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 stephan22
Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 1
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OK so i was/am dating this chick who was hot as hel.l she has great legs, long blonde hair, blue eyes, thin, big tits, size 4, everything was bangin. great personality made me actually think of a serious relationship. we were dating for 2 months without sex. she always had an excuse. i'm on my period/i have a headache/gotta get home work early tomorrow you know the usual. well finally the other night we were making out hot and heavy and before she could stop me her pants were off and she had a dikk now don't get me wrong she has a pus$y too. so my qurstion is this since she was born with both is it wrong for a man to date her/him/it? would any men on here? what if i continued and one night it got hard and she/he wanted toput it in my as$? I need some advise when this happened she started balling saying she wanted to tell me but didn't know how and she loves me..i told her i would think about it and call her..it's been 4 days and i am confused
 MellyBabez
Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 2
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/26/2006 1:12:48 PM
Do you like her????

Well, DO you??

The who cares?

Its not wrong, by any means.

If you dont want it in your ass, then let her know.

What i dont agree with, however, is the fact that she kept it hidden from you, is she embarassed by herself...?

If your into her, then be with her.
Make sure you two discuss her, and where your relationship is going.
Communication and openness is key.

:)
 peoplefan
Joined: 11/17/2005
Msg: 3
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/26/2006 1:20:42 PM
Well stephan it appears as though you got the bonus package. If it's bigger then yours will you be able to deal? Tough decision.
 *~Shells~*
Joined: 1/8/2006
Msg: 4
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/26/2006 1:21:12 PM
I completely agree with Melly here!

If you're into this person.. what is the problem?

Open Honest Communication is key!

Shells
 Moon Unit
Joined: 1/13/2006
Msg: 5
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/26/2006 1:30:39 PM

What i dont agree with, however, is the fact that she kept it hidden from you, is she embarassed by herself...?


If you were double equipped, don't you think you'd be a little shy about revealing it to some guy you like?

I do agree with your advice though - if you're really into her, then go for it. If you're superficial, then don't.

MU
 Kubla Khan
Joined: 12/8/2005
Msg: 6
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/26/2006 2:42:39 PM
Is it wrong for you to date her? According to who? If we told you it was ok, would that deal with your issues for you? Call me crazy, but if she was into ****ing people with that thing, wouldn't she dress up like a guy? Or maybe she would love to tap your ass... who knows? She knows. Ask her, I'm sure she'll tell you.

Honestly, unless you're looking for a mother for your children, it's entirely up to you. She managed to fool you for two months of make out sessions, so it's not like anyone's going to know unless you tell them. You're not going to get teased by your buddies or have to have a talk with your parents about it. If you're ok with it, do it. If you're ok with it under certain conditions, talk to her about that and find out if she's cool with your conditions. If you're not ok with it, take the time to tell her just how hard this decision is for you, she deserves that.

The fact that you're unsure at all, coupled with your glowing description of her, these are pretty strong indicators that you'd LIKE for it to be ok, so go find out if it can be and stop letting her suffer in limbo while you waste time trying to make a decision that can't be made until you find out more about where she's at and what her expectations are.

And for being indecisive. Under circumstances like these, that alone speaks volumes for your character. Hope things work out for you.
 lust456
Joined: 6/21/2005
Msg: 7
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/26/2006 2:54:59 PM
Are you for real? Did anybody see the sex tape with China from WWE? Is that what you're talking about? Gross.
 Destryridesagain
Joined: 1/8/2006
Msg: 8
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/26/2006 3:02:04 PM
Look on the bright side..Nobody to b%tch about the toilette seat...
 MR BOB
Joined: 12/21/2005
Msg: 9
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/26/2006 3:14:59 PM
I agree with everyone here.If you like her,shouldnt matter what anybody thinks.
 I Am A Poison
Joined: 1/9/2006
Msg: 10
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/26/2006 3:20:41 PM
I think you should give her number to my ex boyfriend when he gets out of jail. Seems he was looking at www.chickswithdicks.com and other websites with hermaphrodites on it....

and found his profile on here on POF looking for dudes for an "intimate encounter"...

God help me, i just admitted to that.........

