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Posted: 2/3/2006 11:21:43 AM | i've been trying to figure it out...
what is you guys want...
there seems no way to win...
if we're nice... we're to nice...
if we're ****es... we're too ****y...
we don't give you sex... too hard to get...
sleep with you... too easy...
aarrghhhh!!! | |
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uk27
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Joined: 11/3/2005
Msg: 2 | |
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Posted: 2/3/2006 12:56:39 PM | | The minute you start thinking - you know what - I don't give a f*ck what guys want. You'll being doing just fine. | |
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Posted: 2/4/2006 4:06:10 PM | exactly.....and it's true...be yourself,,that's it that's alll...i definatly like more a women who's herself than someone who think she's something or someone..it's called complicity...and that's one of my favorite thing....dirty or not...if your not in it for fun, then, you will get deception and vice-versa ;-)....
BTW: thats 's exactly what i'm searching...
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Posted: 2/10/2006 11:07:00 AM | Honesty is the always best policy.
Ask. Start a conversation. What he wants will become evident soon enough. | |
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Posted: 2/10/2006 10:12:33 PM | i've been trying to figure it out...
what is you guys want...
there seems no way to win...
if we're nice... we're to nice...
if we're ****es... we're too ****y...
we don't give you sex... too hard to get...
sleep with you... too easy...
aarrghhhh!!! Too easy? No such thing.
It sounds like you've been getting played.
That's how the jerks you end up with manipulate/control you;
They quickly analyze you, and then play on the characteristics you project. If you're too shy, they'll complain they can't talk to you like they can with [another girl's name here]. If you're opinionated and speak your mind, they'll complain you have problems (or that you're b!tchy). If you come off as nice, you're right, they'll complain that you're too nice.
See, that's all being a player really is; It's the art of mastering being a WHINY LITTLE 3!TCH.
By doing this, they instill fear. Fear is the biggest remote control anyone can have over someone else's life. They fool you into thinking that you better change/adapt for/to them or that you'll lose them (they already know that they don't really want you at this point). When you DO change, they own your life (as long as the sex is decent (or at least readily available), they won't mind keeping you around). It gets worse and worse until they convince you that you "love" them, and then you'll even marry them! Then the game gets really interesting to these big kiddie COWARDS!
Good luck.
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Posted: 2/14/2006 1:41:33 PM | Romeo...
I gotta give it to you...
You're right!!
It's just makes me wanna SCREAM!!
Arrrrggghhh...
I'll just be me... | |
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Posted: 2/25/2006 9:12:35 AM | Be yourself... live your life and you meet guys with the same interests... Then as far as sex is concerned...do it when you feel it, the way you like it...if you do stuff you like it will be good and no idiot will refuse a second shot at it. Oh yeah and why not keeping some mystery around you... no one needs the whole nine yards in 24 hours. Desire grows with imagination. Oh yeah and make him feel like a man, your man, not a boy and for that you need to be a woman...
Take care, | |
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Posted: 3/4/2006 6:55:19 PM | You get the fish you bait for....so the answer is maybe in you?
Personaly i want all of her! i give myself completly into a relationship and expect the same. You deserve the best and so do I. | |
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Posted: 3/9/2006 5:58:41 AM | hmmm...
What you are experienceing, is the EXACT same thing I experience with women.
I believe that men and women are inherently the exact same. (except for the plumbing and body parts, of course)
cest vrai! | |
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Posted: 4/20/2006 7:37:21 PM | Dramaprincess,
I believe that when you meet someone who knows what he wants, and he truly cares about you, you will finally stop asking these questions and everything will just fall into place.
Unfortunately, many people (men and women) are still trying to figure things out...
If anyone makes you feel this frustrated... keep fishing :-) | |
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Posted: 4/22/2006 8:45:27 PM | LOL, yea, some men want the world, seriously though, I think some men haven't really made up their mind on what they really want, but do what's best for you, you're the one that has to be comfortable along with the guy, that's why you have to be patient until the right guy for you comes along!
happy hunting! | |
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Posted: 5/1/2006 6:26:00 PM | dramaprincess........i've been trying to figure it out...
what is you guys want...
there seems no way to win...
if we're nice... we're to nice...
if we're ****es... we're too ****y...
we don't give you sex... too hard to get...
sleep with you... too easy...
aarrghhhh!!!
Well I will tell you what we need a good kick in our ass
If you think about it we are responsible for how women act and play there games
If you think about it and really I don’t care what people have to say
But all I can say is that if you think about it
If we did not lie or play games or even wish them dreams to false hopes
To were they break down and cry with no control
That’s why they are the way they are
But don’t worry DramaP remember what goes around comes around no matter what
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Joined: 4/29/2006
Msg: 14 | |
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Posted: 5/2/2006 5:32:01 PM | I can't speak for all of us, but I can tell you what I want,
Someone i can call me best friend.
Someone i can love.
Someone that will love me back.
Someone i can hold when they are down.
someone to hold me when I down
someone that I can look into there eyes and know love is there.
I can go on but I think I have it all, well the main parts anyway. | |
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Posted: 5/3/2006 1:18:00 PM | Personally, I'll just be happy with a woman who knows what she wants...No more of the "I want a guy who'll treat me right, but he has to be a bad boy" crap. There is no such thing. Bad boys are bad boys because they are BAD!!! Notice the word bad? yes. There you go...
