| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 5:52:09 PM | | Ok *blush* I've never been given oral sex. Never had a guy interested in doing so to me. Now I have someone who wants to do so, and I am excited/terriffied/scared, and a whole other range of emotions. So, my question is, what the hell happens? Well, besides the obvious, like, what do I do with my hands, and what's my body going to do. What if I'm not normal down there? (he says I am beautiful there). Is my body gonna make/do weird things? Help.....can any other woman tell me what happend the first time they had a man go down on them? | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 5:59:55 PM | First time, I honestly thought, "ew... this is the most disgusting thing I have ever subjected myself to." Mind you, I wasn't exactly knowledgable on the whole oral sex thing. Now, holy crap, climb on his face and ride his tongue.. HELLO!
Okay, lets see... in my wisdom (lol).
Hand Placement: Run your hands through his hair, grab your breasts and play with them or as I do, flail arms around wildly.
Your Body: You should tense up, your eyes will roll to the back of your head, you will have intense sensations running throughought your being. You either will or will not orgasm, depending on how comfortable you are.
Normal: I am sure you are. Providing it's not that time of the month or some yeast infection, guys absolutely love doing this for a woman.
Communicate with him what you want, what feels good and what doesn't. If you can do that, it will be a pleasurable experience.
~RF~ | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:02:09 PM | thanks, i feel really really silly asking this....but oh well, nothing to lose but lots to learn | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:03:53 PM | Gosh, I asked on here about whether to swallow a big load and throw up or politely spit it out. If you wanna know, you have to ask. Trust me, we've all asked our fair share of questions. Everything to learn.
~RF~ | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:06:47 PM | Girl, you've been missing out!
Try to relax and enjoy it. DOn't worry about if you're normal, or what's he's thinking, or any of the other things I'm sure you're worried about because...if he WANTS to do it then it means he enjoys doing it, he's going to be turned on by doing it for you and hopefully he'll be good at it too, that's always a bonus.
Don't worry about what to do with your hands or your body, just do what feels good at the time. Run your hands through his hair, pull his head closer to you, grab ahold of the sheets, the headboard, play with your breasts, whatever feels good at the moment. On second thought since you've never tried it before maybe you shuold do all of the above to figure out what you do like!
Above all, relax and enjoy it.
The first time I had the pleasure was the first time I ever O'd and it was awesome, almost didn't know what was going on when my legs started shaking uncontrollably! Let's jut say that man will hold a special place in my heart (and other places) for years to come. LOL. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:09:11 PM | God...you have no worries..I mean...ya dont have to worry about getting hard or anything..........LOL......just lay back....enjoy the moment...(and if its good..then you shoud return the favor) | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:11:38 PM | If he is doing it wrong and you get bored, drum your fingers on the nightstand. He will hear it and get the hint.
I have no idea how it feels to the woman but it must be good or they wouldn't wake you up in the morning straddling your face.
Nature made women smell and taste good to men so that men would want to have sex with them. To men, it's the best thing there is to do off a motorcycle.
He will need guidance to learn what you like. It's your job to let him know what feels good and what doesn't, so he can make sure you enjoy it, too. You can let him know by making happy sounds, gently thrusting your hips (don't break his nose), or just telling him. If he does something painful slap the top of his head real hard and fart in his face. Hmm, I guess I should address the unbidden fart now, having said that. Don't worry about the slim chance you might rip one, because the more you worry about it the more gassy you'll get. Ha ha.
Two more tips: Be careful about crossing your legs when you cum. Men have died. And, it gets better each time so practice a lot, whenever you get the chance. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:14:48 PM |
Be careful about crossing your legs when you cum.
He's SERIOUS about that - we call it the skull-cracker, and it is NOT pleasant, and in that position we can't even scream out in pain or anything...  | |
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Ldygmr
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Joined: 12/19/2005
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:15:41 PM | I hope for your sake he's good at it.
YOu can put your hands anywhere. But I bet they end up in his hair. That's okay, though you might investigate whether or not hair pulling bothers him. Relax. Let yourslef enjoy it. Don't go into it expecting ANYTHING. Then what ever happens is nice.
and...try not to slam your legs together...makes it hard for the poor guy to breath. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:17:37 PM | hun, you are beautiful. And Trust me, if hes there.. he thinks so too.
dont worry... dont stress.. have a nice bath a head of time.. so you feel fresh..do ur beauty regiments for ur puss.. the things that make you feel sexual and beautiful down there..
and just enjoy urself.
let it take you where ever it takes you.
smile. you are beautiful. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:22:59 PM | I've only had one really good experience with oral. What the guys say is very, very true---try not to close your legs up, (hard to do when your hips are bucking wildly, but try) and hope and pray that you're a squirter!
(I couldn't help myself.) | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:24:50 PM | Technically though, if a guy is good... he'll pin you down and make you take it. There won't be any worries about you going anywhere or squirming away at all (or choking him to death).
~RF~ | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:39:58 PM | ok....
1.relax
2. don't cross legs
3. don't cross legs
4" "
and do whatever with hands..
does breathing have any part in this?? lol...
Oh, and, guys, (or other girls) question: what doyou like a girl to do, while you are down there? What (besides the head slapping and ect.) are ways to communicate what is good/bad/ouch/stop...and so on? And thanks everyone for the education!!! | |
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Joined: 1/3/2006
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:42:58 PM | Breathing is important. Don't stop.
Just speak up and say what you want. Men like direct statements and get confused and frustrated by hints. "I like it when you do thaaaaaaaaatttttttttmmmmmmmmmm" is good.
Afterwards, hold up a card like they do at figure skating with a number so he knows how well he did. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:43:10 PM | Invest in a vibrator and pleasure yourself, discover wtf feels good and then your wish
is his comand. You are an adult and whatever feels good should be yours with a man
you trust. The body is one of the free things in life. Enjoy yourself woman. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:43:45 PM | Yup...you definitely need to breathe ! Of course if it's good, he may take you'r breath away for a moment or two!
You usually don't have to exactly spell out what feels good, just moan or wriggle or say it feels good, or yea, keep doing that or something similar should suffice and a short quick "ouch" will be all he needs to know if it's hurting. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:45:19 PM | | let him grip your ankles..........pin your legs upright.........and go to work!!!!!!!!!!!!! (sorry..im just tellin ya how I would do it)... | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:48:00 PM | Well i am thinkin you should wrap your legs around his neck
coz when you get that feeling ,you ll feel the need to squeeze
grind it all over his face , kinda like face fukkin
psst ,you dont have horns growin out of it,do ya ? lol | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:49:11 PM | | Well Pap if he is good at it it will be an experience to remember and one you will want again and again but hey just lay back, enjoy the experience and let your body do as it wishes. The best thing you can ever do is let your body make the decisions for you in that situation not your mind. | |
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| My embarressing oral question
Posted: 1/22/2006 6:57:13 PM | Nope, no horns, and .......lol and my legs up in the air while he hold my ankles?? come on now.......we're not all Barbie with multi-flexing legs!! sheesh!....  | |
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