| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 10:58:59 AM | So I'm interested in how many men would wait till marriage if they met the right woman? Even if you were both NOT virgins, do you think you could wait if that was her choice?
I'm not saying you can't do other things, but the actual intercourse...could you wait for it?
Also, what if you went on a first date and the girl tells you she's waiting for marraige, how would you react? Not ever call her again? Or maybe stick around? | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 11:15:31 AM | FerrariDriver71
Nice to see woman are like cars.... what happens when you find someone who has all of the qualities you looked for and the sex wasn't up to your standards the first few times? Dump her? I hope not.... the physical component albeit important, can always be improved over time.  | |
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Posted: 1/13/2006 11:22:31 AM | | shes not the right woman... | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 11:40:35 AM | I could, but I don't personally see what point it proves to wait until your married. What's the difference? It's one day. So we date for a year and have no sex, and then the day after our marriage we have sex for the first time? what's the point of waiting till the I Do's? If you love this person and knew for a long time that you want to be with no other in your heart and every other part of your being then you have already answered your questions. Why is a "date" in time have to dictate being intimate? I will never understand that. lol
Plus, I don't personally want to wait until after I am married to find out we may not click sexually....heck no! That to me is not common sense. "Clicking" with someone means clicking in every way period. Not some ways, and leave others till after a date in time.
Don't treat marriage like an expiration date of waiting on sex. All that build up will just eat at you if you are even slightly human and have any hormones to speak of. If you are the type who never thinks of sex or is romantic, or anything than sure, maybe you can do it. lol
I wouldn't want the mind games it plays with you.
To me that tells me that you spent all this time before marriage finding everything you know as to being compatable, why let the sex suffer? I presonally if I decided to wait, would probably not even do anything sexually related other then kissing, cuz all I would be doing while she's giving it to me would be screaming I want you I want you!! hehe that's torture! lol
And remember it's different between people who are 18 to like 22 waiting till marriage then someone who is 33 and has kicked the tires in plenty lol | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 12:14:12 PM | I have had a case where a woman I was dating made a point of saying that she wasn't interested in sex before marriage. I didn't have a problem with that, and waiting wouldn't have been at all difficult for me.
Of course in my case, that's because I'm just not interested in having sex with anyone. So if we had ended up getting married, and she DID want sex then, then there would have been a problem. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 12:33:51 PM | FerrariDriver71
the question was based on a woman who wanted to wait. My answer was based on this. Like you and so many others here, I agree, there is nothing wrong with sex before marriage , but that intimacy to me isnt casual either. If someone was to tell me to wait a year, I'd see it as torture too.
Getting back to the original question though, if she feels this way, we have no right to impose our desire to have sex prior to marriage. We have two choices in this case. one is to wait, and the other is to reconsider the direction of the relationship. I'm sure the third exists which is trying to convince her. However, a no is a no and should be respected.
So I'm not against what you say, just responding to the intent of the original question. Phew!  | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 12:39:41 PM | I know! I'm going to become a born-again virgin and wait until marriage.
Sorry, give me a minute, I have to wipe away the tears...
I'm in the test drive club. If everything was perfect, but the sex was horrible, it would be a tough choice but I want a whole life... I'm not willing to risk us not being sexually compatible. | |
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| GUYS!!! If you met the right woman, could you wait for the sex till marriage?
Posted: 1/13/2006 12:41:15 PM | I doubt my view will be very popular but...
Not a chance. I cant imagine spending even a year waiting!
We are only here on this planet for (TOPS) 100 years, first (at least) 15 don't count here for this discussion, 50 (maybe 60) of them are left to physically be able to enjoy sexually and the rest to wrap up and spend with friends and family.
If we have 50 years out of 100 of sex-able living, 2% of your life goes by yearly!
Bottom line. If it is something you enjoy, feels good, brings closeness with others, why deny yourself and live without it? | |
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