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Posted: 1/12/2006 7:30:46 PM | THE FIRST GUY I FALL IN LOVE WITH AT TIS SITE THINKS I AM A ONE NIGHT STAND. WHY DO GUYS ASUME THEY ARE GOING TO DO U AND THEN DUMP YOU. I JUST REFUSED TO GO OUT WITH HIM. HE WAS SO NICE A COUPLE OF TIMES WE CHATTED BUT THEN GOSH...ALL HE WANTED WAS SEX. WHY CAN SOMEONE TELL ME....I DON'T MIND SEX BUT COME ON U DON'T EVEN KNOW ME GET TO KNOW ME FIRST PLEASE.   | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 7:32:26 PM | | well hun alot of men on sites are looking for just sex..you just gotta keep looking...they assume alot of things | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 7:34:41 PM | THANKS...I FIGURED THAT ONE OUT...WHEN THIS ONE GUYS CHATTED WITH ME FOR ONE MONTH AND THEN REALLY SHOWED WHO HE WAS IN MY LAST CHAT LAST NIGHT.... | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 7:38:50 PM | I hope to God you didn't sleep with him... move on.. there are plenty of fish in the sea..  | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 7:47:14 PM | OH HELL NO I DIDN'T EVEN SEE HIM...OR EVEN MEET HIM IN OERSON. WE TALKED ON THE PHONE ALOT AND CHATTED ON LINE...I WAS TO MEET HIM TODAY BUT THANK GOD I DIDNOT
YES THERE ARE ALOT OF FISH IN THE SEA AND I NEED TO FIND THE GOLD FISH AND KILL THE SHARKS! LOL | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 7:47:42 PM | Oh get ready for more if you plan to stick around this pond. You're gonna see all kinds of wacked out behavior. You can't take it seriously and you can't get upset by it...if you do this place might destroy you. For me this pond is cheap entertainment. I see some funny guys and peculiar approaches on here pretty often. And of course there are lots of hypersensitive babies on here and when you show them you are a little bit smarter than them in some way their only reaction is hostility. They lash out at you directly or indirectly...attempting to protect their egos. It makes them look pretty silly to me and that's what I love about this place. The silly fishies! Ok I'm outta here...just spotted a clown fish swimming by....
Oh and by the way, not all of them are like that. There are some really nice guys in this pond. They are all over here by me in the NON-toxic side. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 7:48:36 PM | | lol...well said...or at least castrate em....lol | |
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csfbl
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Joined: 6/11/2005
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Posted: 1/12/2006 7:49:11 PM | | A lot of guys are pigs, I live and work with them, in the military its like we are one big family, we share everything, and yeah, I want to say no matter what the age, certain men will never change, its just part of that bachelor complex. I have had NCO's well into their 50's who just want sex. Dont take it personally, its never too late, there are good men out there waiting, just keep your eyes open. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 7:51:27 PM | EVERYTHING U SAID IS SO CORRECT...THANKS! I DID SIGN UP ON THIS SITE TO LAUGH AND HAVE FUN BUT THIS ONE GUY CAPTURED MY HEART AND GOSH WHAT A WRONG THING TO DO IS FALL FOR SOME FREAK ON A DATING SITE.
[Please stop SHOUTING. More shouting will get this thread locked. Thank you. /Forum_Moderator] | |
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daisie
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Joined: 9/22/2004
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Posted: 1/12/2006 7:52:36 PM | | Yep...I thought that was a clown fish swimming past, but it was really a pig fish. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 7:53:14 PM | | hun ur not alone ive done it...and i went to meet him in another state that was the biggest mistake of my life... | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:05:15 PM | I live by the following:
You can only BE someones one night stand...if you allow yourself to be.
You can only BE used....if youo allow yourself to.
Trust me..go out with a guy, whether here, anywhere online, from a bar, whatever and don't sleep with him for a bit..it will sure weed out those just looking for sex, or those that place sex as the forefront of a relationship. | |
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daisie
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Joined: 9/22/2004
Msg: 14 | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:07:33 PM | That's the truth. No sex for an unusually long time is by far the BEST
weed-wacker around. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:10:19 PM | | i am married to a man who cheats on me and sleeps on the sofa...do u think i would trust him and have sex with him hell no! He don't deserve me and then when u confront him and let him know u know he is cheater he acts like i am the crazy one. Why is that? | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:13:48 PM | ^^ So why are you married to him? There is a thing called divorce. And before you throw the following lines at me:
- It's for the kids
- For financial reasons
- I still love him
I've heard it all before, you are worth more and your children (if you have any) than to be in an environement like that. IF youo have one of those excuses to use..than don't **** about it because ultimately it's YOUR choice to stay. Cheating = No trust, which you just stated you don't have. No Trust = No relationship. So again, why are you still with him? | |
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Kat4u
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Joined: 11/6/2005
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:17:41 PM | | i am with him cause maybe i am a idiot...no i am . you are right i do have his kids and he is paying rent but all that is not going to make me happy. i have no more self esteem because of him and i think that he doesn't even love us. no he doesnt. I need to get rid of him and i just cant i don't know u ladies mus t think i am a weirdo but i am not. | |
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Kat4u
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Joined: 11/6/2005
Msg: 20 | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:18:09 PM | | OK, I spelt that wrong, but it's true. Men can be complete as5es when it comes to this. They make it your fault. Don't listen to a word he has to say. Kick him to the curb!!! | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:19:45 PM | thanks kat...and when he gets home from his little rendevous (spelled i hope correctly) he acts like he is the most innocent thing alive...he is a A** | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:25:25 PM | | Met an older guy (late 70's) who was detaching himself from a much younger woman. But he came on to me and I admit I liked that. (I'm older too.) I know he lied to her and I did tell myself that what he did to her he would do to me, and yes indeed, he did! So we broke up and I must admit I do miss the sex as well as having someone to go out with. There may be a lot of fish out there, but not a lot of fish looking for an older woman. So what's a gal to do? | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:26:49 PM | Jazz......
And you're still married to him? He sounds just like my ex ("well, maybe if you did **fill in the blank** more, I wouldn't cheat on you!"), yeah they always have to blame someone else for their selfish mistakes and like to belittle the person making the usually correct accusations. You need to kick his ass to the curb cuz nobody deserves that kind of treatment! Karma is a funny thing you know, usually once the wife leaves, his whore finds someone else too, then he ends up with nobody....well except his "five fingered friend"!
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csfbl
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Joined: 6/11/2005
Msg: 24 | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:34:50 PM | Jazz, just keep the faith, I have friends well into their 30's/40's, 50's even finding love everyday, even ones that already have kids and the whole nine yards. One of my good friends in Australia, she finally divorced her ex put him in a rehab center, and is engaged just recently, she is in her early 50's but still acts like a 20 year old, I guess some people truly are ageless . | |
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daisie
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Joined: 9/22/2004
Msg: 25 | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:35:52 PM | Wow a 70 year old woman in here. That's great!!! Too many 20 year olds in this pond if you want my opinion (ok...I'm sure you don't want it, but too bad, there it is.)
Hmmm...that is a difficult issue to deal with. Perhaps if you approach it as "bed-buddies",
then there aren't all the "strings" attached. It also is good for both bed-buddies to be
fully aware that the other buddy is (or might be) getting some action on the side too. It's just really a bad deal when one person has the freedom and the other person is stuck putting up with it and resenting it. Hey it's not a perfect solution, but it's an idea. | |
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daisy..good one