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 bunnybaby_81

Joined: 4/25/2005
Msg: 1
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so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 1/31/2006 3:11:54 PM
here i am 9 months later and the lie comes up again and turns out i was right.

what to do when you are with a liar?
 _Enigma_

Joined: 2/26/2005
Msg: 2
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 1/31/2006 3:13:24 PM
kick him/her to the curb
just like cheaters, once a cheater always a cheater
 My_Island

Joined: 12/10/2005
Msg: 3
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 1/31/2006 3:13:40 PM
Hop on the bus gus... set yourself free.
 Carri3

Joined: 12/9/2005
Msg: 4
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 1/31/2006 3:14:21 PM
three letters for you

R U N
 Dr_Malcolm

Joined: 8/14/2004
Msg: 5
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 1/31/2006 3:14:40 PM
No offence, but do you really need to ask?

Liars need a good firm booting...to the curb!
 whotookmyname

Joined: 7/11/2005
Msg: 6
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 1/31/2006 3:14:57 PM
clean out your trunk , lay plastic down and buy a shovel =] heh
 Caressa45

Joined: 3/26/2005
Msg: 7
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 1/31/2006 3:17:52 PM
The liar lied to you 9 months ago and you stayed with the liar? Hopefully this will be a good lesson for you, good luck in the future.
 The-Callebrese-Kid

Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 8
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 1/31/2006 3:22:02 PM
With all due respect , it's time to ditch the zero and date a real hero . Being played happens to even the best of us , that's just part of life, accept it and move on , you are still young and i doubt you'll have any problems meeting the right guy.
 FirmBear8

Joined: 5/30/2004
Msg: 9
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 1/31/2006 3:46:44 PM
Hey it is called learning a lession of life !!
And for one thing theres a few rules most singles should always stick by with anyone they meet.
And at the top of everyones singles rule list should be >>>>
#1/never spend the night on the fist date with anyone !!
Well I guess everyone is gonna tell you to kick him to the curb !!
Hey I will never tell someone what they should or should not do when it comes to their love life !
What you should do is get off the bloody computer and figure this probblem out your self .
As sure everyone on here will give you their two cents worth of what they would do !
But they are not involved and have nothing too Loose or one of those who ends up with a sad heart or feeling down ! So take it from me and don't go rushing into a decision based on what your hearing from everyone on here !!
So thats all I could ever tell anyone .
FIRMBEAR8
 forgiven

Joined: 1/29/2006
Msg: 10
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 1/31/2006 4:31:02 PM
Walk away and never look back, there not worth the pain and heartache
 Soul_Mates

Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 11
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so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 1/31/2006 5:20:30 PM
Liars never seem to change and the best way to stop them from lying to you is to no longer communicate with them.

good luck!
 nelli5

Joined: 12/5/2005
Msg: 12
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 2/1/2006 1:19:26 PM
Well Honey, you must be true to yourself! and figure out what that is! Your tur colours will shine! Trust me!! Lot's of Luv
 le poutine dude

Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 13
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 2/1/2006 1:21:54 PM
um depends on what he lied about like wtf?? lets just kick em all when there not here to protect themselves wow just listen to u pofers crazy!!!!!



 Any real men left??

Joined: 1/26/2006
Msg: 14
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Posted: 2/1/2006 1:24:35 PM
Never thought i'd say this but i agree with the dude. What was the lie? Was it i'm a size 10 (but really a 12) or was it i'm straight but really gay????

I doubt very much that there is a person alive who hasn't lied at one point in their life. It's about the degree of the lie and the amount of hurt that could be caused by it???
 Sole Survivor

Joined: 11/27/2005
Msg: 15
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 2/1/2006 1:24:41 PM
Make him see the bottom of your nike's/shoes
 le poutine dude

Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 16
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 2/1/2006 1:28:22 PM
see the dude does make sense some times..... so like pofers ....before passing judgement....look for more facts....


 le poutine dude

Joined: 1/2/2006
Msg: 17
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 2/1/2006 2:52:56 PM
Just like me to kill a thread i see....well i really still beleive pass judgement after facts.....not based on three lines...like ya lets just throw everyone under the bus ....why not its what pofers do right?

my 2 cents



 jayman905

Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 18
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 2/1/2006 3:15:08 PM
Poutine_dude, I can certainly attest to 'Been there, Done that' with regards to people lying (especially here on POF).
Like ARML said "Was it i'm a size 10 (but really a 12)"? or was it something more serious like a defamation? or a lie of omission that could cost a person their life?

I will risk my own neck here, and agree with you that every person is entitled to equal time if they are being talked about negatively.
That said, I am curious what 'type' of lying any of you would choose to draw the "kick to the curb" line at?

My own 2 cents here
 samthebritgirl

Joined: 11/6/2005
Msg: 19
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 2/1/2006 3:39:22 PM
How about when he says "I love you" but what he really is saying is "I dont think I ever loved you"
Or "I want to spend the rest of my life with you" when he really means "as long as it is doesnt get complicated"
Or "Your body makes me quiver" when he really means "your body repulses me"
Or "I will stand by you in anything" when he really means "Yeah right"
Or the best yet "my kids are more important than anything and your kids mean nothing"


What happens when you find this all out after spending 8 months with someone and was commited to that relationship no matter what??????



Sam
 Northy2

Joined: 10/31/2005
Msg: 20
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 2/1/2006 4:08:43 PM
Bunny .. get rid of him ...

I was with someone who was not honest from Day 1 ... ended things when I found out .. I hate liars ... I was a little brutal about it .. lol .. I opened up to him as a "friend" about a month or so later when I had cooled off ... and yet again ... few months go by and I find out he still has not and isn't being honest ... once a liar .. always a liar.
 DKD15

Joined: 4/18/2005
Msg: 21
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 2/1/2006 4:47:42 PM
bunny your a really atractive lady, I am sure if you kick this guy to the curb you will find someone beter and who will repsect you more.
 Catch A Star

Joined: 10/17/2005
Msg: 22
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so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 2/3/2006 8:38:16 AM
My mother always said, it's o.k. as long as you know what someone is. If they're a thief, you hide the good silver, if they are a liar, you will always wonder though. It's the old cried wolf story.
 forgiven

Joined: 2/2/2006
Msg: 23
so i get lied to when i give him a chance to be honest
Posted: 2/3/2006 8:43:37 AM

Make him see the bottom of your nike's/shoes


what if she don't have a pair of nikes?
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