| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/12/2006 7:07:08 AM | A broken heart is a horrible thing. Giving your all to someone who at a point desides for whatever reason to leave. Being left by someone you love is a sadness greater than most suffered.
My worst dumping was recieving a letter in the mail. She proclaimed that I was too far away (15 miles) and she couldn't hug me when she wanted to. (hated the bus, and driving) I know the are other reasons now, but come on in the mail!
What was it for you? | |
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Leeler
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Joined: 11/17/2005
Msg: 2 | |
| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/12/2006 7:25:46 AM | My boyfriend told me one night (after ignoring me for a few days) that he thought it best if we took a "break" because he was startign to work out of ton during the weeks and his weekends would be spent with his children. The next weekend, he showed up at a friends party (while I was there) and was going on about how he's with this other woman, how sex was with her, what she looks like, etc. Sincethis was a friday night and he had just got back into town, I realized that he couldn't have just met her, which meant that he was cheating on me. In the end, he admitted that he had....of couse he tried to turn it all around to make it look like he was the victim....sure buddy.
After that other woman blew over, he tried to get me back......um, no thanks!! | |
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Leeler
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Joined: 11/17/2005
Msg: 3 | |
| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/12/2006 7:27:07 AM | My boyfriend told me one night that he thought it best if we took a "break" because he was starting to work out of town during the weeks and his weekends would be spent with his children. The next weekend, he showed up at a friends party (while I was there) and was going on about how he's with this other woman, how sex was with her, what she looks like, etc. Since this was a friday night and he had just got back into town, I realized that he couldn't have just met her, which meant that he was cheating on me. In the end, he admitted that he had....of couse he tried to turn it all around to make it look like he was the victim....sure buddy.
After that other woman blew over, he tried to get me back......um, no thanks!! | |
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*Em*
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Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 4 | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 7:33:33 AM | | met a guy on the internet. talked for 6 months continuously. he phoned twice a day, sent me letters/cards almost every day. eventually i thought it was time to meet. he slept with me then dumped me the following day. useless explanation. the real truth was my body wasnt as he expected. learnt a valuable lesson tho, how dumb was i to sleep with the idiot on a first date! more fool me ;) | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:14:49 AM | | ^^^^You two girls are beautiful...that was some punk a$$ shit on the part of those two guys...keep your heads up ladies...those good guys are arround the courner....my best advice for you is to date nerds...they dont get relationships very often...and they tend to stick arround, and faithfull. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:17:03 AM | | My worst dump EVER was after I ate at taco bell two days straight and...Oh, you mean break-up. Sorry. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:34:09 AM | | Mine was finding out the girl cheated on me with a girl for 3 months behind my back and being told by her sister | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:39:52 AM |
proclaimed that I was too far away (15 miles) and she couldn't hug me when she wanted to.
That's a good one! I can't have you whenever I want you, so ... I will dump you.
Man, the funny bullshit women make up instead of telling you they are no longer attracted to you.
I know the are other reasons now
No! Could it be? | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:45:33 AM |
he slept with me then dumped me the following day. useless explanation. the real truth was my body wasnt as he expected. learnt a valuable lesson tho, how dumb was i to sleep with the idiot on a first date! more fool me ;)
Interesting problem, I'm not sure what I think about this --
Are you saying that he should have stayed with you despite that your "body wasn't as he expected?" If that's not what you're saying, then, presumably he would have left you eventually when he discovered this fact. So, better to get it over with, no?
It's difficult to predict whether you will be attracted to someone's naked form until you've seen it. We can't all pick up all of our dates at nude beaches, especially not in the Northeast.
So, I dunno, it's a conundrum. If I'm with a woman, and we're making out, and the clothes come off, and she's hot for sex, should I deny her that just because I'm not attracted to her? That would kind of suck too, wouldn't it? | |
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| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/12/2006 8:53:43 AM | | Yeah, it would suck. Grit your teeth and bear it, for king and country. Take one for the team, but keep your eyes closed. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:55:12 AM |
met a guy on the internet. talked for 6 months continuously. he phoned twice a day, sent me letters/cards almost every day. eventually i thought it was time to meet.
A guy you've never met phones and mails you everyday for six months? That's psycho.
You still want to meet that guy? You're crazy.
You think waiting six months is a reasonable waiting period before you meet someone? You're crazy.
he slept with me then dumped me the following day. useless explanation. the real truth was my body wasnt as he expected.
Even psychos have physical standards! Imagine.
The guy wrote and called all the time. He was acting very interested, and that means only one thing: in his mind, the idiot built up an incredibly attractive image of you.
You should have seen it coming that you can't possibly live up to the imaginary person that he thought he was phoning twice a day.
learnt a valuable lesson tho, how dumb was i to sleep with the idiot on a first date! more fool me
No, you were dumb to invest all that time in someone before finding out whether or not there is physical attraction. The wasted time is more significant than the one night sex. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 9:56:05 AM | How about 12:15am on January 1st 2004, whilst dressed up as a Viking at a fancy dress party? After 3 years together?
