| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:02:21 PM | What do you want and what do you desire? Is it love is it happiness or is it just fun? Love is what everyone needs sooner or later in your life. Happiness does not always come with love and fun can be had single or with someone. I have to understand it all and ponder it with life in the 30s now. A caring soul is what I desire to cross the great divide of life but is there anyone out there who cares anymore. The divorce rate in America has reached 60% and climbing every year. I am really ready to become a stat in the other 40%. Help me 30 something women out there give me a reason to believe that life is a gift from God that we can share together and not searching and searching and searching and searching. Give into risks and give me a chance. | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:11:28 PM | If you weren't so far away I'd let you give me golfing lessons!
In the mean time I wish you good luck. | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:16:47 PM | | Very well said Sterling too bad this thread will more than likely disappear shortly. Still very well said I think your question "Are you looking for fun or a real long term relationship" (ya I paraphrased) is the true question at the heart of the matter. | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:21:30 PM | at this point fun will turn into a lasting relationship for the long run. But the main question I have for all of the women in Canada and America is what does it take and where do I sign up? | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:22:16 PM | | I am not looking for someone to complete me because I am whole. I am looking for someone who can compliment me. A faithful, understanding and caring man who is willing to share life with me. Someone who will love me for who I am and not someone they want me to be. | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:26:35 PM | | that sounds real well but you don't need to be with anyone to be complete but you do need to be with someone for a connection and that is what I mean. I am also a whole person and like to have fun sometimes with the opposite sex. | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/22/2006 4:32:09 PM |
I am also a whole person and like to have fun sometimes with the opposite sex.
There in lies my conundrum.
All the good guys my age lives elsewhere and the 20 year olds are the only ones chatting it up with me. | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/22/2006 5:01:30 PM | | don't mean to intercede but love is one of humans basic needs.....we really can't live without love....scaey isn't it.....lol | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/22/2006 5:41:03 PM | but we all have some sort of love in our lives
love of family and friends
any other type of love is a bonus | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/22/2006 9:08:00 PM | I am about to fall into the 60% and rising bracket, and my experience is that it is always easier to tell others what you dont like than it is to explain what you do like. And honestly, if you just want to find out what they like and then become that.. isnt that really not being honest? Better to be yourself and wait for that someone that is willing and mature enough to accept you for who you are...
And hey I could use some golf lessons too.... lol.
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/22/2006 9:40:33 PM | I think my list of don't likes is rather small actually lol. It's the hidden likes and surprises that seem to create that bond for me. That and with very few exceptions I can take alot of marginal dislikes if the main likes are there.
And golf is much more fun when everyone is bad at it... all those golf balls whizzing around usually creates some entertaining drama and golf carts float.... for a while anyway. | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/22/2006 9:47:55 PM |
It's the hidden likes and surprises that seem to create that bond for me. That and with very few exceptions I can take alot of marginal dislikes if the main likes are there.
This is so true.
How do you know if you like or don't like something unless you try it?
I like driving the golf cart. | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/23/2006 12:02:52 AM | I would love to meet a caring soul to whom im attracted to An all round decent guy with heart and a spark fire of adventure Sometimes gentle and caring........ Sometimes rowdy and fun Someone with ambition and energy pride and passion !!! Someone i feel comfortable being myself with and accepts me as I am ..........someone to hold me tight and loves to kiss and makes electricity run through me! I am hoping that one day my heart will flutter Making my life even more complete than it already is  | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/23/2006 5:10:31 AM | | I think everyone is looking for love, companionship and a partner to share everything with. It isn't easy meeting someone you are compatible with and who you want to spend the rest of your life with. | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/23/2006 8:36:09 AM | | because love is a gift from god meant to be shared with people and it is the best feeling in the world when you have it. | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/31/2006 2:02:05 PM | I think the problem is that some people are looking for something that isn't real. What I mean by this is that they set standards for themselves of what type of person they would like to be with, and when they meet certian people and that person is not up to what they are looking for right then and there then it's move onto the next without finding out what the person is like. For instance, The person must have a certian type of body, or it must be love at first sight???
I agree that there has to be some type of attraction between two people when they meet, but I also agree with starting as friends and building from there. A relationship takes work by both involved, and if you have good communication between eachother and support eachother, you should be able to work it through the good and the bad times.
Now a days it is very hard to find someone that is willing to accept a person for who they really are, not for what they look like, or how much money is in the bank account. Unfortunately there are still people out there that go for these things and not for what is on the inside of the person.
For me....I'm looking for someone to build a relationship with and go from there. I don't need anyone to complete me, I would like someone in my life that i can talk with, do things with, have fun with, and will be by my side through the good and the bad times no matter what. Someone that is not only my partner but my best friend. | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/31/2006 3:27:03 PM | | what i want more than anything is an HONEST relationship. I'm tired of being lied to. in a relationship honesty is my only rule. if you decide you want you want someone else, thats fine, JUST TELL ME FIRST AND THEN DON'T EXPECT TO COME BACK. | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 1/31/2006 3:36:31 PM | SAMRO123
BRAVO!!!!
Couldn't of said it ANY better!!
There is your answer, dude.. from two 30 something women... | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 2/1/2006 8:56:53 AM | I'm happy................so not looking for someone to make me happy...
I'm looking for my bestfriend my lover... my confidont...........
I don't think anyone wants to be a statistic! That's for sure! Unless it'sa happy one! | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 2/1/2006 8:03:13 PM | | I believe REALLY living LIFE is trying to achieve it ALL in balance. LOVE, HAPPINESS, PASSION, FAMILY, HOME, and having FUN along the way. | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 2/1/2006 9:15:09 PM | Everyone desires to be loved...Do people need love? Yea I think all living things "need "love but there is a big difference between "wanting" and "needing" love .When I was younger I "needed" love , now that I'm older I can honestly say I want it more than need it. | |
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| all you 30 something girls
Posted: 2/2/2006 10:21:45 AM | looking for Love, Happiness or Fun?
I don't need to be with someone else to have fun; I don't need someone to entertain me. Anything can be fun if I approach it the right way.
I don't need to be with someone to be happy; happiness comes from within. I can be happy wherever I am and with whomever I am.
Love I can feel for anyone and anything. | |
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