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 graykisses

Joined: 12/11/2005
Msg: 1
I got "massaged" today
Posted: 1/14/2006 5:45:58 PM
I went to get a massage today at a massage therapy college. Cheaper than going to a day spa you know? In any event, i could swear that the guy that was rubbing me down was really into it if you know what I mean. He was doing a lot of heavy breathing, and the rubbing was really intense. I've had massages professionally done before in the past and they were not like this..lol. Honestly I was really turned on at times. I must really have a horrible sexless life if getting massaged is such a big turn on. I swear that when I left my panties were.....uh, never mind you get the point. Has anyone else had a really great professional massage? Has it ever gone any further?

I'm a pervert, i know
 SRV4ever

Joined: 12/16/2005
Msg: 2
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/14/2006 5:48:26 PM
I'm a pervert too and proud of it
I've never had a professional massage but I think you just talked me into it sista
Thankyou
 smilindad

Joined: 10/21/2005
Msg: 3
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/14/2006 7:15:12 PM
i used to date a girl that was a massage therapist and she gave a great massage front and back. wish i knew where she lived now i sure could use a good massage.
 Rouxx

Joined: 9/19/2005
Msg: 4
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/14/2006 7:46:07 PM
Hey there Grey...........

I'm a massage therapist and as such....you can NEVER know how the person that is paying you for a session will respond. Massage is NOT sexual............NOT AT ALL! But that doesn't mean most don't wish it were!

Sad....VERY sad actually....(for "THEM") .

Massage has NOTHING to do with sex!
 graykisses

Joined: 12/11/2005
Msg: 5
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/14/2006 8:11:16 PM
Thanks for killing my fantasy Rouxx
 tjrogelio

Joined: 11/8/2005
Msg: 6
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I got massaged today
Posted: 1/14/2006 8:55:03 PM
Massage may not be sexual, but it is sensual.
 Real_Brunette

Joined: 8/4/2005
Msg: 7
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I got massaged today
Posted: 1/14/2006 8:57:15 PM
lol..being a massage therapist, this really bothers me . If you felt that he was "into it" he probably was..shame on him.
 Rouxx

Joined: 9/19/2005
Msg: 8
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 6:18:58 AM
Grey.......no!! Don't kill the fantasy I'm saying that it is NOT okay for a professional therapist to imply anything of a sexual nature. Doesn't mean you can't! TJ is right, massage is sensual......touch is sensual. But again, a professional shouldn't dabble in that realm with clients.
 Rouxx

Joined: 9/19/2005
Msg: 9
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 6:20:21 AM
Spelled your name wrong twice! Sorry Gray!!
 Shaps

Joined: 4/23/2005
Msg: 10
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 6:58:37 AM
Breathing heavy is some of our own exercises while giving a massage. I breath somewhat heavy as I give one. As it allows me to relax as I go through the motions.
And maybe he picked up you being really tense so had to push a little bit extra, to get the knots out.
Next time you go for one, get him to give ya another one, if he say's " Is that all" you ask him, well what else can I get LOL
 cazar

Joined: 4/28/2005
Msg: 11
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 8:02:30 AM
foot massages are great ..had one in WA state last month and always stop at a place in singapore and get one
due to an old injury and surgery I get massages n acupuncture a lot...

saipan has some good places ( legitimate )
mexico has several good places ( legitimate)

I especially remember a nice place in hawaii I went to also..that also did acupuncture..

massages if done right, and legitimate and all can make you feel better...

I love em...

respects
 paradise31

Joined: 7/17/2005
Msg: 12
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 8:08:03 AM
I never had one yet but I'm seriously thinking of getting one. I have been for awhile now and don't know what's keeping me from doing so.
 MathGeek

Joined: 12/21/2005
Msg: 13
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 9:17:37 AM
Get at least one massage a year by a professional therapist. Unfortunately, I always get (semi) aroused when given a massage. The last one I had was this past December. She rubbed my left quad in an upward motion. Everytime she thrusted upwards I pulsed. It seemed like she spent more time than usual on that spot. Probably was laughing her ass off on the inside and enjoying the mental anguish she was imposing on me. Also, when the Hammy's are getting massaged they always seem to manage to accidentally rub it and then it moves. I wonder if I'm the only guy this happens to or does it happen frequently and they're used to it. It's not like I want it to happen. Oh well, off topic...sorry.
 jenmom

Joined: 9/8/2005
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I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 9:21:39 AM
My guy is a licensed therapist, although he doesn't do it much. Early in our relationship, he was giving me a massage, and at the end, he specifically said "this is where the professional massage ends.."