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Joined: 2/9/2006
Msg: 16 | |
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Posted: 6/30/2006 6:08:21 PM | hey sexy u know who this is your woman u don't need anyone to hold you held me already and more heheheh any baby it's the long weekend and i will see u tomorrow baby call me later and thanks for today it was awsome love ya lots your my baby now and forever bye sexy butt xoxoxoxox your one and only ...... | |
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Posted: 7/3/2006 2:11:43 PM | Well guys sometimes are forced to ask the same questions about girls too.
What does she want, a bad boy or a nice guy? What does she really want? Of course you'll find people of both genders who aren't in denial or confusion and know exactly what they want in a person but it's those that say one thing yet do the other.. those people can be so infuriating.. 
It's hard to feel sorry for people who set themselves up for disappointment or hurt.
Anyway, all you can do is to be yourself and eventually you'll meet someone who likes you just the way you are. Never change yourself for anybody or else you'll never be truly happy in a relationship.
Ciao  | |
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Posted: 8/12/2006 7:50:55 PM | | sorry girls he did fine the one he can call his friend to love to hold an get hold back an he does look in my eyes to see love. bye. | |
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Posted: 8/13/2006 9:47:13 AM | Funny. When a guy starts a thread about why women are difficult, it gets deleted. When a woman starts a thread about why men are difficult, it stays up.  | |
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Posted: 8/20/2006 8:48:48 AM | | YOU KNOW WOMaN we should just love them who they are .An stop worry about what do guys really want an enjoy the time u have with them .because some one will come a long an then what, u are a lone an on pof again. I do worry to .But i did fine some one on pof. It's going good we do not see each other mush but it is work , but i do ask that what do men really want. I think it to work hard so they can buy there little toys, an to play hard , by the way my man is funfly he is a great guy, 1 month on monday. So stop enjoy the time. Because im enjoy the time with my guy an love him more each day, an that go for men to just stop, | |
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Posted: 9/21/2006 4:28:30 PM | My dear lady,
You have to take men one man at a time. EACH ONE IS different.
Can't find a general rule.
I am a man and I know.
Aslo, we men grow. We don't stick to what we are for a 100 year. We add some
stuff and remove some ways of thinking, desires in life, etc.
I think the best advice for ou will be to watch and monitor your boyfriend, and see what HE WANTS, not "what do guys realy want".
Just handle one man at a time, sweetie.
We, men are most of the time misterious. It's a prety long talk. so I'm not gonna type it all.
Need more advice, let me know through in my profile.
Jimmy. | |
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Posted: 9/22/2006 5:56:32 PM | Action = reaction
But men are undirectional creatures:
Over Possesive? = we run
Over Aggressive? = we run
Drama queen? (no pun) = we run
Cheater? = we run
Liar? = we run
Shallow? = we run
Bitter and/or out for revenge? = we run
Psycho? = we run and run some more
Slut? = some may stop for a while but then run with the rest of us.
Money grabber? = we run and run and run until we catch up with our ever running bankers.
Am amused to see all over this board how people claim that men and women are SO different, when in fact, we all want the same thing: to love and be loved by a normal and balanced person...simply for whom we are;
After all, the human heart beat all the same.
So ask yourself : WHAT do I want? then apply it to your counterpart. | |
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Posted: 9/22/2006 6:44:49 PM | This time I can't agree any less than anything with commonsens. Totally right. I run ASAP as I see those potential. But I can't see everything, sometimes I was told. If I choose to not to believe, I am not a trustful person and I have trust issue. If I choose to believe I am stupid(may end up this way, right?).
The contradiction(s) inbetween will be only the group of people working on this "fomula" and they try to contact and make a move to the group working with this "fomula". At the end, we can call it a lie, or let's polish it calling it "miscommunication".
Result=complaint, bitter, lost, broken heart...etc
Commonsesn, the question dosen't end at "what do I want?" in an honest answer, you need also your counterpart also answer this question as honest as you do. Right? Sad part is there is no judge to give an exact definition on everything.
Can we rely on the Oxfor dictionary to give definition? I wish.
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Posted: 9/22/2006 9:27:05 PM | Z.Z:
Counterpart...honest...also answer.....What do I want....
See some of basic elements of a normal couple in here? honesty, communication, introspection, openning...
Anything start (and end) by you first: If you're honnest with yourself and other, have done your introspection to find your true force and flaws, to remove the mask that you and life forge...and asked yourself what did you want; Then you're in a much better position to be in a couple with someone who did the same path on his/her side...before crossing and joining yours after mutual "evaluation" of value, status and direction.
I didn't wanted to put the entire equation, as it will be too long...but just the first set of stones. ;)
Formula....using a group "recipies" ..mass hysteria........you will see tons of specimen in here, especially in the US part of the forum (yes..no jokes) LOL!
Beware of the wolf among the sheeps.
Now to reconize the wolf is sometime harder..as he is for time to time well disguised...but if you're done your work, you're left with only one direction to survey...and it make it a little bit simpler to found out whos-whos. | |
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