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| so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest Posted: 1/31/2006 3:22:02 PM | With all due respect , it's time to ditch the zero and date a real hero . Being played happens to even the best of us , that's just part of life, accept it and move on , you are still young and i doubt you'll have any problems meeting the right guy. | |
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| so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest Posted: 1/31/2006 3:46:44 PM | Hey it is called learning a lession of life !! And for one thing theres a few rules most singles should always stick by with anyone they meet. And at the top of everyones singles rule list should be >>>> #1/never spend the night on the fist date with anyone !! Well I guess everyone is gonna tell you to kick him to the curb !! Hey I will never tell someone what they should or should not do when it comes to their love life ! What you should do is get off the bloody computer and figure this probblem out your self . As sure everyone on here will give you their two cents worth of what they would do ! But they are not involved and have nothing too Loose or one of those who ends up with a sad heart or feeling down ! So take it from me and don't go rushing into a decision based on what your hearing from everyone on here !! So thats all I could ever tell anyone . FIRMBEAR8 | |
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nelli5
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| so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest Posted: 2/1/2006 1:24:35 PM | Never thought i'd say this but i agree with the dude. What was the lie? Was it i'm a size 10 (but really a 12) or was it i'm straight but really gay????
I doubt very much that there is a person alive who hasn't lied at one point in their life. It's about the degree of the lie and the amount of hurt that could be caused by it??? | |
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| so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest Posted: 2/1/2006 2:52:56 PM | Just like me to kill a thread i see....well i really still beleive pass judgement after facts.....not based on three lines...like ya lets just throw everyone under the bus ....why not its what pofers do right?
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| so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest Posted: 2/1/2006 3:15:08 PM | Poutine_dude, I can certainly attest to 'Been there, Done that' with regards to people lying (especially here on POF). Like ARML said "Was it i'm a size 10 (but really a 12)"? or was it something more serious like a defamation? or a lie of omission that could cost a person their life?
I will risk my own neck here, and agree with you that every person is entitled to equal time if they are being talked about negatively. That said, I am curious what 'type' of lying any of you would choose to draw the "kick to the curb" line at? 
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| so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest Posted: 2/1/2006 3:39:22 PM | How about when he says "I love you" but what he really is saying is "I dont think I ever loved you" Or "I want to spend the rest of my life with you" when he really means "as long as it is doesnt get complicated" Or "Your body makes me quiver" when he really means "your body repulses me" Or "I will stand by you in anything" when he really means "Yeah right" Or the best yet "my kids are more important than anything and your kids mean nothing"
What happens when you find this all out after spending 8 months with someone and was commited to that relationship no matter what??????
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| so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest Posted: 2/1/2006 4:08:43 PM | Bunny .. get rid of him ...
I was with someone who was not honest from Day 1 ... ended things when I found out .. I hate liars ... I was a little brutal about it .. lol .. I opened up to him as a "friend" about a month or so later when I had cooled off ... and yet again ... few months go by and I find out he still has not and isn't being honest ... once a liar .. always a liar. | |
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DKD15
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| so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest Posted: 2/3/2006 8:38:16 AM | My mother always said, it's o.k. as long as you know what someone is. If they're a thief, you hide the good silver, if they are a liar, you will always wonder though. It's the old cried wolf story.  | |
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