bzyb27
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Joined: 12/21/2005
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Posted: 2/5/2006 1:57:31 PM | | I would love it if someone has the time to review my profile. I have been on here for a little while and I think, as I read others, my profile could use some work. Thank you | |
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Posted: 2/5/2006 2:25:43 PM | Hi sweatheart,
you seem like a very nice lady, but this is my suggestion... get rid of the pics of your daughter? or who ever that kid is... That's fine if you have kids, but I don't think you should post pics of them on a dating service.. it's not exactly a "family" type site, plus there are a lot of weirdo's out there... I won't even put my own pic up never mind someone else's! But, I do think you should put up a pic of you out somewhere having fun, not just sitting at home stuck in front of a computer... show's that you like to live a little.. hope this helps, just my opinion though and everybody's got one!
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Posted: 2/5/2006 6:36:09 PM | I like your profile the way it is. There are two schools of thought about pictures of children, but the most sensical thing I read on the subject pointed out that perverts are very unlikely to sift through ADULT profiles on an ADULT dating site to try to find children's pics. Sadly, there are many, many other places online to find them.
I think if your child is important to you, then you have a right to show her on a profile defining who you are. Better than your car or ATV. I think your main pic is a little somber and would substitute a more inviting, smiley one.
I won't even put my own pic up never mind someone else's!
Um...this seems more than a little paranoid. What might happen if you did post your pic?! Financial ruin? Lack of respect from co-workers? Hair loss? 
But to each his own. *shrug* | |
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bzyb27
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Joined: 12/21/2005
Msg: 4 | |
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Posted: 2/6/2006 11:06:35 AM | thank you guys I appreciate your feedback I think I will take her pic off I have thought about ti and it seems appropriate.
Anyone else? | |
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Posted: 2/6/2006 1:07:46 PM | Ask and you shall receive, just hopefully you won't you loose your britches over it
Your profile...I am going to be honest with you...average at best and that can be troublesome if you are a single mom, in a small town community and choose to smoke occassionally. The pool isn't that big to begin with, anything you can do to improve your odds you should thing about.
I can only comment on your profile which btw, I felt was very warm, genuine and sincere. You gave us a good perspective on who you are and a strong feeling of your moral convictions and outlook on your future.
Where did you fail...well, the same area most seem to fail here in preparing a good profile. You didn't take into account what guys are looking for. Of course they want someone strong and religious in their convictions but they also want Fun, Excitement, Sex and Appreciation...oops I forgot about food and to be left alone to watch sports.
So your profile misses on this key point..I get no sense of the type of man you are looking for, what you see doing together, and perhaps a glimpse of the future. Try and paint that image to be fun, exciting, sexy and warm.
Other than this, more variety of pics...in natural light setting would be great for a couple. Loose the kitten pic if you are going to use one with your daughter in it...overselling domestication which might scare some men away.
And if you can...loose the tabacky sticks...doesn't help you at all with dating.
Best of luck! I think you are great Bana-dito | |
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Posted: 2/6/2006 5:16:58 PM | | the only problem I see with your profile is that if you believe in God don't think that it will bring you problems. There are many religious contacts out here that will be turned off to your profile because you are saying one thing and meaning another. | |
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bzyb27
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Joined: 12/21/2005
Msg: 7 | |
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Posted: 2/6/2006 8:30:43 PM | | great feedback guys , that works for me. I need your honesty I'll see what I can pull out of my brain here and you can take another look. | |
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bzyb27
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Joined: 12/21/2005
Msg: 8 | |
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