i am a man, and I give you an absolute truth...
there is no thuth at all !
There are thousands of men, of different types...
1) The men who are very cute, who know it... they just go to the beautifull girls and it works,, or not, depending what the women is looking for (not much plenty of those)
2) the men who are not beautifull but are selfconfident, are charismatic... they go to the beautifull girl, and it works,or not, depending what the women is looking for
3) the men who are self confident, who find every woman in its way... they go to every woman, and it works or not, depending what the women is looking for... if you cross one, you have your chance (but they are very rare ;-)
4) the men who are not self confident and shy... they avoid the first step... If you go to them, they will be so terrified that they will have some stupid reaction, and will never let you know that you are interested - dramatic (i was like that, in a remote past ;-) (a lot of men belong to this category, forever, or at one step of their life)
5)the men who have very high expectations, what ever they look like... they are interested to beautifull girls, but it doesn't work because the same beautifull girls even don't look at them and those men don't look at the chubby girls... (a lot ofmen belong to this category)

For example, one of my best friend is still single at 36, and have even never had even one date. When he had female friends and was intereted in them, he was too paralised to make the first step... Beside that he is only dreaming of top models... the probably few times when he met some and he attempted to speak to one of them, then even diden't notice him... because is himself not a top, although not ugly. If he meets you, he will ignore you... poor damm guy, and poor damm you too: missed occasion

know back to the girls : what makes their beauty is not their body, it's their charm... And it comes from how you smile, how you wear your clothes, how sexy you feel inside, and how you know what your want. Most of the men are basically interested in sex... If you want to attract thhe men, you should be sexy (that means, be ready to do it) If you accept to be adult, having sex and protecting yourself, knowing what you want and why, men will feel it and will be attracted... Then you can have date with several men... You will not find mr right at the first time, but trys 4 or 5, and we will probably find a reasonnably good fellow.

Now, how to make the distinction between the 5 types i described... don't worry there will be an automatic sort. If you are a chubby girl, only type 3 and 4 will try to go to you. Type 3 is very rare, don't count on it. Type 4 is the mostcommon but will never do the first step... Up to you to attack them ! don' wait !
But be ready to find a bunch of type 5 hidden in the type 3... they will reject you. Be ready to 50% of failure when you try to catch a guy. Retry and retry, maybe it will go down to 25% of failure !

Now you are looking for type 1) and 2) : that's simple make the first step, and be ready to a 10% chance of success. That means you will have to try 9 times before to get a positive result... but you will be surprised, once you fish your first top guy, then all the others will fall in your nets... for that you will become selfconfident, and ... charming...

that's only a matter of statistics.

but it's not my fault you pasted a poorly written quote. It's written in a horrible excuse for the english language