| Is It Cheating If Its Only Online????
Posted: 1/12/2006 12:56:39 PM | I'm curious to get other peoples opinion on this subject !!! 
Is it still cheating if someone you are in a relationship with, is constantly chatting to people of the opposite sex online regarding sex??
How about if they say to these people "my gf/bf are gone to bed and I'm really horny....wanna help me out?"
Is that "technically" cheating or not??
Please....opinions do count !!!
thank you to all those to co-operate !!
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| Is It Cheating If Its Only Online????
Posted: 1/12/2006 1:02:07 PM | | I Know I wouldn't tolerate it I would boot him to the curb. Cause if you think about it how faithfull and trusting is he if he willing to do that online whats next in person?? I would say it is a form of cheating.. If your with someone you should be totally commited to that one physically and emotionally.. | |
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| Is It Cheating If Its Only Online????
Posted: 1/12/2006 1:05:34 PM | | it depends on your definition of cheating. To me its cheating because he is involving someone else in his intamiate life. | |
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| Is It Cheating If Its Only Online????
Posted: 1/12/2006 1:07:56 PM | | Well my opinion may be bias but I do think it is cheating. My ex said she was just talking to friends late at night and I am sure that she was at times, however, she ended up leaving me and for some guy she met on the net. The only reason she left was that he had his own business and had more money. The everyone out there, if they are chatting and sharing personal information with others they have already left your relationship and presented themselves as being available. | |
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| Is It Cheating If Its Only Online????
Posted: 1/12/2006 1:09:35 PM | | yes its cheating because you have to look at it this way if your bf/gf just went to bed you either go up with them and get some or you dont. and yes that statement about helping the person out is just nasty. | |
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Rose70
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Joined: 10/25/2005
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| Is It Cheating If Its Only Online????
Posted: 1/12/2006 1:12:33 PM | | Yes it's cheating.... Physically cheating, emotionally cheating, same thing still cheating. The internet is the worst thing to happen to marriage and relationships since the no fault divorce. | |
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| Is It Cheating If Its Only Online????
Posted: 1/12/2006 2:38:38 PM | It is very very low class.
It shows a lack of sensitivity.
. . . but it is not cheating. . . but I'd go out of my way to avoid that type of person if I were you. They are usually inbreds who fvck thier siblings for delight, and the family tree does not fork.
Their family motto: "Incest is best." | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 2:39:01 PM | Cheating is cheating plain and simple, online, offline whatever....it's all the same.
Why do so many people think this is rocket science, it's actually very simple to figure out. Here, need help, I'll spell it out for the people who ride the short bus.
Lusting after the opposite sex when you are in a relationship = cheating
Oral sex or any sexual act, (kissing, talking dirty to each other to get off, extreme touching, etc. etc.), with the opposite sex when you are in a relationship = cheating
Looking at the opposite sex admiring their looks but not acting on it is not cheating.
Wow amazing how hard that is to figure out, whew....simply amazing.
If you are one of those dumba$$ Liberals that buy into 'unless it's penetration in the vagina' it's not cheating then consider yourself riding on the short bus, dee de de. | |
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| Is It Cheating If Its Only Online????
Posted: 1/12/2006 2:48:36 PM | if he/she cannot do it in the company of his/hers girlfriend/boyfriend, then it is cheating.
if you have to hide what you are doing, then you should not be doing it. | |
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ya472
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Joined: 8/8/2005
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| Is It Cheating If Its Only Online????
Posted: 1/12/2006 3:04:57 PM | My opinion is that it is cheating when one is doing ANYTHING that they do not want their partner to know about.
I could go on and on for pages on the "cheating" subject, but I'll spare us all. | |
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| Is It Cheating If Its Only Online????
Posted: 1/12/2006 3:56:01 PM | Talking to members of the opposite sex if it isnt sexual isnt cheating.Harmless flirtation is ok too.If the chatting is of a more sexual nature and someone says "help me out" ..aside from being cheating ...its also very classless and trashy in my eyes...Did I mention ..EWW!...and Id just say Buh byeeeee | |
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| Is It Cheating If Its Only Online????
Posted: 1/12/2006 4:00:29 PM | Of course its cheating!!...sheesh
Courts in Canada now include on-line love/sex relationships as adultery.
If you hide or deceive...you are cheating...simple as that!
Noun: cheat cheet
1. Weedy annual grass often occurs in grainfields and other cultivated land; seeds sometimes considered poisonous
- darnel, tare, bearded darnel, Lolium temulentum
2. Weedy annual native to Europe but widely distributed as a weed especially in wheat
- chess, Bromus secalinus
3. Someone who leads you to believe something that is not true
- deceiver, cheater, trickster, beguiler, slicker
4. The act of swindling by some fraudulent scheme
- swindle, rig
5. A deception for profit to yourself
- cheating
Verb: cheat cheet
1. Deprive somebody of something by deceit
"we were cheated by their clever-sounding scheme"
- rip off, chisel
2. Defeat someone in an expectation through trickery or deceit
- chouse, shaft, screw, chicane, jockey
3. Engage in deceitful behaviour; practice trickery or fraud
- chisel
4. Be sexually unfaithful to one's partner in marriage
"She cheats on her husband"
- cheat on, cuckold, betray, wander
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| Is It Cheating If Its Only Online????
Posted: 1/12/2006 4:02:13 PM | Maybe you should ask the next guy you date or the guy you're dating now. In my opinion, yes it blatantly is, anything that is or could possibly detract from your present relationship is cheating. If you don't place a high enough value on something, why even bother?
Or think about this if you found out your boyfriend was doing it, would that be okay with you? | |
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Rake
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| Is It Cheating If Its Only Online????
Posted: 1/12/2006 4:03:45 PM | | I think in a relationship one ought to be emotionally as well as physically monogamous...otherwise its just a fwb relationship. | |
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| Is It Cheating If Its Only Online????
Posted: 1/12/2006 4:09:58 PM | not sure i would call it cheating as such,
but usually if someone is doing that, they aren't being honest about things. so therefore a few lies are created.. so i would call it wrong.
in terms of cybering, i think if they are doing that, there is something lacking in the relationship, and its only a matter of time before they meet someone and cheat... physically.
so, while i might not view it as cheating, i would definitely be unhappy about it!
lol if i ever live with someone, i think i would get rid of the computers haha | |
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