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 justin6767
Joined: 5/23/2005
Msg: 1
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I was recently talking with a girl and she said that she was skeptical about messaging me because how many girls added me to their favourites. She said it made me look like a player.

So, I was wondering what is your first thought when seeing a high favourite list?

Are you intimidated to message a girl or guy with a high favourite list?

Do you erase your favourites for these reasons?

Do you associate a high favourite list with a need for attention?
 Jetplague
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 2
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Posted: 1/13/2006 6:32:48 PM
I don't even pay attention to it really. (unless I"m on their favorite list. heh!)











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 oneafternoon
Joined: 3/15/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 1/13/2006 6:35:49 PM
I know what you mean justin ... The same thing has happened too me.
 My_Island
Joined: 12/10/2005
Msg: 4
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Posted: 1/13/2006 6:37:49 PM
Sounds like a "You have too many friends" complaint and she is basing your integrity on behalf of her own insecurities.... ask her not to judge and begrudge.
 Stillalicious
Joined: 2/9/2005
Msg: 5
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Posted: 1/13/2006 6:38:40 PM
First of all, I am not big on making first contact but if they are on a lot of favorite lists, yes, it intimidates me. I erase those on my favorites if we do not have an easy conversation.
I do the same to those that have me on their favorites lists and the circumstances are the same.

I don't judge them by how may favorites lists they are on though. If we get along..who cares?
 roxygemini
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 1/13/2006 6:45:00 PM
So should I take you all off of my fave list then??
 justin6767
Joined: 5/23/2005
Msg: 7
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Posted: 1/13/2006 6:48:13 PM
I am not one of your favourites roxy, just had to check quickly. lol
 roxygemini
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 8
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Posted: 1/13/2006 6:50:12 PM
LOL....I didn't think you guys would actually check!!
 roxygemini
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 1/13/2006 6:53:48 PM
So there is no need to be shy adding you now then.....sweet deal!!
 Jetplague
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 1/13/2006 6:55:25 PM
It's like getting trading cards. POF trading cards...collect them all...trade them...love them..er...ok...just collect them then. heh!
 justin6767
Joined: 5/23/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 1/13/2006 6:55:54 PM
Yea sweet deal roxy
 justin6767
Joined: 5/23/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 1/13/2006 6:58:55 PM
Okay jet if I trade you my roxy what do I get in return.
 roxygemini
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 1/13/2006 7:05:10 PM
LOL...I feel so used....
 Jetplague
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 1/13/2006 7:07:14 PM
I'd never trade roxy....or any of them. Heh!
 roxygemini
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 1/13/2006 7:10:15 PM
My mommy warned me there'd be boys like him!! Is there room amongst the bananas for me then Jet??
 justin6767
Joined: 5/23/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 1/13/2006 7:10:38 PM
Only putting you on the trading block because you are worth so much roxy. lol
 roxygemini
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 1/13/2006 7:11:47 PM
True that!! Made in Canda is where it's at!!
 Jetplague
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 18
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Posted: 1/13/2006 7:12:07 PM
Plenty of room Roxy. Nothing like adding another to the bunch. Heh!
 roxygemini
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 1/13/2006 7:14:49 PM
WAA WAA WAAAAAAA....lol....that was a cute funny!!
 Jetplague
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 20
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Posted: 1/13/2006 7:19:03 PM
Glad to hear it was a-peeling to you.
 roxygemini
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 21
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Posted: 1/13/2006 7:23:40 PM
Well I don't normally like to bite the rotten ones!!
 Jetplague
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 1/13/2006 7:27:05 PM
Well...no bruises on mine and just ready to peel an nibble. heh!
 roxygemini
Joined: 12/1/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 1/13/2006 7:33:00 PM
That should be your number one choice in pick up lines!! See the ladies come a runnin'!!!
 Jetplague
Joined: 4/4/2005
Msg: 24
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Posted: 1/13/2006 7:34:17 PM
Yeah....runnning right on past screaming "As if!"
 d-belle
Joined: 6/7/2005
Msg: 25
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Posted: 1/13/2006 9:12:14 PM
Most of the people who have me on their fav's list are friends, and at least half of them are women. *shrug* I dunno that it intimidates me........I don't usually make first contact anymore anyway.
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