but yeah, seems even the most macho of men are into that sort of thing........I never EVER would have guessed..
 lust456
Joined: 6/21/2005
Msg: 11
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/26/2006 3:24:40 PM
This one just gets weirder and weirder.
 lovelickin
Joined: 11/6/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 1/26/2006 3:39:00 PM
I agree Melly put it perfectly. If you are into this women and want to continue a relationship with her then what does it matter. What is under her skirt is between the two of you and no one elses business. So simply be open to her that your worried about her wanting to go in your ass but otherwise go for it bud. Its the women you are falling for not whats between her legs.
 sxxxy_azn_tygress
Joined: 1/8/2006
Msg: 13
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/26/2006 3:40:27 PM
I can't even determine if this post is for real or not....it's very rare in the world to meet a hermaphrodite.
 stephan22
Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 14
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/26/2006 8:15:38 PM
of course it's for real and i am sure it is rare but it happened. another thing about it though is yes she did lie but be for real if it was you i am sure it would be hard to deal with telling someone i mean how do you go about it? i mean hey look i have a di.ck and a pus$y? i did talk to her and we ended up having sex (the best ever) well her penis got hard and she said she wanted to use it on me. dam.n it is bigger than mine at least 10-11 inches long i said whoa hold it right there i'm not into that. she got pissed and said she thought i understood it was part of her.i told her i did but wasn't into that so we had a fight not sure now what will happen cause i sure ain't getting my as$ tapped by a 10 inch monster
 cheekychica
Joined: 11/12/2005
Msg: 15
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/26/2006 8:19:24 PM
hm. yeah. I dont know about this. I question its truth.
I need to do some research.
 MellyBabez
Joined: 8/8/2005
Msg: 16
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/26/2006 8:19:30 PM
Does she have balls?

11 inch d.ick, your full of shit.

In true hermaphrodites, the "penis" is generally very small.

The pictures, that you have apparently been lookign at in porn sites, are digitally altered.

 webwanderer
Joined: 7/9/2004
Msg: 17
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/26/2006 8:26:41 PM
HHHmmm I'm getting a little susicious too. A friend showed me a hermaphrodite porn a buddy sent him and the guys****was actually smaller than normaln(which if I remeber correctly is the way it works in those cases) and it didn't get hard (which was how he did himself, which was really odd). I'm thinking this post is just to get a laugh at teh people who say its okay. But since I have no more problems with gay/bi people than I do with hetero (there are good ones and bad ones in both), I will say, if you like her stay and if you don't or can't deal with her extra bits then just say sorry and go. Be honest with yourself then be honest with her.
 baldnhorny
Joined: 1/26/2006
Msg: 18
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/27/2006 12:03:32 AM
Whether or not this person is a Hermaphrodite or a Pre-Op Transsexual is irrelevant, in my opinion. Transsexuals are still relatively enigmatic in our society and not widely accepted. If you have developed feelings for this person then you simply need to come to grips with the biology. At the very least, you two need to talk things through. The worst case scenario would be that you'd part company if her biology was a deal-breaker for you. The ball, as they say, is in your court.
 Veedub447
Joined: 8/6/2005
Msg: 19
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/27/2006 12:44:00 AM
If she had a 12 inch wanker and a poonanny too, she wouldn't need to date you, she could just stay home a fuk herself
 nipoleon
Joined: 12/27/2005
Msg: 20
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Posted: 1/27/2006 3:24:11 AM
Wait a sec. You said he/she had both. Exactly how good a look did you get of he/her vagina ? Are you really sure ?
I'm not one to pass judgement here on what ever you want to do. Considering your being honest about this.
You may have been the victim of a clever ruse.
 I Am A Poison
Joined: 1/9/2006
Msg: 21
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/27/2006 1:53:01 PM
Hermaprodites generally don't have both fully functional organs, either a short vagina or a limp penis so i hear...........


unfortunately, sadly, miserably, the tale about my ex is very true, i think he was into dudes and figured if it had boobage it didn't make him gay, I DUNNO ::SIGH::

I can't even begin to venture into his mind........ DON'T WANNA
 Financeman
Joined: 9/9/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 1/27/2006 2:07:47 PM
Well, I will be the first to say it. I CALL BULLSHIT!!! Herms don't have big penis'...it is more like an EXTRA LARGE CLITORIS... But if a chick had a taco that great and a huge penis...man think of the possibilities - my advice - tell her to be a lesbian! Imagine all the "at bats" she would get!!!
 Test_Pilot
Joined: 10/15/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 1/27/2006 2:25:56 PM
What a crock. Why people feel the need to post such nonsense is beyond me.
 cycledad
Joined: 11/14/2005
Msg: 24
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/27/2006 2:32:43 PM
wow. This thread is just TOO hilarious.
I've even learned some new 'buzzwords' such as 'wanker', 'poonanny' and 'boobage'. Some of you were the most accurate about the girl's 'member' being an extension of the clitoris (that controversial 'mini-penis'). One way to prove honesty is for 'stephan' to take a pic and post it with his profile.
My initial thought was "how could you date her for two months and NOT get any finger action?" Perhaps that's a good thing because it indicates the opposite of wanting a 'one-night stand'. Or maybe you didn't try hard enough. In any event, it defies logic because all during that period, MOST guys would be just about horny enough to screw ANYTHING from 'one to four legs'.
 ornjen2
Joined: 8/15/2005
Msg: 25
Hermaphrodite dating advice
Posted: 1/27/2006 3:17:51 PM
Hey there Stephan...seems to be some real confusion as to what your "squeeze" actually is...while true hermaphrodites are EXTREMELY rare...you may or may not have a real one...in either event...you've fluffed her off for some days now. Why not slip me her phone number and I'll find out exactly what you're dealing with...no charge!
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