| Y can't a man ever make up his mind?!
Posted: 1/26/2006 10:33:19 AM | To all you ladies out there.....I have a story for you. I was dating a guy named Bruce. He was a nice guy at first, but then he didn't want to see me any more. Ok I accepted that. A week later he called me back said he was sorry and if we could try again....I thought ok no problem. It went fine for about 4 months and again he dumped me. Now this guy has been hurt alot by his ex wife and he doesn't want to have feelings for anyone at all. So I left him alone and two weeks later he askes for me to take him back....I know I shouldn't have but I gave it another try. after 4 more months he dumped me again, saying it was what he wanted to do. I didn't talk to him for a month and a half. Having a family crisis I collasped at school one day in a heep and cried knowing the first person I could call was him and he could pick me up.....but I didn't call. I waited a day and with alot of pressure on me I called and he answered....we talked and I found out he was going to meet a woman out of state. I was heart broken.....needless to say they never met and he asked me to take him back again. this time it lasted six months and once again we are broken up. He told me that he had no feelings for me, he didn't want to get hurt staying with me and that I shouldn't wait for him. That is fine with me...this guy was my very best frined at least I thought he was.....the lesson here ladies is never take a guy back more than once....cause they will just walk all over you and leave you when they are done. I wish I could have met him from here....instead I met him on L/A/V/A.....he is a jerk and all he wants is you to be perfect......I should give him some rose colored glasses. | |
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| Y can't a man ever make up his mind?!
Posted: 1/26/2006 4:39:10 PM | | try being married to a woman who did basically the same thing to me. I took her back three times before we finally got seperated for good she was supposed to be my best friend till death do us part and after a waste of 12 years I am sitting wondering why I let it go on for so long you are better off not being in a relationship with someone who is not faithful for it always ends in heartbreak. | |
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| Y can't a man ever make up his mind?!
Posted: 1/26/2006 6:38:04 PM | for one: An ex is an ex for a reason. period.
two: women do this too, not just men (alot more than you expect)
three: you deserve alot more than him...you should have realized that the second time he broke up with you (maybe the first, but love can be a blinder)
next time someone wants to break up with you, stay broke up, and move on, its the best you can do, anything else and youre selling yourself short. | |
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| Y can't a man ever make up his mind?!
Posted: 1/26/2006 11:24:19 PM | | I guess I have to agree with DesertWolf. Its obvious that something wasn't working in the relationship. I had a relationship that dragged out for 6 years like that. We'd break up and get back together. Each time the mess got bigger and bigger. Finally we worked out our issues and we both decided together that breaking up was the best thing for us. It helps if you don't romanticize the situation by wanting to change this person to fit your conception of perfection. I kept thinking she'd change and be the woman I knew she could be but I ended up chasing a fantasy rather than working on our relationship. It wasn't until I addressed the reality of who she was that I could move on and be confident that it was over. | |
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