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 pjoiuhiopunhpij

Joined: 1/30/2006
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Posted: 2/1/2006 7:07:29 AM
I sometimes have a tendency when having sex to make women fall in "love" with me. Even if it was just supposed to be a F*ck. The interesting thing is sometimes women become so emotionally caught up in the experience that they start crying hysterically. It freaked me out at first, but now I love it. But I'm not intentionally trying to get anybody emotionally caught up with me from my sex unless I have feelings for her, because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. So has this ever happened to anyone or has anyone else cried during sex? And why did it happen? Do you think that's weird or something is wrong with that?
 leeroybrowwn

Joined: 9/26/2005
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Posted: 2/1/2006 7:12:46 AM
i had my ex cry during sex and i wasnt sure why at the time! but i found out latter that she was ****in around on me with another guy! so i think during the sex she was thinking of her experience and then came the tears ! what a **** ! we're not together any more but i spent 8 years with her! i do realize now that i wasnt in love with her i was just in love with ****ing her ! but yeh she cryed ! but it was only cuz she felt so guilty! she was such a sleeze!
 pjoiuhiopunhpij

Joined: 1/30/2006
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Posted: 2/1/2006 7:13:08 AM
Wow. 9 views and no responses. I guess I'm the only one this has happened to. Boy, now do I feel really weird.
 just_Kats

Joined: 12/15/2005
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Posted: 2/1/2006 7:15:34 AM
I can tell you it is possible, if the girl is getting more than she'd ever expect... ;-)
(just experiencing it very deeply, but it doesn't really have to be hysteric lol)
 pjoiuhiopunhpij

Joined: 1/30/2006
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Posted: 2/1/2006 7:17:32 AM
Damn dude. That's f*cked up. Maybe Kind of bittersweet sex for her, knowing her love for you, loving the sex you were giving her, but guilt from knowing she was a Big Cheater or "Sleeze" as you called her. What a complex that had to put on the both of you.
 pjoiuhiopunhpij

Joined: 1/30/2006
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Posted: 2/1/2006 7:18:29 AM
Has it ever happened to you or anyone you know?
 lakelandsm

Joined: 7/25/2004
Msg: 7
Crying During Sex
Posted: 2/1/2006 7:19:27 AM

sometimes have a tendency when having sex to make women fall in "love" with me. Even if it was just supposed to be a F*ck. The interesting thing is sometimes women become so emotionally caught up in the experience that they start crying hysterically. It freaked me out at first, but now I love it. But I'm not intentionally trying to get anybody emotionally caught up with me from my sex unless I have feelings for her, because I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings. So has this ever happened to anyone or has anyone else cried during sex? And why did it happen? Do you think that's weird or something is wrong with that?

The crying HAS happened but it doesnt mean they are falling in love. Although a good strong orgasm will definately make a woman feel closer to you and perhaps that is why the crying.
OR perhaps i was so d a m n awful that they thought OMG I just wasted an hour of my life...

 pjoiuhiopunhpij

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Posted: 2/1/2006 7:22:03 AM
"OR perhaps i was so d a m n awful that they thought OMG I just wasted an hour of my life..." LOL!HA!HA!HA!

 tpink25

Joined: 8/22/2005
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Posted: 2/1/2006 7:26:48 AM
Lake again with your comments!!!!!!!!!!!
 Avow

Joined: 1/3/2006
Msg: 10
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Posted: 2/1/2006 8:36:02 AM
Does this count?....I've cried after sex a couple of times but not during, And you know I'm not sure if it was to express vain regrets for what cannot be recovered or undone....or if it was that damn good but I truly dont think love had anything to do with me shedding tears.

And no I wasn't feeling guilty as I dont cheat.

But its all good as crying removes excess stress-related chemicals from the body and serves the purpose of restoring the body’s chemical balance after a stressful or blissful event has occurred.

So you are actually doing them some good soulsgroan even if they did waste some time on you.
 smitten2meetu

Joined: 11/16/2004
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Posted: 2/1/2006 9:12:26 AM
Never have cried during sex, giggle, laughed, moaned, but never cried ...not today...
 kitkat45

Joined: 6/18/2005
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Posted: 2/1/2006 9:16:43 AM
It has happened to me on the very odd occasion...and I was not in love...just felt so damned good I guess...all my stress left big time!!!!!!! Only done it once and was somewhat embarrased by it...but hey? It can be a natural thing...but I never was hysterical though...that kinda freaks me out!
 lakelandsm

Joined: 7/25/2004
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Posted: 2/1/2006 9:19:42 AM
yeah if they cry hysterically and grab there clothes and start out the door perhaps they feel bad about it.

