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Posted: 1/28/2006 10:39:40 PM | alright this might sound dumb or ****y but whatever it,s on my mind.
I,ve lived all over this country save for the both costes.
why is it that in ontario manitoba BC. a fair share of the girls seem to have atleast one or two stories either involving being hit or raped by some guy. either a guy they thought was their friend or otherwise.
most men in this province. either big city or small. they seem firndlier to your face but they also seem much more deceitfull. I see a real lack of character balls heart and strenght in the men hear. are all alberta boys weak cowerdly ****es that need to hurt women and kids.
why is it my cousin and all the friends I,ve met in red deer have atleast 1 or 2 ****ed up tales to tell. calgary and edmonton are no different.
since moving out hear I find the females much more trusting less deceitfull and fairly naieve. (if that isnt spelled right sue me). and the guys out here though at first glance seem friendl;y are much more likely to nail a passed out drunk chick hit their girlfriends or kids and genneraly seem much less mature and responsible than their eastern or western counter parts. the only guy friends I have incalgary are dudes that werent born hear. I,ve spent many a teary night with my princess my cousin and her frinds and other girls I know. listening to them spill their guts out about things that have happend in this province.
do I have to personally kick every alberta boys teeth in or am I a magnet for women that have been hurt???
ps. every alberta boy I,ve met wether he's big small works out boc=xes or does karate. whatever.
so far they've all been complete ****es. no character liars. no heart no balls. just bully's that like to talk. am I wrong about this place or do I need to start being allot meaner tovery dude that crosses my path.
so far I like the ladies hear.
boys so far. except for those born elsewhere.
you make me sick. your not even men. grow up fight a man not a girl or a little kid.
if your pissed try and take it out on a guy like me. someone who has the heart and will to fight.
your girl and kids ahouldnt bour target.
unless some of you guysre ****es to.
either way if I ever hear a story about some guy getting to grabby with my girl.
his mother will get peices of him in the mail for years.
start living with some character and dignity. if I,m wrong prove it so.
but I dont think I am.
most of you boys are just that. boys. old childern trying to get over whatever happend in the past. leave it there. dont turn the gun on those close to you. your girl. your kid. turn the gun on those that have it coming. turn it on yourself. not those that care and worry and hurt and love you. even if they piss you off theyre the ones in your corner.
boys. even if you cant. try and act like men whenever possible.
it makes the few of us that try and live with some measure of dignity and respect for others look that much better.
mabey it' just me but most of the alberta boys are complete cowards. no heart all talk cant handle themselves if theyre mothers lives depended on it. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2006 10:45:32 PM | Wow... I didn't even read most of your post... but I get the drift that you attract trouble.
Maybe an attitude check would be in order.
But good luck | |
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Posted: 1/28/2006 10:49:59 PM | ya I kind of get that attitude allot.
all I can really say is that I hear allot more bullshit in this province than anywhere else in canada. is it the guys or are the girls more decitfull than I had thought. either way there are some problems in this province that need to be handled one way or another.
if you go after someone weaker tha yourself your aint shit but a bully.
if you act like such sooner or later you'll get whats coming.
I think it's time for allot of the guys hear to grow up.
or the girls need to stop playing the victim. either way there is a much darker underbelly to this province than the other ones.
I,m not really trying to cause anything. people tell me I,m a cocky asshole but I dont really care.
my point is that certain problems seem to be more prevalent hear than the rest of the country.
what the fuck gives. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2006 10:54:18 PM | | What I read [or was able to decipher] was that women inOntario, Manitoba and BC have more stories of being hurt...but the vehemence is aimed at Albertans. While the anger is reasonable, it's no better than those causing it if it's aimed at every Alberta male. Yes, you attract hurt women. That's not hard to do and in some ways a good thing. On the other hand, you're obviously hanging out with the wrong crowd if you're only meeting hurt women or the guys that hurt them. Don't blame everyone else because of your bad choice of company. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2006 11:05:31 PM | No... they're not more prevalent in Alberta than anywhere else... if you dig deep enough, you find dirt where-ever you go...
And well said Mob... thank you. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2006 11:08:17 PM | mabey some people should ask around a bit.
mabey I do sound stupid.
but I bet if you take the time to speak to someone close to you you will find something along the lines of what I speak of. regardless of what some think.
the men out hear I trust much less the women slightly more.
either way that doesnt say much.
if someone says dont touch me.
dont ****ing touch them. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2006 11:10:13 PM | | As a woman who loves living in Alberta - I'm offended by the attitude you have towards men in Alberta. Where you live has nothing to do with the quality of person you are! There's A** holes and losers everywhere - and there's lots of good people, too. Get off of your negative streak and try and see the good in life. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2006 11:14:23 PM | I deal with violent men/women or situations that have involved domestic violence almost daily. Does not matter where you come from. There are abusive people whereever you live. Its good that you will not put up with people that are abusive and are able to listen to people that have and its a hard things for women and children to experience. However, you cannot differentiate between where women and men come from. Domestic Violence and any kind of violence is everywhere.
I am originally from Manitoba... and there is just as many ***holes there as here. If you know of people that are hurt by there partners its important that they receive help ie: counselling, pressing charges, calling family violence etc.
In society.. drugs, alcohol and upbringing all play a part in how people are treated.
There is also help out there for those that are abusers! | |
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Posted: 1/28/2006 11:15:24 PM | Hey, it's the blukat. How you doing there sweet stuff?
8)
*a desparate attempt to turn the tide of gloominess that seems to have enveloped the forum*
*hugs*
Edit: Holy moly I am slow posting tonight | |
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Posted: 1/28/2006 11:25:57 PM | @ Froggy
Borrow my decoder ring... I started losing IQ points a third of the way threw that garbage... perhaps you can finish up for me... Apperently Vanilla Ice is alive and kicking and he has brought his shit kicking boots to Alberta to teach all us men that cross his path a lesson...
