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 les25

Joined: 10/18/2005
Msg: 1
THE WORST BIRTHDAY EVER
Posted: 1/28/2006 9:46:00 PM
MY BIRTHDAY WAS TWO DAYS AGO AND I HAVE BEEN DATING THIS WHAT I THOUGHT NICE GUY. WE HAD A PRETTY GOOD RELATIONSHIP OR SO I THOUGHT. OKAY SO I HAVE A BUSY SCHEDULE AND DOES HE (WE BOTH ARE SINGLE PARENTS, WORK, AND ATTEND SCHOOL) TALK ABOUT SIMILIARITIES. WELL I WAITED FOR HIM TO CALL ME AND TELL ME "HAPPY BIRTHDAY" ALL DAY LONG. NOTHING UNTIL ABOUT 10 PM THAT NIGHT. HE CALLED ME AND ASKED ME WHAT I WAS GOING TO DO TO CELEBRATE. MY RESPONSE WAS ...HE THEN REPLIED "I WOULD LOVE TO SPEND YOUR BIRTHDAY WITH YOU BUT I HAVE A GIRLFRIEND NOW." THEN HE GOES ON TO SAY "BUT YOU HAVE A GREAT BIRTHDAY." WHAT'S THE BEST REVENGE?
 HemiPower

Joined: 1/26/2006
Msg: 2
THE WORST BIRTHDAY EVER
Posted: 1/28/2006 10:53:09 PM
And to top it all off, your caps key is broken. Man, thats one bad B-Day. I have one coming up, maybe I can top that. I will get back to ya.
 sterling68

Joined: 1/11/2006
Msg: 3
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THE WORST BIRTHDAY EVER
Posted: 1/29/2006 10:38:49 AM
There really is no revenge the best I can think of is if he was attracted to you enough to have a relationship go out there and find someone better than him which don't sound too hard to do and rub it in his face that he isn't the big stud he thought he was.
 Chiefs76

Joined: 9/14/2005
Msg: 4
THE WORST BIRTHDAY EVER
Posted: 1/29/2006 10:52:02 AM
oh my goodness. i'm so sorry hear, thats some cruel sh!t, especially to do it to someone like you. Revenge..hmm gonna have to get back to you on that tho. i have to go plot something big.

I've had many bad birthdays but nothing like this. who knows tho, mine is coming up very soon.
 Hill_Valley_Hick

Joined: 8/31/2005
Msg: 5
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THE WORST BIRTHDAY EVER
Posted: 1/29/2006 11:20:47 AM
Don't bother with revenge you are too good for that. Just never talk to him again and find a man who can appreciate you. You are a pretty sexy woman so that shouldn't be too hard. Good luck in the future.
 blu_eyed_gal

Joined: 8/25/2005
Msg: 6
THE WORST BIRTHDAY EVER
Posted: 1/29/2006 11:23:29 AM
revenge? what the fluck?
Why do you think he owes you anything?
You said you were dating, you didn't say you were in an exclusive long term committed relationship.
Mind you, was rather rude to tell you that on your birthday, but some people are dorks.
I can't imagine this was the first rude thing he did but, I could be wrong.
 DesertWolf

Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 7
THE WORST BIRTHDAY EVER
Posted: 1/29/2006 11:28:19 AM
rude, yes...

right in telling you he had a gf? absolutely. i'd rather be told up front than to be led on, dont you agree? revenge would put you way farther into the wrong than he currently is...i mean you were dating...it wasnt exclusive was it?
 graykisses

Joined: 12/11/2005
Msg: 8
THE WORST BIRTHDAY EVER
Posted: 1/29/2006 1:59:42 PM
Are you SURE that you two were dating? What happened here seems rather odd. It appears that he was under the impression that you two were just friends. That or he is just a d!ck plain and simple.
 eye4truth

Joined: 10/1/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 1/29/2006 4:55:34 PM
ya dont lower yourself to revenge just dont ever speak to him again
 tralala

Joined: 1/3/2004
Msg: 10
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Posted: 1/29/2006 5:06:15 PM
Dear Sweet.........

Your Birthday has now come and gone....

However.... I would like to wish you the best for the next year.

Because, you seem to be such a wonderful person.

