| Did i mention " the sex was amaising???"
Posted: 1/31/2006 12:48:53 AM | Hello to all,
Ok this could take a while.......
I met this guy about three months ago. My friends and i got stuck out in the wilderness,and so did the guy im confused about... We had an instant connection, knew what each other was thinking, and completely turned on by eachother. Two problems stood in the way of perfect bliss....
His best friend who was hitting on me the entire evening..
and his common law wife.
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A couple of days after being stranded, i learned that his wife left. I and a friend for his friend went to his house....in short.... he and i had amaising sex. and afterwords cuddled like we had known eachother for ever.
a few days pass..... Upon the realizeation.. that he was not misserable without her. his wife returnes.....she plays all the games from, i love you, lets have sex.. to your not getting anything and you wont be able to see your kid...
dispite this we continued to see eachother, a month passes.. and he decides to try with his wife, admitidly out of the guilt that was placed on him, the fear of not being able to see his child and loosing everything.
I dont see him or speek to him, during this time his friend, the one who was hitting on me, now my close friend ( i thought) mooves in and attempts to sleep with me, saying that he cares and the guy i like does not... I decline and stay away for fear of ruining any further possabilities with the guy i like...
A month passes and out of the blue he calls me and asks if i could come over, i try to resist but cant. When i got there io found out that he had left his wife a week prior, and was staying with his friend, the one that was trying to moove in on me. We have the best sex either one of us have ever had. cuddled for the evening while sharing our thoughts of eachother. A few days pass and i come to learn that he was going back east for a couple of weeks through christmas, we talk for hours about how much he likes me and what we were going to do upon his return, actually dating eachother, a real couple. I i wait patiently, happily 1 2... weeks... 3...4 weeks no contact with him, i thought he should have his space... he returnes, calls me and tells me he met someone and actualy brought them back with him. I was crushed, he said that he didnt think that i would care and that he was unaware of how i felt, he thought we could all hang out together , (sure....) I too a tay to regroup, then called him, i asked if we could meet, making it clear that i did not want to meet the other person who was now living hith both he and his friend.
we sat in the car infront of the house for over an hour. I come to find that his friend had made me out to be a relationship hunting ball and chain premiscuouse person who cant be trusted... this was cleared up through conversation, he said that the stow away he brought home was a toy, and that it had only bin two weeks and he was already going nuts.... he also mentioned that he was afraid of me because he did like and want to be with me , but refuses to get hurt. we laughed and flirted and blushed.. he said upon leaving that this girl wouldnt be there for long and that we would get together shortly. Thats the last i have heard from him, im sure that his friend is continuing to sabotage while we are apart, ( deleating messages i have left etc....) at one point he suggested that i come over to the house and hang out with him in his room away from the guy i like and the stow away, because " no matter what, we are still friends, "and he cared about me.......
Help what do i do, everytime i call the friend interceps the phone and runs into the room with it, i cant even contact the guy i like, to reassure him of any other conceptions planted.... I dont know if he even knows i have tried to contact him.
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PS. have you ever met someone who you have no reason to want to be with except.... you know the two of you met for a cosmic purpose, and were ment to be together...
"THE ONE"???? Ive bin single for over two years, i dont settle, or have even liked someone past a friendship......
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:00:32 AM | | I dont want to hurt your feelings and tell you something yo udon't want to hear but it sounds to me like this guy is a total player. He was married, maybe not happy and he sleeps with you.Then he goes off for awhile sleeping with who knows who then comes back to you. Leaves again, and brings back some other girl.Tells you lines like she doesen't matter to me etc. In my opnion he's in it for the sex and the sex only. You are an attractive women. Move on. Find a guy who is monogomous | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:06:34 AM | first of all
anyone claiming to have read your entire
diatribe is a liar...
i read the first four lines
and wanted to kill myself
what are you thinking???
i looked at your pics
i think i remember that you look cute
good lord
keep it short sweatheart
LIFE
is too short for whatever that was...
seriously | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:07:15 AM | | Sounds like WAY too much drama...say that you haven't dated in years and such...maybe because you're finding the rotten apples! You could do much better, don't waste your heart on the rotting, find someone fresh and sweet! Best of luck to you! | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:07:21 AM | Yes that did cross my mind and trust me it would be easier if i knew thta to be true....
but i know that he never cheated onhis wife through his relationship,
he did wait a week or so befor contacting me the last time, and was actualy mooved out,
and was very angry with me before i clarifed the missconceptions his friend placed.
and he is totaly beat down, there couldnt be a player in him right now, he barely has a personality anymore and has absolutely no real clue who he is.... | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:09:14 AM | BillinAH.....
