| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 2:47:26 PM | In all seriousness, when you are seeing someone. When is the "right" time to have sex for the first time with someone?
If you do it too quick your easy and if you wait too long your a prude.
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| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 2:54:48 PM | Preferably before orgasm, but then again what do I know?
:P
Seriously though... not the first night... but if I can't stop thinking about her, or realize I miss her, it's time to make whoopie... before that is a bad idea. | |
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| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 2:56:47 PM | Third date!
first is "the meeting"
if there is a second, it's confirming that the attraction was real
if it progresses to a third, there will surely be a 4th and potentially more, so the third date is always safe to get down without being looked down upon... | |
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| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 2:59:59 PM | So the third date is the general consensus?
I dont know if any of you watch sex and the city but Carrie Bradshaw seems to belive it should be 1/4 your age in dates! That would mean the 5th date in my case. But when you get up to the higher numbers like 30 and 40...it seems a bit extreme. | |
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Suther
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Joined: 5/20/2005
Msg: 10 | |
| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 3:14:06 PM |
1/4 your age in dates
7 dates?!?!?! That's far far too long.. how about 1/4 your age in days? | |
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| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 3:16:10 PM | | When it feels right for both of you. Using "formulas" to decide when it is right makes as much sense as, well nothing. | |
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Rake
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Joined: 3/12/2005
Msg: 12 | |
| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 3:34:05 PM | | That depends on what you seek. If you seek a release or pleasure then it is right when you both feel the same way and you are doing it in a safe and non-destructive manner. If you seek love, then you should only do it when you are sure that you love that person. | |
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| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 5:10:39 PM | | When it feels right and you both want to. In this day and age sex isn't looked at the same way it used to be. I think if its the right time you will both know it and agree to have it happen cause its what you both want. Just because you don't come to that agreement right away doesn't make her a prude. | |
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| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 5:10:56 PM | | I say just go for it when you want to. Who cares if its the first date or the eighth? If you're having sex with this person who cares when. | |
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| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 5:41:44 PM | I must admit that sex on the first date won't always get you a second, so are u dating, having sex, or looking for a relationship?
If it's a "relationship" then sex on the first date isn't a good idea
But if you're in it for sex, your right, who care | |
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| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 5:42:28 PM | | As someone already stated, when it feels right. Why put a time limit on it, just let it happen. | |
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| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 6:13:05 PM | | i think u can't put a limit on it, but on the same token, if he waits too long is he really that into you. after all they are guys can they really wait mths? | |
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| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 6:24:03 PM | | Whenever it feels right, whether that is minutes after meeting or after a significant period of time has elasped. You will know when it is right. | |
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Lexy47
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Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 20 | |
| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 6:31:43 PM | | I say make them wait........lol......the longer the wait the better it will be. | |
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| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 6:33:29 PM | depends on if I want it to go somewhere or not...if I really care for the guy, I will know when the time is right - have made one wait three days  and another one wait months!! But if I am just in it to get off, then first (and last) nite it is!! | |
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| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 6:50:39 PM | | Things have to come naturally... When the right time comes, you'll know it.. | |
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| When is the best time
Posted: 1/26/2006 7:48:11 PM | I have a NO fricken clue!
I guess it depends on what kind of SEX you're having........
There's SEX..
Fing...
Making love...
It's all so confusing! | |
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