Please take what has happened with a grain of salt.... because... this will be a new and most wonderful year for you.
 les25

Joined: 10/18/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 1/30/2006 5:58:56 AM
actually yes it was. he didn't owe me anything. just not to be an ass that's all.
 les25

Joined: 10/18/2005
Msg: 12
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Posted: 1/30/2006 6:00:38 AM
Oh yes I am sure, we were dating. I don't make assumptions on things like that.
 ~iiCe~

Joined: 7/26/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 1/30/2006 6:18:47 AM
if you hadn't made plans with him before that day you should have made plans with friends... if someone is really into you he would have made sure that you were together that day... and you should have known that he wasn't going to be there by the fact that you didn't have plans in advance....

you are better off without him and the hopes that you had for him...
 hairdo41

Joined: 1/10/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 1/30/2006 7:21:45 AM
Hi..So here is what you do to get back at the bumbazz...you go to his place at night..when you know he will be going out for a night of alcohol and then bring along a tube of super glue and some tooth picks..then you squeeze some glue in his door lock then stick in a toothpick or even a paper clip and hold it till it sets....toothpics work better because you can break them off in the door...now make sure you bring a buddy along and lay low in thier vehicle and wait till he comes home...now sit back and watch the dumb drunk fumble for his keys and try to open his door while he staggers and cusses the door at 3 am....PRICELESS!...i HAD A BAD BOYFRIEND WHO CHEATED ON ME ..SO i TOOK A BUDDY TO A SPY STORE AND WE BOUGHT A BOOK ON REVENGE...this was hilarious.....wanted to try the one where you buy rough grade sandpaper and cut it in strips. Then you glue it to the backside of his or her windshield wiper blades.....and wait for it to rain.... I have only done this once in my life but this was too tempting to pass up. I do not promote breaking the law....but I do promote laughing your ass off and having some free entertainment.
 hasitreallycometothis?

Joined: 1/14/2006
Msg: 15
THE WORST BIRTHDAY EVER
Posted: 1/30/2006 5:11:38 PM
Dont get revenge hun, just move on!
 Witchypoo

Joined: 9/17/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 1/30/2006 5:22:38 PM
Man o man that sux!!! That happened to me once, only it was his birthday and his ex-girlfriend showed back up and was waiting on his porch for him when he got home from work. How precious is that??? So I traded his B-day present for a ounce of weed.

Also, I got the present..... she's 23 now and the light of my life when I don't want to kill her. As for the ounce of weed??? I didn't know I was expecting at the time.

Cheer up..... you could be pregnant.

:))
 les25

Joined: 10/18/2005
Msg: 17
THE WORST BIRTHDAY EVER
Posted: 1/30/2006 9:31:39 PM
yes that is soooo, true. thanks you made me feel better.
 ITALBOY27

Joined: 10/23/2005
Msg: 18
THE WORST BIRTHDAY EVER
Posted: 1/30/2006 10:20:44 PM
what a jerk! he sounds like a player,dont worry about it sweetie your very beautiful and you can do much better,no need to get even,better he did it now than a year down the road that would hurt more.
 harmony50

Joined: 4/10/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 1/30/2006 10:36:21 PM
Hello Les25:

There are no victims and every situation (especially an apparent set back) has some precious life wisdom in it for us to distil and then move forward on higher.

You might not see it at the moment but you were just gifted an upgrade opportunity and you would likely miss that opportunity if you were sidetracked with giving your energy and thoughts to revenge and not looking for opportunity.

The sweetest revenge in a situation like this is to genuinely be happy and in love..

Look for some of that baby...
 Country flava*109*

Joined: 1/11/2006
Msg: 20
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Posted: 1/31/2006 10:51:55 AM
This hairdo41 lady is a ****in nut. He probobley cheated on you cause your a over needy super jelous ****. Tooth picks in the door.... okay grade 6.
 hairdo41

Joined: 1/10/2005
Msg: 21
THE WORST BIRTHDAY EVER
Posted: 1/31/2006 2:14:01 PM
Hey Flava...did I bring back memories for ya....Don't be mad at me .....I think what you called me was at least third grade??????.......and by the way...Have a wonderful day.
 calgarychick

Joined: 1/22/2006
Msg: 22
THE WORST BIRTHDAY EVER
Posted: 1/31/2006 2:29:47 PM
I say...forget about revenge!!! Be very grateful that you found out now about him!
I had the very same thing happen to me...but it was on Christmas Day. It hurt but life goes on my friend!
 les25

Joined: 10/18/2005
Msg: 23
THE WORST BIRTHDAY EVER
Posted: 2/4/2006 9:12:18 PM
yes i have moved on...i'm over what's his name. thanks for the advice.
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