That was a crappy thing to do. "Happy New Year, kiss kiss, by the way you're dumped". I doomed to remember that on every New Years Eve for the rest of my natural.
Nice..... | |
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| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/12/2006 10:09:51 AM | | you want bad break ups try christmas eve made up the newyears eve shitty deal | |
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crs626
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Joined: 6/19/2005
Msg: 14 | |
| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/12/2006 10:28:42 AM | Well it seems we all have had a raw deal at one time or another. In responce to jazzhomie; what is the point of chatting and phoning people met here on POF or another site if you don't meet them. Six months isn't bad, gives time needed to make choices. I don't think her choice was bad, he was.
Nerds huh?!? We are the faithful, just pull us outside for some freash air and a new Star Trek rental and we'll be fine lol. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 10:40:46 AM | Well, I might as well post my worst one. And coincidently the most recent.
Knew this girl for about ten years, we decided to give it a shot. After a while we started talking about marriage, as a matter of fact she got hurt the one day and I was with her waiting for the ambulance and in a daze she looked up and said "I want your babies". Things were perfect. She was going to school in WV and I am in NW PA. So what did I do? Every other weekend I drove dow nfor the whole weekend. We hung out, cuddled, watched tv, anything and everything there is to do in WV. Well seh joined a sorority, so I'd come down on friday night and she would be busy most of saturday afternoon. Then she joined band, then more time was taken. Then she joined a few other things so I would only get maybe a few hours to actually see her before she ran off to the next thing. Then one day she calls me and tells me the great news. She just declared a second major. So she told me that she also signed up for the peace corp, and her second major would have her going to south america for six months. So she bluntly told me that she wouldn't have much time for me at all. Said that if I wanted to wait two mor eyears to be happy she would call me when she could. I told her that I could wait a few hours for a phone call, or a few days for a visit, but I couldn't wait two years for both. So the wedding was cancelled, her friends got mad at her, and here I am right now. I actually joined here to help myself get over it.
But yeah, bluntly calling and saying "I don't have time for you, oh well" is defenitely my worst break up. | |
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*Em*
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Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 16 | |
| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/12/2006 11:57:02 AM | hi jazzhomie, nice to see that you take such an interest. your right tho, i was dumb. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 12:39:47 PM | Connal, that sucks, and I'm sorry for you. Two of my best friends in college were in a similar sitch - she went off to Africa in the Peace Corps, and he said "I'll wait for you". Two years later, she came home and broke up with him. You're better off this way than he was. (Though, to be fair, he then went and met the *perfect* woman for him, and they're exquisitely happy together, with an obscene number of babies, so things can work out in the end).
If she had really wanted you with her, she would have talked to you about such a big life decision before she made it, not after.
And, you know, people change a lot when they're young, talking marriage at that age is a bad idea anyway. Trust me on that :(( | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 12:50:45 PM | | Last yeat my Mom was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer. i was dumped 2 weeks before she died because iw asn't paying enough attention to him. Go figure. Other friend saw him this past summer and he was still complaining months after the fact. Life goes on and you learn! | |
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| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/12/2006 12:55:13 PM | It's difficult to predict whether you will be attracted to someone's naked form until you've seen it.
well he was attracted to it enough to go on and actually sleep with her.. so.. its a lame excuse..
On to the OP.. I have never gotten dumped..I've dumped but never gotten dumped..
EDIT: ok.. i've had people tell me we don't click after a first date.. but not major.. and the no click was usually mutual.. but in terms of long term relationships I haven't been dumped cause I haven't really had many relationships. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 1:06:05 PM | This happened to a friend of mine.......lol
He got her a 8,000 $ matching ring/ earrings / bracelet/ chain with pendent set, three days later after 3 years she dumped him because she could not handle being a "army wife" and he was mad about her not working for a year, bugged her too much to go to school to be a vet tech but she did not want to do it, she in school now try'n to be a vet tech!
"Thanks for trying to make a good life for us" is what she said.
Then stole his dog!
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| Worst dump ever
Posted: 1/12/2006 1:52:33 PM | | some of these are actually really funny. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 2:04:21 PM | My last Dumper actually told me to my face that I wasn't what he expected, and besides, he was pursuing another relationship.
I wish he would have phoned or e-mailed me, it would have saved us both the trouble of suffering through another date!  | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 2:15:21 PM | they all suck when ur on the receiving end, worst one she needed some space, gave it to her, then on my birthday was out partying with other guys, over the holidays she tells me she still loves me, then goes out with another guy, after making out with me all through the holidays.  | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 9:22:35 PM | | Well thanx for being sorry, but there really is no need. I will always have a special place for her in my heart. Just that place is behind the stack of old records, and under an old haloween costume. It's true that people change alot, I just don't understand how it can all happen so quickly, maybe I'm naieve about the way the world works. Who really knows. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 9:36:10 PM |
well he was attracted to it enough to go on and actually sleep with her.. so.. its a lame excuse..
Uh, just because a guy has sex with with a woman doesn't necessarily mean he is really attracted to her. It just means she's not outright disgusting to him to the point of erection loss. The more sexually desperate the man, the lower the bar. | |
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