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 good1foru

Joined: 1/20/2006
Msg: 1
is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 9:58:39 AM
if a guy likes kinky sex is he a freak or just very open minded ????
 cheshire_grin

Joined: 1/11/2006
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 10:16:10 AM
He's good in my books <3
 blindheart1

Joined: 6/5/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 10:21:33 AM
Your 35, and your not sure if your kinky or just open minded ??

...... kinky and open minded are OK as long as your not a pervert!
 hauntingdesires

Joined: 2/11/2005
Msg: 4
is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 10:40:47 AM
It's not a bad thang... it's more common than you might think..

Of course everyones idea of whats kinky, whats risque and whats way over the line is different... I have no idea what a pervert is anymore...

I have 2 simple rules.... and they serve me well... nothing illegal, and always have consent...

The rest is fair game..
 Oral Worshipper

Joined: 12/27/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 10:42:36 AM
What is considered kinky and whats not all depends on the person. There are people who consider kinky f*cking with the lights on, while there are others that consider being wrapped in Duct Tape from head to toe and being suspened by the toes as kinky. It`s all a matter of taste. As is what people consider being a "perv". It`s all subjective.
 blindheart1

Joined: 6/5/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 11:21:50 AM
Oral,

People actually do it in the dark??? ........ How odd!!
 Dan56

Joined: 11/19/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 11:28:42 AM
He would be a freak, it's bad and perverted.......unless she likes it.
 Oral Worshipper

Joined: 12/27/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 11:30:33 AM
I know, it blew my mind as well! I mean not even a candle or a night light, and the windows covered with black out blinds before they even get nakied! Some people are just odd, give me a 10,000 cp Spot Light ANYTIME.
 blindheart1

Joined: 6/5/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 11:36:33 AM
OKAY, What I think is the difference between being kinky and being a pervert ..
People that like to (Watch or Make) porno with concent from those already in film , or those being filmed .... that is Kinky...

People that sneak over to their neighbors house to window peep on someone else's private intimate moments, or someone that hides a video camera to record theirself and a partner or even a friend and their partner without the knowledge of all involved is not only a pervert , but a SNEAKY pervert !!
 Oral Worshipper

Joined: 12/27/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 11:49:50 AM
Damn! Guess I gotta stop stomping on my neighbors tulips then!
 blindheart1

Joined: 6/5/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 11:53:36 AM
Oral
I already figured you for a perv, you fantasizing cartoon freak you !! ....
 smoochiegal

Joined: 5/18/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 11:54:12 AM
just adventurous hun it's not every1's cup of tea but that's the same for an individual's taste in clothes or music or food. I personally am into allsorts but there is a line I won't cross as far as bdsm is concerned. I think that some ppl take it a lil bit too far with human hoover bags and gimp outfits with only tubes in for breathing and that is controlled by the person the other side etc. I wouldn't like to comment on ppl into it but as long as it's not hurting anyone and the ppl involved are consenting (and it's not illegal) then why not leave them to it
 TATTOO4LIFE

Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 13
is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 11:56:54 AM
I'd let smoochiegal tie me up, but that is it,lol
 Oral Worshipper

Joined: 12/27/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 12:00:33 PM
I knew I never should have posted about that orgy fantasy I had about Astro, Dino, and Miss Piggy! *sigh*
 blindheart1

Joined: 6/5/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 12:13:15 PM
You can all laugh if you like , I am 44 yrs old and dont know what ds or bdsm means????
Can someone fill me in plz? I'm afraid to even ask about the breathing tubes and hoover bag thing!!
 Oral Worshipper

Joined: 12/27/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 12:18:34 PM
It depends, some people get confused themselves..

Most times when people put down ds they mean Domination & Submission

Other times they may mean Domination and sadomachosism

BDSM means Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism in most cases, or any combination of the above.
 sxxxy_azn_tygress

Joined: 1/8/2006
Msg: 17
is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 12:44:49 PM
HOLY FRIG...he would be an absolute god to me!
 Oral Worshipper

Joined: 12/27/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 12:47:36 PM
if thats the case sxxxy_azn_tygress, here, have a cup of my special koolaid eh.
 blindheart1

Joined: 6/5/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 12:50:02 PM
Thanx for the info Oral
 IMshrek

Joined: 11/6/2005
Msg: 20
is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 1:26:18 PM
How kinky you are is a good or bad thing depending on how open-minded your partner is. The true difference between kinky and open-minded people is that open-minded people wish to try new things where as kinky people often overindulge in one or two things they can't live without.
 Oral Worshipper

Joined: 12/27/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 1:31:05 PM
IMshrek - I like that definition, well put.
 blindheart1

Joined: 6/5/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 1:34:10 PM
If I overindulge in sayyyyyyyyyy.... 9 or 10 things,and love to try anything new, Am I in the open-minded group? or am I in the kinky group??
 Oral Worshipper

Joined: 12/27/2005
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 1:35:47 PM
I think that would make you say a vanilla swirl as opposed to just plain vanilla heh.
 webwanderer

Joined: 7/9/2004
Msg: 24
is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 4:53:14 PM
I'd like to think of myself as open-minded enough to get kinky! Theres still ots of things I haven't tried that I would still like to and lots of things I would like to do again!
 Munch

Joined: 11/30/2004
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is kinky sex ds, bdsm, a bad thing
Posted: 1/21/2006 5:19:05 PM
Doesn't that depend on what it is he's into??? Lots of things are open minded, but there is always that line to cross.
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