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rhinograde

Joined: 1/6/2006
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prisoner's dilemna Posted: 1/11/2006 9:10:07 AM
the quote of the lady made me think to that. You have to please your partner first! eeek.. text explanation : its the lady who wrote "eeek" I personnally thing that the more you give, the more you receive. I expereimented about it (and for sex, it works particularly well) so mutual pleasing can be great only when each try to give the more possible to the other, not when one gives only half of what he/she can give... just by fearing to don't receive enough in return sounds like the prisoner's dilemna applies to her : if i give him all the pleasure i can, and if ever he don't give me back, then i will be cheated... so i dion(t give entirely what i can give... sounds weird, isn't it ?

T-Town Guy

Joined: 12/12/2005
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prisoner's dilemna Posted: 1/11/2006 9:17:38 AM
Not at all. The only problem with your situation is that the world is filled with men and women that enjoy the act of satisyfing their partner. So, those individuals would receive a benefit from those acts. They would not HAVE to receive sexual pleasure directly from their partner b/c they are experiencing it by pleasing their partner. If that makes any sense.

rhinograde

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prisoner's dilemna Posted: 1/11/2006 9:21:07 AM
some misunderstanding. it's not my problem, but the one of the ladu I quoted, because she doesnt believe in mutual pleasing...

Randy Whale

Joined: 1/9/2006
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prisoner's dilemna Posted: 1/11/2006 10:21:28 AM
Fear is fear is fear. I give everything and when I meet someone who does, we have the world. If not, then she gets to enjoy my generosity as long as it takes me to realize she's not the giving kind. You have takers, givers and traders. takers just look to their own bottomless pit of need, unaware that only in giving are we fulfilled. Givers are either doormats or martyrs. Doormats are never worth their upkeep, and martyrs require constant crucifixion. Traders show up with something to give and ask for what they need. You make the trade and everyone is happy. Takers are fearful of being taken. Givers are afraid if they don't give you won't want them. Traders aren't afraid because they can walk away and still have all they need, just not what they want.

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