Massage is sensual, and if you are paying the guy, it would not move into the other realm.
 travisty

Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 15
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 12:45:23 PM
I read an article that said people in society are 'touch deprived'.
Makes sense, no pun intended. We all know how nice it is to have someone
cuddle or hug with.

Sometimes people are just shy about going for a massage.
Once you go once, you wonder why you weren't going before.

To clarify, I don't mean in a sexual way.
 theifoncross

Joined: 12/9/2005
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I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 1:55:12 PM
I"m going to get a professional massage soon. I just hope I don't have some huge blonde guy named Sven doing it..lol... Helga would be good though
Seriously... does anyone beside me think it would be harder to actually relax if the massage is given by someone of the same sex? Just like those darn physicals...how come I always get an old grey haired man telling me to turn and cough???? OH..how I dread reaching the age of 40....LOL
 ladydi8

Joined: 1/31/2005
Msg: 17
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 2:07:34 PM
massage therapy college, hmmmmm.............this sounds like somethin i need ta check out myself, gray............sounds like somethin i need some hands on experience with ta give ya my point of view about... .........uhhh huuh!
 Rouxx

Joined: 9/19/2005
Msg: 18
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 2:29:54 PM
Oh my gosh.........guys and girlies!! I suppose this is yet another example of me living in my small world......where I assume everyone feels the same way I do about things......

The following is only my opinion so taking me to the slaughterhouse won't change it.......

Again, just for the record, I'm nationally certified to practice as a massage therapist. Unfortunately, I am not as I am now involved in another "adventure"......BUT ANYWAY!!

Massage is preventive health care! There are SO many benefits to the body....therefore the mind.....so perhaps the soul?......that are TOO numerous to talk about here. Yes, touching and being touched is VERY important........but a professional massage.....errr, maybe I should say a massage from a professional.....is not of a sexual nature.

To the guy (sorry.....forgot your name!) that gets a woody when his "hams" are being touched......that is SO normal! It doesn't mean you are (necessarily) being a perv.....it's physiological.

If massage therapy was accepted on more insurance policies.........we'd ALL be feeling good! The AMA would soon go out of business though so..........it won't happen soon.

Don't let life rub you the WRONG way!! Get a (professional) massage whenever you can! (THEN go home and do whatever needs doing!! )
 Rouxx

Joined: 9/19/2005
Msg: 19
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 2:34:02 PM
Ooops.....it was Mathgeek and it was your quad's...not your ham's. Either way.......it's not an uncommon response. Once a year is NOT enough. Once a WEEK would do your body good!! Even if you're lactose intolerant!!
 pixx

Joined: 12/27/2005
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I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 2:53:07 PM
Wow baby!!! You got wet from a massage! Hmmm, that must have been some kind of massage. What's the secret, I will take some notes.
 ~-~GEM~-~

Joined: 11/16/2005
Msg: 21
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 5:09:51 PM
So the technical term for a massage that goes a little longer or more fun..

Is A MASSAGE WITH A HAPPY ENDING!!!

LMAO.. I hadn't heard that term until a friend told me about it..

I guess that's what massage parlors are all about.. the happy endings..

As for me, my massage therapist digs so deep who could get off on that, ouch!

But there is definitely something different about a sensual massage... usually though they don't happen in a professional capacity.
 MathGeek

Joined: 12/21/2005
Msg: 22
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 5:13:47 PM
I like the pain!! My muscles are usually tense and knotted. I can feel the knots as I'm get massaged. Pain is good.
 tjrogelio

Joined: 11/8/2005
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I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 9:57:24 PM
People get massages for different reasons. Some go for physical therapy. I work at a high-end spa. Most of my clients want to escape to another realm, and massage can take you there, if only for a short while. Any professional therapist would never cross the line into the sexual realm. If you ever feel that this is happening, and you are uncomfortable, stop the session.
 graykisses

Joined: 12/11/2005
Msg: 24
I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 10:28:12 PM
Will you guys please stop taking the naughtiness out of this thread? Don't look at the clinical side which is the good side. Look at the bad side. Come to the dark side my friends.
 Real_Brunette

Joined: 8/4/2005
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I got massaged today
Posted: 1/15/2006 10:31:20 PM
Pain is not good lol. But I know you mean. I can give a deep tissue massage w/minimal pain. And Rouxx is correct, it is completely normal for a man to get an erection while getting a massage. The therapist can pick up whether you are a pervert or not, so don't worry about it. When I am working on a male and he gets an erection, I ignore it. It's no big deal.
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