| any ladies like being called "dirty" in bed? Posted: 1/18/2006 3:09:03 PM | i know its weird, because I HATE women being objectified in real day to day life...yet....when im in the heat of the moment, i really wanna be called dirty.
any other women out there get into the dirty talk, yet you hate it any other time???? | |
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| any ladies like being called dirty in bed? Posted: 1/18/2006 3:11:28 PM | hahah ME! and no holds bar in bed is always my rule. but dont think.. when we're in a public place, ur gonna treat me any less then what I am.. a woman, that deserves respect. ha. yeah.. fickle aren't we. | |
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| any ladies like being called dirty in bed? Posted: 1/18/2006 3:31:24 PM | if all a guy does is say "i love you in bed" it makes me feel like he's being a robot and not saying it from his heart.
the best time to hear i love you is....
out of nowhere, when youre doing the dishes after a normal, uneventful day. if he is thinking about it then and says it....its more real. | |
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| any ladies like being called dirty in bed? Posted: 1/18/2006 3:39:31 PM | ^^^^^I agree...
There is a time to be romantic and say "I love you" and mean it...but in the bedroom and in the heat of the moment...it's more like "I want you to be my slut for the night"...and most guys would agree. | |
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| any ladies like being called dirty in bed? Posted: 1/19/2006 1:48:30 AM | | OMG! Hell yeah! A little " b*tch "....a little " whore "...a little " c*nt "...a little " slut "...with a lot of hair pulling and slapping, goes a long way!!! | |
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| any ladies like being called dirty in bed? Posted: 1/19/2006 2:04:19 AM | | If you're with someone you trust being (and being called) dirty and slutty in the bedroom is the biggest turnon in the world. It's like having sex just a bit rough--it's something you'd not want outside the bedroom, but it has it's place in the bedroom--or the kitchen--or just about anywhere else. | |
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| any ladies like being called dirty in bed? Posted: 1/21/2006 5:54:14 AM | All right, here's the way i look at it.... I am a filthy bugger in bed...lol I'm pullin' hair, I'm spankin' that ass, I'm talking dirty and I'm doing just about anything I can get away with... In the context of committed relationship, I have a "no holds barred" attitude. If my partner doesn't like something, I expect her to say so because I'm not going to be the pansie that stands there and goes: "Hey, is it okay if I do this? Ya sure? Cause I won't do it, if you don't want me to..." lol My opinion is that a woman wants to be 'taken." She wants to be "ravished." It's called eroticism. It's called passion. It's called "playtime for grownups!"
Another way to look at it is like this: For me personally; if my partner gives me the freedom that I want in the bedroom, she gets more from me outside of it. That is to say that I respect her more for how she is with me behind closed doors. If I get my "dirty girl" in bed, and she wants me to behave like Richard Gere in Pretty Woman, outside the bedroom... She gets it. She gets whatever she wants... At that point, I think that it's all about pleasing someone....
In the end what ends up happening is this: She knows what turns me on and when we're out in public and I'm being the gentleman that I;m expected to be and she comes waltzing over and whispers in my ear: "Can you treat me like you're s-lut tonight?" In a sexy voice... I know what's comin'... We both do... It's exciting...
So for me... I'll pull your hair, and treat you like a filthy little w-hore, but I'll never ever go beyond any of it by disrespecting you. That's the whole reason that people can be like this... I think it's a mutual respect thing.... A little "give" and a little "take." | |
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| any ladies like being called dirty in bed? Posted: 1/21/2006 6:09:34 AM | I think all guys want a southern belle to take home to mom and out with friends. Someone we can treat like a lady and acts that way. But when the redlight comes on in the bedroom guys want a dirty little tramp.. I mean the dirtier the better...
Only problem is most guys are too shy to ask hey how do you like things, or what do you want. Most women the same...
I started a new relationship once and after a few times the lady said to me I want you to talk dirty to me tonight. I mean no holds bar.. get nasty it turns me on...
I'm in the heat of the momment hanging on from behind for dear life. I mean my 8 seconds were up and I was waiting for the rodeo clown to save me... she started swearing at me like a sailor.. oh yea f*** me harder you piece of sh**, thats how I like it cram it in there...oh god oh god.. fu** me. So as I slap her ass I say oh yea take that you dirty bitc*
eeeeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrrrchhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! wave the yellow flag we have a wreck!!! All things come to a hault.. She says what did you call me!!! I was spell bound..
The moral to this tale, is that it is all fun and games till you call a lady a bitc*. No matter what she has told you she still wants to be a lady. | |
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| any ladies like being called dirty in bed? Posted: 1/21/2006 7:46:17 AM | | The female I am seeing today loves to be called NAUGHTy while we go at it,But NOT DIRTY and yes its VERY different when we are not going at it because the MIND SET is not the same. | |
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| any ladies like being called dirty in bed? Posted: 1/21/2006 12:57:18 PM |
OMG! Hell yeah! A little " b*tch "....a little " whore "...a little " c*nt "...a little " slut "...with a lot of hair pulling and slapping, goes a long way!!!
If a man ever called me a c*nt, he'd be standing out on the side of the road icing his balls. | |
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| any ladies like being called dirty in bed? Posted: 1/21/2006 1:36:42 PM | Damn Tygress, I'm thinking some things that are driving me crazy too...
Yes I'm down with the finer aspects of dirty talk... the dignified way of letting her know she's being a nasty little slut... obviously theres a right time and place... and in that time and place it's no hole barred, chain you up fun... talking dirty just comes with the territory...
You can of course say the wrong thing sometimes... best way of course is to ask about it.. some women don't like the C word... others love it... ask her what words she finds really offensive and go from there... | |
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| any ladies like being called dirty in bed? Posted: 1/21/2006 1:40:16 PM | I agree ladies.. you must treat me with dignity and respect in public..or when we are with friends and family but when we are alone and getting naked...talk dirty to me..
(THE C word is not dirty. It is just UNACCEPTABLE!) | |
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| any ladies like being called dirty in bed? Posted: 1/21/2006 1:43:28 PM | Dirty girl... there is just something entirely sexy about that. The whole "I'm a good girl, but when you're making me cum and now I'm worse than naughty" thing is entirely erotic and adds to the whole heat of the moment.
Mind you, there's a time and place for everything. You wake up in the morning and it's lazy sex, I highly doubt that kind of talk would be going on... but you never know!
"I wanna fuk your cunnt" works for me. Being called it, I'm sure I could find some interesting names to respond with. ~RF~ | |
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| any ladies like being called dirty in bed? Posted: 1/21/2006 4:49:16 PM | By the way... I went off on a tangent there.. Of course, that's what most guys like anyway. Nice girl who they can take home to mom, but naughty girl in the bedroom... At least, that's what they want you to believe~~~  | |
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| any ladies like being called dirty in bed? Posted: 1/21/2006 7:18:18 PM | Mmmmm Hmmmmm....love being fukked hard from behind, and hearing him call me a wh0re, a sl-t or naughty girl....no cu-t for me though...sorry!
Also, none of this outside of sex! EVER! | |
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