I have never seen a more stereo typed thread out there... wow, cannot believe I would see this in an Alberta...
PS - Does anyone know if the UFC fighting tryout are coincidentally in Alberta... *shrugs* | |
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Posted: 1/28/2006 11:31:16 PM | lol thanks ^^ mohibor.. and just about laughs! I sense he is exerting too much****ness for his ignorance... and also needs to experience the real world a little more ;) | |
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Posted: 1/28/2006 11:38:15 PM | look at it lie this.
talk to someone (preferably a female) living in alberta. than talk to another living somewhere else. just about anywhere else. I can almost guarntee you the girl in alberta will be the one with the sob story.
mabey it's because over the last couple of weeks I've heard some rather ****ed up storys about a couple of girls close to me. mabey it's because of what I hear about guys I've met who seemed like good guys at first.
all I can safely say is that it seems to me the dudes out hear (not all of them it may sound like I,m generalizing but I,m only really talking about the people I,ve met)
seem more the type to nail some passed out drunk girl or slip something into her drink than people I,ve met elsewhere what I,ve heard over the last little while makes me sick. wether it's hear or elsewhere wether I souind dumb or not. at the very least your probably thinking.
dont look so much at the****ness.
think of your mother your sister or your girlfriend. than think of some idiot getting mad or grabby. think of some goof deciding she's his property instead of a person. this probably doesnt sound right coming from a guy period.
mabey people just keep more tight lipped mabey people are scared to report things out hear.
but from my experience ( not long but extensive) in this province.
most of the guys (not all but most of the ones I've met) seem to think they have something coming to them simply because. if they dont get it one way or another they'll try and take it.
just so long as who they take it from cant fight back.
mabey I,m an idiot and this type of thing doesnt happen the way it appears to me.
but I bet if you ask around enough it does.
and so far I havent heard half the storys of abuse anywhere else that I've heard hear.
havent seen friendlier people anywhere else mind you. I just think there seems to be a ****ed up under belly hear that people need to start talking about instead of ignoring.
or every person in every town big or small I meet is a liar.
look past the pissed off rambling and look at the issue | |
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Posted: 1/28/2006 11:41:16 PM | | Start hanging around other people with less drama in their lives. The weirdo quotient isn't any higher here than anywhere else. It's where and who you are spending time with. | |
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Posted: 1/28/2006 11:42:48 PM | Yeah I just came back from a date tonight... and man did I lay the boots to her... damn women, had the nerve to talk... and there was no way I was going to let the reputation of Alberta guys and being ***holes slip...
Dude, this is a ridiculous thread... just like you said "stories" can you imagine if they were giving you a nickel for everyone they told you was true... you would have 45 cents, just do not spend it all in one place...
There are 3 sides to every story... Theres, his, and the truth... so consider the source, get off the soap box and quit generalizing... | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 12:23:56 AM | alright this probably came off the wrong way.
what can I say shit does when I,m pissed.
I,ve got a more to the point post in the advice forum. check it out if you care.
see what I,m getting at | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 12:32:18 AM | all i can say is.................How the hell do you expect us to take you seriously?
A little jaded maybe?
I've travelled too and you have'nt seen anything, try a third world country, then tell me
if people from this province are so bad...........maybe it's just me but........? | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 1:06:32 AM | Yes, yes, you're right, it does indeed sound really stupid.
I honestly think the thing is...that you've obviously gotten yourself mixed up with some pretty fcuked up people since you've been in Alberta and are generalizing on the entire population based on your limited experience.
I am from BC and can tell you first hand that no, the guys here are no worse than out west and no, the woman are no more messed up. | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 1:35:54 AM | I'm glad you guys understood what he was trying to get at, I read the first to paragraphs and gave up, since for some odd reason what he was saying didn't even sound like english to me. or even broken english and go figure I usually understnd broken english pretty well  | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 2:05:17 AM | | To be honest, I couldnt' read most of it either...but just enough to get the point of it. | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 6:00:17 AM | Yes, you ARE a magnet for women that get hurt and the losers that surround them
BIRDS OF A FEATHER FLOCK TOGETHER
edit: By the way, I'm a born & raised Calgarian, lived here all my life (most of my adult life single) and I've never been assaulted in any way and neither has any of the women I know) | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 6:49:43 AM | Perhaps the reason all you see and hear is negative - is because that's all you want to see and hear. Get over the generalizations and crap and move on. If you dwell on bad things that's what you draw to yourself. It sounds like you're getting something out of the sob stories you're hearing. You can't always be the shoulder to cry on. It becomes too draining.
Everybody's got a story about something bad that happened to thema t some point and time in their life. They either play the victim or they deal with it, move on, accept it as part of their past and become stronger for it. | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 7:06:44 AM | I do hear what you're saying, and I felt exactly the same way when I was in my 20's in Saskatoon, listening to some of the stories the girls had.
I know now that I was an angry guy to begin with, and that bad feelings are like magnets, they attract eachother.
If you really want to help, I found it's better to just 'be there,' as they say. Compassion and simple attention will go a long way to rebuilding self worth.
And there's nothing stupid about it, just human... | |
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Posted: 1/29/2006 8:31:43 AM | [Does not matter where you come from. There are abusive people whereever you live]
Exactly! It's highly dependent on socio-economic background and upbringing - did they see their mother/father being abused as a child? Is that what they now see as a norm for treatment of people in their lives? You get help, giver or receiver of the abuse, and break the cycle. You don't put yourself into situations where abuse will follow.
To say that any one province breeds abusive a$$holes is to say that the borders are closed, and you can't move across the country. People move! And they bring their backgrounds with them... | |
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