On the other hand I have not really cried, more of a howl..
wake up the next morning take a look and "OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO" I like to call that a coyote f*ck!
 pjoiuhiopunhpij

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Posted: 2/1/2006 9:26:35 AM
Thank You for your honesty, insight, and knowledge.
Please explain what you mean by regrets for what cannot be recovered or undone? Why would you have regrets if you liked it?

And I wouldn't quite say they wasted time on me...and I know they Definately wouldn't say that! Actually they said quite the opposite!
 pjoiuhiopunhpij

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Posted: 2/1/2006 9:31:19 AM
Thanks for your honesty and sharing.

If love isn't the emotion, then..... I don't think I've ever cried from something being just so damn good...not from physical pleasure... I guess as a man my emotions would have to be seriously connected, like as in love. But I don't think you should be embarassed. If it was real, then it was real. It was what it was and accept and appreciate it.
 pjoiuhiopunhpij

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Posted: 2/1/2006 9:33:44 AM
They didn't head for the door. The women would usually become addicted. Which is good because it means more sex, but not so good if they became emotionally attached and I didn't feel as strongly towards them, because it was supposed to be just a mutual Great F*ck.
 sagegrrl

Joined: 1/9/2006
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Posted: 2/1/2006 9:50:18 AM
sometimes the flood of sex hormones in the brain brings on an emotional release. it doesn't mean she's in love with you.

not all women know that, though.
 pjoiuhiopunhpij

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Posted: 2/1/2006 10:17:58 AM
Yeah, that's why I initially put "love" in quotation marks. Although they sometimes think they're in love.
 Avow

Joined: 1/3/2006
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Posted: 2/1/2006 10:18:56 AM
soulsgroan The wasted time thing I was just going with the other post
OR perhaps i was so d a m n awful that they thought OMG I just wasted an hour of my life



and as to regrets for what cannot be recovered or undone loosing your virginity to someone you never loved = regrets for what cannot be recovered, Having reckless or drunken sex = regrets that cannot be undone.

With that said I wanna do something I'll regret j/k
 *~Shells~*

Joined: 1/8/2006
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Posted: 2/1/2006 10:33:50 AM
On occasion I have been known to get tears in my eyes..

Personally I think it's just because of the change in chemicals/endorphines that my body has rushing thru it..
It's never been because I had "fallen" for the guy that hard.. or that I felt I wasted an hour of my life..

Shells
 Kuddlebum73

Joined: 1/26/2006
Msg: 21
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Posted: 2/1/2006 11:13:03 AM
MMM,,,,had a man do this to me,,,,,,sorry thought he was a bit out of his friggin mind!!!

Cried as to why all women leave him,,welllllll mmm,,,I know why!!!!!!!!!!

And I mean bawl!!!!!!!!!!!

Crying men are fine,,,, there is nothing better than a man showing his feelings,,BUT,,,wow,,this freeked me out!!!! ( and I found out the reason for it all)
 kitkat45

Joined: 6/18/2005
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Posted: 2/1/2006 11:16:56 AM
I have to agree with some of the other posteres on this issue....must be a chemical release for sure....didnt mean love, but just had this overwhelming surge of release! Was awesome to say the least!
 Pablo_F

Joined: 6/6/2005
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Posted: 2/1/2006 11:27:28 AM
I've only cried once.... ok twice but that was because I realized that the condom broke....EEEEEPS!
 the_cello_chic_13

Joined: 1/25/2006
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Posted: 2/1/2006 11:33:23 AM
I cried during sex twice. I don't think my bf really noticed. I don't know why I cried but I can tell you that it wasn't becuase the sex was good.
 Be My Valentine ?

Joined: 12/16/2005
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Posted: 2/1/2006 11:53:12 AM
Gee Souls Not too full of yourself are ya ..LMFAO ...Maybe they are crying cause they cannot love you as much as you love yourself !!!!
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