. It really depends on your partner, she has to be passionate as so should you, and the sky is the limit for trying to reach the highest level. If she just shows up for the game with no desire, no intention of participation then its not nearly as enjoyable, of course we as men do feel the obligation to finish the game in any situation if only for the team Personally and unfortunatly I don't think men can achieve the same level of "O" intensity as women, or as often.
cheers M.O. | |
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| orgasm intensity: guys vs. girls Posted: 1/13/2006 9:09:28 PM | | I find it very intense depending on the vibes I pick up form my partner, her expressions, warmth, and urgency. I have punched a hole through my wall during orgasm before ... I keep a bucket of spackle by my bed for all night lovemaking now. | |
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