| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 1/14/2006 6:01:06 PM | | If two people are really feeling each other and have sex on the first date or foreplay do you think the relationship can be taken seriously.... b/c i dont know what to think of this...... | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 1/14/2006 6:04:30 PM | | Well yes that plays a big part... but do you think a relationship can be taken seriously if sex is thrown in that quickly? | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 1/14/2006 6:05:57 PM | history (for me) says no, not usually.
but anything is possible if you have met "the one" I suppose! | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 1/14/2006 6:06:39 PM | | Sure. I've had a few relationships were we had sex right away. The quickest way to get to know some one is to see them naked. | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 1/14/2006 6:07:54 PM | | it depends on the person,the longest relationship of my life happend after sex on the first night.but thats the exception not the rule | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 1/14/2006 7:05:10 PM | I had sex with a woman the first night we met, no date it was a fluke thing (she had sex with me too!), six weeks later we were married and it lasted until she passed away, a grand total of 15 years.
Most of the time it's just sex but sometimes, someone like me is in the right place at the right time.
You gotta do what feels right, plain and simple. | |
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Posted: 1/14/2006 7:20:24 PM | | I ended up dating a girl for almost 2 yrs and we had sex the first 2 hours we met, with my ex g/f ****ing 1 of my buddies, strange but it lasted 2 yrs, but then again, I was just a ignorant idiot and missed the fact she was messing with almost every dude I know. yes yes I know stupid me | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 1/14/2006 7:22:40 PM | I think I would continue seeing the person, but I would not want a relationship with them. If they did it for me, then who else have they done it for??
I think sex has two places - either to use for fun whenever you want, or to save up for a special occassion with someone you care about. I am all for both, but only the latter makes me think she is long-term relationship material. | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 1/15/2006 7:15:50 PM |
If two people are really feeling each other and have sex on the first date or foreplay do you think the relationship can be taken seriously.... b/c i dont know what to think of this......
In my experience sex too early really makes it hard to develop a relationship. Not because of lack of respect or anything like that, but good sex really brings out alot more emotions than most people realize. I think people tend to get attached to the mental image of the other person they create instead of getting to know the actual person.
First date can still work out, I just think it makes it harder to really get to know the other's personality as well as you could if you weren't screwing like bunnies. You know how people have sex ALOT when they first start screwing someone. | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 3/16/2007 6:10:35 PM |
If two people are really feeling each other
Feeling each other? As in up?
and have sex on the first date or foreplay do you think the relationship can be taken seriously
It has a chance. But you've reduced the chance that the relationship with florish by having sex with someone you don't even know. Sex is much better when you are in the person's head as well as body. | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 3/16/2007 6:58:10 PM | Linds, the way you look? You won't have any trouble keeping them around a while...just enjoy yourself and play safe.
Sex won't make or break a relationship and it won't win a man's heart. It'll win his attention, it might even win him sticking around for a good long while...but it won't make him love you. It'll just make him "want" you.
Big difference, but then, for some women, that's what love is. | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 3/16/2007 7:05:22 PM | ^^ Not offended at all Carrier.
I don't recall having paid close enough attention to what you say here to recount ever having disagreed with it, frankly. | |
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Posted: 3/16/2007 7:06:23 PM | Blast I have to agree with you, but then again I have a few long term relationships that started out courtesy of the bar and a few drinks too many  and they did last long term but now I would wait, because obviously those long term didn't last "forever" KWIM? | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 3/16/2007 7:36:04 PM | Hmmm..well, let's see. I slept with my first X the first night.
I slept with my second X after about 2 weeks of dating him.
And I slept with my third on the first night.
But the reason they didn't work out has nothing to do with sex, so it doesn't apply. | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 3/16/2007 7:41:13 PM | | I'm going to have to disagree with most of the people here... Sex on the first date is never a good thing. | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 3/16/2007 7:41:50 PM |
If two people are really feeling each other and have sex on the first date or foreplay do you think the relationship can be taken seriously.... b/c i dont know what to think of this......
ignore most of the arm chair psychology Your hearing on this thread,Do what's right for You.To answer Your question without professing everything I know about Men and Women...just be your self if it feels good and it happens so be it...if not thats good too Do what is right for You.... | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 3/16/2007 7:45:03 PM |
Do what's right for You
Well, yeah. But the question is what is right for her. The posts in this thread are to help her think that through by presenting many points of view.
just be your self if it feels good
Feeling good or not isn't the topic. | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 3/16/2007 7:52:58 PM | | Personally, I would be a little nervous about sex on the first date. I probably wouldn't do it, and if I did I think I would end up wondering, "Does she do this often?" | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 3/16/2007 7:53:43 PM | Well, yeah. But the question is what is right for her. The posts in this thread are to help her think that through by presenting many points of view.
that is about as good as you knowing something about getting sex on the first date
 I think the OP should make up Her own mind .JMO.. | |
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| question on sex and first date?
Posted: 3/16/2007 8:02:54 PM | Well, I don't think you can know a person that well on a first date. If you sleep with them, and find out you don't like them so much later, it can be a little sticky to get out of. Best to hold off a while and find out who it is that you could be stuck with, lol.
I'm not saying you can't have a relationship start this way. I'm just saying you might not want a relationship when you get to know them better, and by having sex there's a good chance that they will become emotionally involved and get their feelings hurt. It's just my two cents. Best of luck! | |
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