That's true it's just way to dam long to read, especialy at 3:06am.
Why is this fourm even OPEN for topic, nobody acturly cares about
another's sex life. | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:19:02 AM | OK
IN short
Met a guy in a very strange way.....
Instant attraction....
was married.
wife left....
great sex......
he went back .........
he left, going through divorce....... papers filed the whole bit
great sex....lol
goes away to his home town
b4 leaving expresses excitement about starting a relationship....cant wait to return
returns with other girl
come to find he was lead to belive things that were untrue by friend , now roommate. Who subsequently wnats me to be with him rather than friend...
doesnt realy like the other girl
does not want to get hurt
wants to try with me, after he clears up his present situation..
friend roommate still sabotaging
and i cant get ahold of him, messages errased by roommate, etc.... | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:20:57 AM | lmao..
true
i mean
the subject
did i mention the sex was amazing
if it was soooo amazing
what the hell are you doing on here
sheeeesh
well
i will disagree on one point
SADLY
people do care about other peoples sex life
which is pathetic
but hey, who are we to say?!?!??!
lol
if it was 11:02am
i would still rather read the obituaries LOL
i'm sorry
i told myself i wouldn't be the negative
dip sh$$ guy
but good lord
anyway
sweet dreams to all | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:23:59 AM | BROKEN: Really all that much else out there to read right now? (Please let me know if there is!!!)
TALLY: Probably don't want to involve yourself with someone in that situation then...no relationship can last if one doesn't have a sense of themself...or hasn't found themself. Never good for a relationship unless you both know who you are and what you want... | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:25:38 AM | arrggg..another OTHER woman whining thread...grr you knew he was a snake when you put him in your pocket!
Good thing I don't use the word stupid. | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:26:48 AM | I love when women go trolling for attention and the drama that comes with it is so amusing 
Sounded like I was talking to a 16 year old good god ....... | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:29:47 AM | Sorry i wasn't trying to be disrespectful to her or anybody else just getting late, and i can not seem to sleep.
I've browsed through alot of people's fourm's on here just see, whats going on or new with them.
And right now it's like nothing's comming in clear i can not, seem to sleep right now or
even think clearly right now.
(i've been up sense about (yesterday)2pm-3:26am(today) | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:36:52 AM | :)
lol okay thank's just some people would, take it as being disrespectful or rude.
I'm going to go smoke a cigg it's 3:33am i'll be, back in a second. | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:37:10 AM | Indigo...
If you could just GROWL.....
a few more times
that would be great
lmao
sorry
i just like it when women GROWL..
I'LL behave :(
or NOT
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:39:32 AM | chill
some people will always judge
if you didn't mean it that way
then don't worry about it
:)
we all have a right to our opinion
that is what this forum thing is all about | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:47:55 AM | tally...
sorry if i seem like a jerk
you are too pretty
if that is in fact you
to put up with that crap
nobody actually
should have to put up with that
at your age...
good lord you have too many options
get over it
get over him
tk | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 1:58:15 AM | Even for a female she is real attractive and i don't see why, she would have such a hard time.
She deserves somebody will treat her with the respect and LOVE that, she deserves. | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 2:03:55 AM | everybody has their own oppion's and the freedom to, speak their mind.
Is there an "fourm" that discusses boyfriend's being, locked up and not being\
back home until 15 or 20 years?...
I was just wondering because i'm in that cateogory (whatever) now, because
i am pregnant our baby is due april 2nd and he's in jail over his job N such..
But i've notice alot of people like to BLURT out stuff, before they hear your story. | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 2:05:06 AM | BROKEN: Wasn't implying disrespect...just was REALLY curious!!!! (Check and if not, start a new thread)...
I just can't believe that people so easily through away relationships/marriages these days!!!! MIND blowing!!! | |
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| Did i mention the sex was amaising???
Posted: 1/31/2006 2:05:18 AM | You keep saying sex is amazing, we all know that, but it is only the icing on the cake, the bloke is going through a separation which means his head is most likely screwed up and you are offering him comfort on a plate!
Be there for him but help him sort out the mess first, Regards this so called mate confront the trouble causer in front of his mate. Get this wrong and you end up hurt as well as him, his wife and kid , get it right and you and him could end up together. | |
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