|Bar-Room BrawlsPage 1 of 3 (1, 2, 3)|
|If you found a woman hot and sexy, would you protect her from being hit on in a bar?|
Posted: 1/20/2006 6:23:43 AM
|doesn't matter if she is hot or not.. |
I've been at bars and told the guy to back off,, if he is being a complete as* or won't take a hint I'll say something and leave it at that
Posted: 1/20/2006 6:25:31 AM
|I am sure I would if I wasn't too busy taking cover behind the bigger unattractive one's|
Posted: 1/20/2006 6:35:51 AM
|If it's my girlfriend and she's being hit on then I would make sure he got the message that she was with me. If he persisted then I'd probably leave with my GF. Getting too old to fight anymore...and with all these crazy guys around you never know which one has a knife or a bunch of drunk buddies looking for an excuse to get into a fight.|
Posted: 1/20/2006 7:13:35 AM
|If I was with a delicious babe, I wouldn't be taking her to places where there's hot and heavy competition. Sooner go to some place where there's dancing and other things. Just a bar, thats where the singles go. A couples establishment, you spend time with her, not watching the competition.|
Posted: 1/20/2006 7:25:58 AM
|Hello Guys |
imput from a woman .. have read the responses so far .. nice to know that chivalry is not dead , having sd that I like the response that sd that he would leave the bar with his girlfriend rather than get into a fight .. having a man stick up for you is wonderful to have a man fight for the sake of impressing a woman is not.
Posted: 1/20/2006 7:31:48 AM
|Oh great callies, tell us this now after I need to go to the dentist to replace my front 2 teeth|
Posted: 1/20/2006 7:37:42 AM
|I don't think the women of today deserve our chivalry.|
Posted: 1/20/2006 7:59:46 AM
|If it was my girlfriend, I wouldn't mind if she was being hit on as long as the guy was being respectful and it wasn't bothering her. Once it crossed that line however...we'd either be leaving or if the guy gave me or her a hard time as we were leaving it would be go time.|
Posted: 1/20/2006 8:41:36 AM
|I would never go to a bar and hit on some ones lady. Thats what happened to me and the X. She kept saying yes to them. I wouldn't want it done to me and I wouldn't do it to another.|
Posted: 1/20/2006 8:57:49 AM
|In my Bartending daze... I took big boys to the ground ...bend their little finger back they were at my mercy..then call for a bouncer before I ran! |
I often would get between two men to break up a fight...women no way they are crazy!
Posted: 1/20/2006 9:04:47 AM
|Well... i wouldnt want you ta get excessive and fight just because someone showed intrest and frankly if you chose to fight instead of shrug it off and be with me ... then I might just console they guy you flipped on and leave you behind... I hate guys who fight|
Posted: 1/20/2006 9:11:48 AM
|Actually, ummm, I started the brawl once. Guy was drunk, I was actually trying to reason with him. (I'd also maybe had more than a few). He said something I didn't like, sorta pushed me, and wham, before I even thought about it. My then S.O. had to get between us. We were with a couple (he was CEO of a company, she a kindergarten teacher) we headed out the front door ASAP.|
So, I'm not sure what I'd do. Maybe throw the first punch again. Who knows til you're there!
Posted: 1/20/2006 9:17:14 AM
|No man has ever or will ever hit a woman in my presence.|
I won't allow it!
My world does not contain pointless violence or abuse of vulnerabliity.
Reality check: I AM aware that it happens, I just won't allow it in my world. It makes my world more peaceful, and I wish others would create the same world.
Posted: 1/20/2006 9:39:24 AM
|halfblond, (cute) - I wanta hang out with you: 6' 3" and all. Keep me out of trouble.|
Posted: 1/20/2006 10:17:39 AM
|My last gf was extremely attractive. I couldn't bring her anywhere without getting hit on so I got used to it. Most of the time if a guy hit on her I would sit back, and watch her handle herself. I like a strong girl that doesn't depend on me for everything. If he was persistant after she shut him down I would usually politely ask the guy to back off, and let him know she was with me.|
The only time I have ever had to confront anyone physically through out our 4 year relationship was when someone walked by and touched her. I grabbed him up by his throat, and let him know if he ever layed hands on my gf again I would kill him. He walked off when I released him.
If someone is verbally speaking to a girl I am with I expect her to take it on herself to say she is not interested. If he is being an A$$ I will handle it for her. If he is disrespectful enough to grab, grope, or slap various body parts then I will lose my temper, and there is no telling what will happen.
Posted: 1/20/2006 10:48:30 AM
|Don't matter where the it happens, who, why, when etc... I don't care if he's a pimp and she's a hooker..|
No gurls will be harmed during the making of anything whilst I'm around, if I can help it...
Not to off track here, but someone mentioned if she was a hooker, or gurls today don't deserve chilvary?
Help me understand why?... girls a girl, someone daughter, mother, sister etc... don't matter what happened in her life or the circumstances around it... doesn't mean she should be a punching bag for some moronic cowardly man child...
Oh well's.... hitting girls is wrong... end of story
Posted: 1/20/2006 10:48:32 AM
|Even animals don't kill each other over a possible mate..rattle snakes twist and wrestle, but they don't use their venom. Women just aren't worth getting so worked up about. If he grabbed her tits I'm sure he weighed the options that it would no doubt cause a confrontation from you, and he decided it was worth it. He should be commended for his brazeness.|
Posted: 1/20/2006 10:58:58 AM
|I suppose, maybe the police might also understand in that particular scenario...|
But I was merely alpha maling officer... not sexual assult?
Posted: 1/20/2006 11:00:56 AM
|second comment |
If I was at a bar with a boyfirend , hubby or signifigant other and a man hit on me I would smile and then tell him that I am with some one else and thank him for his interest.
It takes alot to walk up to a person and express interest so there should be a gentleness used with the rejection , if how ever he is simply hitting on the person for the sake of
the same approach could also apply to avoid a unesscessary fight.
As for Chilvary in days of old it was used as a sign of respect for a woman .. and in todays world it is still thought of a lost but wonderful art by true gentlemen to use to show a woman that she is special in his eyes.. cant see how that could be anything but appreicated by any woman. callies
Posted: 1/20/2006 11:02:34 AM
|I sure would..and have done it a few times...even got barred from a bar for trying to drag the two Bast**ds outside! .... Cheers!|
Posted: 1/20/2006 12:05:58 PM
|I've given guys "the message" before and found out that many women don't appreciate that. They'd rather do it themselves and/or just leave if the fool persists. Good way to freak out your g/f and get dropped...|
Most people don't like fights these days.
Posted: 1/20/2006 1:01:30 PM
|That is true Citizen.... most women don't like fights....spoils the evening .... |
Posted: 1/20/2006 1:50:49 PM
|Unfortunatley its my date that is usually doing all the protecting....|
Posted: 1/20/2006 1:58:50 PM
|Having men stick up and fight for you is sexy and all, but I would be ultimately concerned about his safety. I think the best thing to do is everyone keep a cool head and just leave..but if the guy is being a total ass and doesn't take the hint that my man doesn't want to fight, then he's in for it :) Otherwise, I am a firm believer of diplomatic problem-solving.|