| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:25:54 PM | | Here's a question for the ladies...my guys friends and I go clubbin' quite often but none of us are able to approach women. We are all mid-20's, good looking, and clueless. How should a guy approach a woman in the bar or anywhere else? | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:27:37 PM | You should get slobberingly drunk, then tell the woman you approach that she has a great body and then ask her how much would it take to rent it for the evening . . .
"Hi! How are you?" works quite well in my experience. | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:29:00 PM | | ...dude, I am 35 now and trying to talk to a woman that you think is attractive- it is soooo hard, I think that men have it hardest. with women, they can talk to anyone when ever they want. i know it sucks. | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:29:04 PM | | With a compliment. Find something sincere and unique about her and let her know. Better yet, have a drink sent to her, and then go over with your thought out complimentary and charming opener. | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:30:15 PM | yyyyyeeeeeeeeooooooowwwwwwww, summer teeth has the answer, im headin to the bars right now.
Later | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:31:40 PM | | when ever I do that, send a compliment and try to talk to her, I ALWAYS hear the song "Mana Mana" but the muppets, and I am sure that is what I sound like as well. | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:32:58 PM |
Find something sincere and unique about her and let her know.
That's a tall order. Most likely, whatever he thinks is unique, she has already heard before. | |
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AI03™
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Joined: 5/3/2005
Msg: 8 | |
| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:36:01 PM | Why not comment on the music, or the band if there is one or bump into her lightly, apologize and strike up a convo? Or stand in her general vicinity and make eye contact, say hello and ask how her night is? If you dance ask her to dance? 
Or.... you can revert to Summer's original suggestion.. don't forget to tell her... "Trust Me.. God wants you to celebrate your body"! | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:39:39 PM | Really. How quickly you give up on finding true love, in a bar..... If it's unique, believe me, she probably won't have heard it before. When was the last time you told a woman here hair was so shiny you had to come over to see if your could see your reflection? Her eyes were so sparkly that you were mezmerized from across the room. That you heard her laughter and had to come over and see this vision of audible beauty.
That's in one minute without any real thought. Give it a few minutes, and I'm sure you'll come up with some good ones. Don't be afraid of who's lines may have gone before you, forge your own path and make her take notice of you. A confident guy is always a turn on. A confident guy that thingks your pretty special and wants to tell you is a wonder to behold.  | |
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BradPt
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Joined: 1/13/2006
Msg: 10 | |
| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:40:14 PM | | what are some good topic for conversation...what to say/ what not to say? | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:43:33 PM | | Brad, just go up to her and say "i need some help, I am trying to change the alphabet, I want to put u and i together. and then quickly duck. lol | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:44:22 PM | "Hey do I know you? No? Strange, I swear to God you're my future ex wife" does not work... Nor does "Are you two sexy sisters? Because you have the same eyebrows".
Erm.. whaaa? | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:50:29 PM |
what are some good topic for conversation...what to say/ what not to say?
So, after we've woo'ed her for you, does that mean we get to have sex with her too? | |
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BradPt
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Joined: 1/13/2006
Msg: 16 | |
| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 1:55:18 PM | | Looks like I managed to start a forum that attracts dudes that are as bad at chatting women up as me! | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 2:02:46 PM | if it's somewhat crowded, walk by her and lightly place your hand on the small of her back and say"excuse me", smile and walk away........she'll notice!
NEVER NEVER send a drink!
skip any compliments
never ask for a number or date on the inital contact!
eye contact is huge! dont look around the bar talking too her
keep a comfortable distance. good clue, is say pardon to her, see if she leans into your ear, and stays close | |
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BradPt
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Joined: 1/13/2006
Msg: 18 | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 2:11:51 PM | Check out the details of what they are wearing. If they have an interesting necklace or jewalry, ask about it, like it really interests you. If they have a university logo on a shirt or something, you can ask if they go there and start talking about that.
Women are into details and they like to be unique, different then other women, so figure out something that makes her unique and start talking about it like you are honestly interested, and you have a good chance
Basically pick up a clue about her background or interests from something you can see on her, and start a conversation about it. Be a detective, like Sherlock. | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 2:15:13 PM | Brad Try and impress them with some moves on the dance floor!!
If that fails wait until the slow tracks come on and ask a girl you like for a dance!! | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 2:15:50 PM | catch a star as pretty as you are i bet you've heard em all now you wanta dance | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 2:21:23 PM | Guy came up to me after a 10 K run in Tuscaloosa Alabama and told me I had a nice ass. We talked, had some drinks, went to dinner and dancing.
Couldn't maintain after that weekend; but was a great line for the situation. Runners have great asses.
But Hams, I don't slow dance with people I don't know or like. If someone asks me to slow dance, I say I don't with someone I don't know, come back on a fast one. They normally don't. Friend told me slow dancing was legal foreplay. I agree. You ain't rubbing on me if I don't know you; or if I don't like you. | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 2:24:14 PM | | sambucadawg has given some great advice - to my way of thinking anyhow. | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 2:32:40 PM | any1real Its normal in the Uk to ask somone for a slow dance if you see a girl you like!!
How ever im not sure what you guys do in the US!! would i get a slap if i did that in america!!
I think i'll stick to my breakdancing!! | |
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| Approaching women in bars
Posted: 1/23/2006 2:35:31 PM | | heres a great one. If you are near the bar, ask a girl you like if she would mind getting you a drink cos shes a girl and will get served faster than you would. If she says sure then give her the money. While youare standing in line with her tell her that you arent easy and just because you are letting her get you a drink that you arent going to give her your number.**** and funny always works. Just know where the line is. | |
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