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 1nonlyluv

Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 1
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 4:48:21 PM
I've been seeing 2 men at once and I love both in different ways of course. I consider both very good friends. What do you do if you fall in love in both?
 flirty_sunshine24

Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 2
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can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 4:50:39 PM
ill let u know when i figure it out...lol .. i know im falin in luv with one and not in love with one anymore in that romantic way so im just as confused...lol srry i can't help..
 Funny_Girl

Joined: 10/27/2005
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can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 4:51:26 PM
You chop your head off cause you don't deserve to live, lol!

OK, that said, I would never let it go that far. In fact, I wouldn't be able to. I'm a one on one kind of lover.
 CrazyApples

Joined: 1/28/2006
Msg: 4
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 4:56:07 PM
Of course you can! It's called having a threesome!
 eye4truth

Joined: 10/1/2005
Msg: 5
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can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 4:56:37 PM
Ok now a 80's song is coming to my head. You give love a bad name? lol
2 timing is not very nice eeesh.
 funtexan

Joined: 1/4/2006
Msg: 6
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 5:03:46 PM
I once had a guy tell me he loved me and another- it's bull. You have to be able to tell the difference between true love and "everything else". If you truly are in love with someone- then you would only have eyes for them- there are lots of other feelings that you can have but it's not love. I hope you figure it out before you lose both!!
 1nonlyluv

Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 7
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 5:04:02 PM
Yes sweet heart i do deserve to live and beathe the air that you are useing up. You just find 2 men that would want you at the same time. You are probably not a good enough lover to take of 2 men anyhow
 Lexy47

Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 8
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 5:05:58 PM
Don't know...I'm having a hard enough time falling for one...much less two..lol
 eye4truth

Joined: 10/1/2005
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Posted: 1/29/2006 5:10:40 PM
my bad lol 2 at once oh ok. Hey whatever floats your boat I guess.
 TheatreCat

Joined: 1/28/2006
Msg: 10
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 5:16:36 PM
you can love 2 people... in different ways. People have different aspects that you can really value in your life.

But you'll be sorry if you act before you choose which one you want.

There are so many people in this world, it's kind of silly not to think that you might get along REALLY well with more than more person.

The bad thing is, society tells us to choose one and only one, so you had better know what you want and choose very very wisely.
 Waiting41

Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 11
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 5:24:22 PM
CAN you love two people at once? Why of course you can. There are NO rules for this feeling we call "love". Once this happens, just be sure to change your screenname.
 1nonlyluv

Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 1/29/2006 5:33:38 PM
dear waiting i didn,t have this problem when started my screen name but I guess i go to 2 for 1 how is that?
 Riggity

Joined: 3/17/2004
Msg: 13
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 5:41:02 PM
1nonlyluv ,

Boy, I guess you can't wait to get home and watch the Love Boat! You must have a real passion for people, and if you follow that logic, Mother Teresa should have been the biggest hore in Calcuta..

I'm pretty disapointed at the quality of women us men are having sex with these days..
 Waiting41

Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 14
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 5:42:20 PM
2for1 is good and just adjust it as needed. Feelings are feelings. They come from the heart. Relax. You will get through this. I believe all things happen for a reason. Enjoy!!
 havana_joe

Joined: 7/30/2005
Msg: 15
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 5:43:02 PM
Yes... you can love two people at once... The notion that love is only for one person- I just don't buy it... Kind of like the notion of a "soulmate"... It's amazing that 90% of the world finds their "soulmate" within about 30 miles from home...
 Waiting41

Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 16
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 5:44:10 PM
We women are pretty disappointed with you men also and that's why sometimes it takes two of you and sometimes more to equal one GOOD man.
 Riggity

Joined: 3/17/2004
Msg: 17
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Posted: 1/29/2006 5:51:01 PM
havana_joe,

Here's another interesting fact...

9% of the population is, raised, educated, and live their entire life within a 50 mile raduis of where they were born.
 havana_joe

Joined: 7/30/2005
Msg: 18
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 5:52:13 PM
That's interesting... I know I'M stuck where I was born... (sigh)
 1nonlyluv

Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 19
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 5:59:12 PM
Thank you Joe some of us have a lot of love to give
 sammysalt1

Joined: 12/17/2005
Msg: 20
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 6:03:43 PM
I would never do that to someone. When you love someone 100% they are all you want. Are you sure its love, and not lust. Maybe its a form, but is it the true kind.
 SWEET CHEROKEE

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 21
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Posted: 1/29/2006 6:10:05 PM
You can love alot of people at the same time but I believe "being in love " with two different people at the same time...NO FREAKIN WAY! People are lucky if they ever find them selves "in love" and it only happens once in a lifetime if it's real..."love" happens all the time.
 Riggity

Joined: 3/17/2004
Msg: 22
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 6:13:32 PM
havana_joe,


doh! That's 90% LOL!!
 havana_joe

Joined: 7/30/2005
Msg: 23
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 6:16:24 PM
riggity-

Yeah... I thought so!
 SWEET CHEROKEE

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 24
can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 6:17:20 PM
1nonlyluv...hope I don't see ya on the Jerry Springer show...becareful girl....it can cause a whole lot of problems!
 zentral

Joined: 10/30/2005
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can you love 2 people at once
Posted: 1/29/2006 6:41:05 PM
People spout these myths about love as if they were truth: soulmates, one and only love, etc. No wonder there are so many failed relationships and bad decisions. Yes, you can love more than one person at a time, but each love is going to be a bit different.

Think about it: can you love more than one child if you have several? Do you love only one of your parents? This isn't so different, really, but society conditions us to accept one way of doing things, and only that way - everything else is considered wrong, but is not necessarily wrong.
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